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Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by pkv(m): 12:40pm On Oct 20, 2011
Eyah!mayb u no sabi set d congo wella 4 my guy make e shine wella.take heart dear.d ting no get meter so d nxt guy no fit know d mileage, u still b grade 2 4 d tokunbo line.plenty dudes no go mind even me sef
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Gbenge77(m): 12:43pm On Oct 20, 2011
The title of this thread  riles me,damn.Ok,so if a girl loses her virginity to a guy,he must marry her?i
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by lekyar(m): 12:53pm On Oct 20, 2011
lindabon:

wetin p.orn movies get to do with getting dumped . . . .  undecided undecided undecided undecided

Well, OP, chill out, it's just one of those things . Don't dwell on heartbreak, just move on with your life. Next time, dont attach so much emotions to someone until u are really sure of the person ! ! !

@ Ijogzk has revealed an insight into the op's relationship. Obsession with porn definitely shows a proclivity to stray and adventurism. The break was only waiting to happen. And the op led us to believe the loss of her virginity was all new, I lost all my sympathy for her case.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by esert: 1:01pm On Oct 20, 2011
There are 3 things i want to tell u. 1)move on with ur life honest boys dey gabrata for ground dey many dey no dey scarce dont worry god will make a way 2)u will b surpised he wanted to test weda u will make a good wife and tested u if u would give ur body and viginity to him but u failed d test so dont cry about d fact dat he left u becos it might b ur fault 3)if he told u he was going to sleep with u and dump u you would have not gotten into d relationship in first place so dont pray to it dat he would have been honest with u.anyway im sorry for wat happen just pick a lesson frm it
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by bashybabe(f): 1:07pm On Oct 20, 2011
Am not cheap mr pastor preaching abt morality u shld strt d preaching frm ur church cos most pple forming holier than thou att are d worst set of being in life I'm a muslim and I attend a chirstian university which we r forced to go to church all d tym u wanna talk abt morality advise ur fellow xtian sisters who giv dem self cheaply to pastors in d name of deliverance@all other posters y'all are making me forgt my sorrows this is pin:26921323 add me up
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by sandysprax(m): 1:08pm On Oct 20, 2011
otokx:

And see how she posted like she is an innocent girl; nonsense and ingredients.

Because we havent heard the boi's own side of the story,thts why she's appearing pathetic here. Whats the reason for him wanting a break.Someone adviced her to curse the guy with her virginity blood.Do u know how many yrs ago they started knacking each other akpako.They must have been into it for a very long time, thats why she's mad at him.She is now presenting it here as though he did it once and fled.Girls of these days have lost it, their parents send them to the universities as virgins and they come out as boreholes.U better tell whoever is goin to marry u in the future tht u had a boifriend who serviced u for several years before he met u.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by hildaa(f): 1:11pm On Oct 20, 2011
he simply mean that you should get a life and move on, cos he is done with you. the guy is an animal sha angry angry angry
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by yimzy(f): 1:16pm On Oct 20, 2011
Dear take hrt,
move on with ur life, be wise, guys r wicked
remember never 2 make d mistake again,
he may not come bck n even if he does, don't give him the chance again
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by 27naira(m): 1:16pm On Oct 20, 2011
(1) There's always a first time.
(2) He needs a "break" is no crime.
(3) Maybe you disvirgined him as well
(4) ***From an earlier post, He wanted to "experience the world" and you're loving the right guy at the wrong time
(5) In your next world, LISTEN TO YOUR MOTHER and zip up.

Its no big deal, and quit making the guy seem like a sonofabitch, maybe you nagged him outta the door. Sorry.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by 27naira(m): 1:17pm On Oct 20, 2011
yimzy:

Dear take hrt,
move on with your life, be wise, guys r wicked
remember never 2 make d mistake again,
he may not come bck n even if he does, don't give him the chance again

mmh?

so girls are not wicked? see your life?

SMH
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by sleekman(m): 1:27pm On Oct 20, 2011
yimzy:

Dear take hrt,
move on with your life, be wise, guys r wicked
remember never 2 make d mistake again,
he may not come bck n even if he does, don't give him the chance again
27naira:

mmh?

so girls are not wicked? see your life?

SMH
I tire O. Besides has it got anything to do with wickedness or state of mind. Maybe she's not what he expected.
Shit happens.

@lindabon chei you mean die. Woe unto anybody dat crosses ur path but ehn I dey feel u die.
@poster It's obvious he did u well and it's painful. At least some people have hated sex after the first time. My advice take a hike and occupy your mind with more constructive things and you'll be just fine. Some people don't get to feel what ure feeling now. For some it's much worse. Would be nice to come back to the true path and realise yourself again. There's only one way to true happiness. I have a good friend who can show you the way.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 1:32pm On Oct 20, 2011
Sorry, next time don't let your emotions control your reasoning nor your reasoning control your emotions. You still have a full life ahead of you; you can live it to fulfillment at its' best with the help of the maker of life. Give your life Christ if you haven't for he loves you more than you can ever imagine. Pls don't push yourself into any relationship until you are ready for marriage. Wishing the best of all
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by mrscork3: 1:35pm On Oct 20, 2011
All the the self righteous people her blaming the girl must be virgins or got disvirgined on their wedding night.

My sister since you are just new into the game stop crying it has happened to must women 99.9% of women dont marry the person that disvirgined the so join the club and dont kill yourself.

Your case is not special infact it is the norm
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by jakesund(m): 1:45pm On Oct 20, 2011
If only you had faced what your parents sent you to school to learn. . .you wont be passing through this mess. . .  undecided tongue  

just remember that your parents are busy working their a.s.s off to send you to school. . .while you're busy opening your ppunani for a guy who would "NEVER" marry you. . .smh   angry
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Orikinla(m): 1:53pm On Oct 20, 2011
I can help you to regain your virginity. grin

I will just seal it again.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by chines4(m): 2:02pm On Oct 20, 2011
@Bashybabe,

Pull u'r self together, Life is just like that, but have a positive attitude, the way u'r feeling may affect u'r self esteem and its not good. No man is worth your tears, and the one that is worth it will not make you cry. Have a positive attitude, its for better, if he goes its because there is need for you to have space for a butter guy to come it.

And the issue your virginity, 90% of married women that you see today, did not loss there virginity to their husband. and 99% of the married men did not even remember the lady that took their virginity. So don't cry about that, beside a lady told me that virginity is out of fashion.

Keep your head up and wipe u'r tears, Be happy so that u'r beauty will continue to shine, and he will be wondering if he is a fool to lose you.
Life is too short to be sad
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 20, 2011
Orikinla:

I can help you to regain your virginity. grin

I will just seal it again.
[size=14pt]Orikanla the great womanotologist! grin grin Tu aile Baba O! grin grin[/size]
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by pynkspyce: 2:11pm On Oct 20, 2011
pour acid on him. just kidding. Find solace in ur bible or Quran, there is this thing called Karma, what goes around comes around.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by lekyar(m): 2:35pm On Oct 20, 2011
mrs-cork:

All the the self righteous people her blaming the girl must be virgins or got disvirgined on their wedding night.

My sister since you are[b] just new into the game[/b] stop crying it has happened to must women 99.9% of women dont marry the person that disvirgined the so join the club and dont kill yourself.

Your case is not special infact it is the norm

@ op has inveigled most poster to feel the dis-virginity thingy is all new. Check the thread again and see the post of @Ijogzk.
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 2:45pm On Oct 20, 2011
brainpulse:

4 point agenda for him

1. Let us have his pictures to warn other ladies to run away from him
2. Let us have his Phone no to call and beg him if possible
3. Let His Parents Know about it
4. Let his church or mosque know about it

He as made your life miserable . pls make his own misarable as well. But if you dont know how . We will help you at Nairaland this is the reason why we are here. Just let us have is phone number- his life will never remain desame again.

kai!!!! so a man cannot change his mind? a man cannot fall out of love? should he remain with her even if he wishes not too any longer?! what kind of DESPERATE person would want to be with such a man?

listen to what you are even writing: "get his number to BEG him"!!!! i doubt someone can go any lower in the desperation scale after that!
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Holorunloseyi(m): 4:14pm On Oct 20, 2011
That is how life comes and go,you involve and you are not.just move on you were wit him is not forget wat is done is done it an eye opener welcome to womanhood
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by PurestBoy(m): 4:37pm On Oct 20, 2011
[size=16pt]Didn't u enjoy his dickson?? Were we there when u guy were hanging out and buying things for you, I'll add your PIN now, I need to see you and hear full details. Don't worry, I'll repair ur broken heart[/size]
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by moHot(f): 4:43pm On Oct 20, 2011
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@op
you will surprised that your guy might even be a nairalander grin grin
tis notin new, it just means you have become wiser i.e if you chose to be, my advice to you is to zip up henceforth
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nwamama1: 4:50pm On Oct 20, 2011
My dear take heart, Such is Life, besides is one of those things
Well some days are like that, Just move on,


LIFE GOES ON,
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by zealot4me(f): 4:56pm On Oct 20, 2011
HE DISVIRGINED U OK !
NEXT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Nobody: 4:58pm On Oct 20, 2011
Experience is da best teacher.He's gone 4 real.Its all about falling 4 da wrong person at the right time.Just don't let the memories haunt u
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Revolva(m): 5:16pm On Oct 20, 2011
Mugu why do you have to come here and tell us, Hiss, its either you get chop or you chop person , na jungle you dey oo for this life
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Revolva(m): 5:25pm On Oct 20, 2011
Mugu why do you have to come here and tell us, Hiss, its either you get chop or you chop person , na jungle you dey oo for this life
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Skii(m): 5:44pm On Oct 20, 2011
mrs-cork:

All the the self righteous people her blaming the girl must be virgins or got disvirgined on their wedding night.

My sister since you are just new into the game stop crying it has happened to must women 99.9% of women dont marry the person that disvirgined the so join the club and dont kill yourself.

Your case is not special infact it is the norm

I tire O. Just to confirm, so many females on the thread all with something to say. It sure takes one to know one

Poster, here is my advice, from where you are now there is a tendency for you to be less resistive sex wise, so be conscious of that in your next relationship
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by linksandy4: 6:32pm On Oct 20, 2011
The best ting na to cut the guy pio
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Mojibola(m): 8:30pm On Oct 20, 2011
I lost mine too cry cryme dad bought me a new one, i think it's like 500 naira or so grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin wink
Re: He Dumped Me After I Lost My Virginity To Him by Kosigift(f): 9:32pm On Oct 20, 2011
@poster, d fact dat many people here are giving u heart 2 take wouldn't change nofin. For me, i wud  say go ahead and cry, slap urself, beat urself, do anytin u want 2 urslf buh don't kill urself o, when u are through, u can then return 2 ur studies and take them more serious!

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