Hello all.A young family friend approached me today and told me this,and that he needed an advice.i told him to wait dat i ve somethings doing,so he should check back.He said he met a lady about 5 months ago.Said she is ok character wise and she told him she has had only a single bf in d past and dat they seperated after about 3yrs cos he(the Ex) wasnt seriouse wt the relationship and dat nothing happened b/w them.He was surprise 4 days ago when onething led to another when they are 2geda and he found out that she is not was she claims.He wanted to know maybe he should ask her about it or remain sillent.Though it doesnt matter much to him(Virginity) but he was amazed he could be lied to.Pls My People what should i tell him.

She didn't say she was a virgin, she said, nothing happend between she and her previous lover.

Gosh some people need a brain implant.

why do you guys care so much about the other party's previous relationship?
I do not know how Nigerian people think.
Even in my own country (used to be very conservative), people nowadays will not care a lot about it.

SMH! !
If the guy in question was not a virgin himself, tell him to suck it up.

@ post

poster from your story she never said she was a virgin she just said nothing happened btwn them doesn't mean she never hooked up with someone else. Besides how did your friend find out she wasn't a virgin? what because he didnt see blood? or because he entered easy? the science teachers need to go back to school because they are doing a very bad job of educating our kids

smh

Poster d way u fabricated ur story tells me u will make a bad actor , u no sabi dramatise at all .Tell us strx wen u (not ur claimed friend)wan nack ur babe akpako u dive in strx so it pissedd u off since she claim she neva samba .Don't b hurt u both leftovers jare test each odas skills in bed and call it a day mannnn

These kind of stories are a result of worshipping virginity.Making it a small godess and any girl not worshipping it is branded evil and lose.
So do you expect the prostitute on the street to claim shes not one if she knws admiting will to ruin her chances of getting/keeping a guy?
I advocate for virginity b4 marriage for religious reasons but if I were a guy I wld pick a non-virgin angel than a virgin drama filled witch,

@tnx for the reply all,but the question remain unanswered.should he keep it to himself or asked the lady in question.she indeed said she is a Virgin.@idowuogbo.dat was close but u r wrong,i m not down wt dat bullshiiitte,i ve got other things to look out for in girls

please how did your friend know she wasn't a virgin? is it that he didn't see blood? please tell that your friend not every girl bleeds on her first time phewwwwwww

@Natasha.The details i dont have,and i cant ask about it.question remain unanswered.

if he wants to marry her only cos shes a virgin. Den he doesnt love her!
She didnt lie abt it,she said she wasnt initmate with her previous lover!
hasnt he disvirgined other men fiances too.

hey guys come off it who so ever come up with this virginity and virtue thing must have taken d world for a ride virtue is in d ladies not in their pu***y

You believed her when she told u she has dated for almost 3 yrs wit her virginity intact?