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|How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by trinigirl1(f): 11:48pm On Sep 12, 2007|
I have a burning question. Every now and then my man asks me "Why do you love me"? And honestly, I'm stumped, because I love him unconditionally, not because he does anything for me, just for who he is, good and bad. So I give him one thing I admire about him, like I might say "I love you because you're strong, you're a survivor, and you always manage to make any difficult situation still work in your favour in the end".
He just gets quiet, and I'm not quite sure what he's thinking.
Please tell me, is there a particular way a man wants to be loved/seen by his woman?
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by naijacutee(f): 12:22am On Sep 13, 2007|
That, my sister, is the million-dollar question.
Subcribes to thread.
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by tundewoods(m): 12:28am On Sep 13, 2007|
Men want to be loved for who they are and not what they are or have.
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by labiyemmy(m): 1:05am On Sep 13, 2007|
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by trinigirl1(f): 1:13am On Sep 13, 2007|
ok fine. but what do they want to hear when they ask the question "Why do you love me?"
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by Raymond88(m): 1:22am On Sep 13, 2007|
Men want to be loved with good hot sex.
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by chaloo(m): 1:54am On Sep 13, 2007|
Why they ask such a question from a Lady? Probably, because they are not sure about themselves. A man who is sure about himself would not ask such a question.
What answer they would like to hear from a woman? Probably, unneccesary praise.
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by henry007(m): 1:57am On Sep 13, 2007|
unless eve asked adam such a dumb question, then i can give u a reasonable answer
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by ssRhino: 2:47am On Sep 13, 2007|
trini- when u asked such question, be honest about it, but every man wanna be loved, cos of who he is, and cos of his being, and his heart and not cos of his pocket or looks
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by fatty27: 4:41am On Sep 13, 2007|
you are wrong, ma.
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by swiftycool(m): 9:16am On Sep 13, 2007|
when u've got a reason 4 loving someone, its not unconditional, what if he gets weak, disabled, ugly from a disfiguring accident (fire, acid), cant perform anymore (in bed) 4 some resons, acquires a terminal disease, becomes broke, loses his means of livelihood or is degraded amongst fellow men. Would u still love him?
if you truely can then u really do love him. But we guys know very few women can do all that, when all d chips r down. So we just mostly take ur "I love yous" 4 face value!
ONLY MOMMAS can love u that much! or do u think she has a reason 4 loving u? Nah she just does nomatter how useless, and bleeped up u get.
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by hucarson(m): 9:41am On Sep 13, 2007|
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by saucekid(m): 12:22pm On Sep 13, 2007|
you wont expect a man to tell ya how he wants to be loved,
a man shows you how he wants to be loved
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by NaJaHaJe(f): 12:40pm On Sep 13, 2007|
I think he's insecure hence why he's seeking assurances for you. You are acting like his mirror mirror on the wall.
Love better expressed through action rather than words.
Yes it is important to say 'I LOVE YOU' every once in a while; but that does not equate any absent actions.
when next he asks you that question;,,,,,, go close to him, hold him, look him in eye and ask him in a sultry voice;,,,,,,
baby, why u want to know?
|Re: How Do Men Want To Be Loved? by Easybaby(f): 12:43pm On Sep 13, 2007|
chaii . . . this love issue again
*Reaching for my menthols*
*i will be back shortly*
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