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Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by femmy2010(m): 7:43pm On Oct 23, 2011 |
For me i do say Public breastfeeding is not appropriate because it violates common standards of decency. what is the take on NLers on this? |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by MissIfe(f): 7:59pm On Oct 23, 2011 |
It depends how it's done. I occasionally had to breastfeed in public, but nobody ever saw my breast, I used to carry a large scarf to cover the baby's head. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by r231(m): 8:04pm On Oct 23, 2011 |
if its covered up |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by bekay911(f): 8:13pm On Oct 23, 2011 |
depends on how its done. When ma mum is breastfeeding she always wear a type of bra dat has a specialised buckle or hook at d niple, so wen d babe is hungry she just unhooks it wtout bringing out her boobies |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by OYINBOGOJU(m): 11:22pm On Oct 23, 2011 |
Maybe in Nigeria it is because most women don`t have enough cash to buy what they require. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Hotstepper(f): 1:16am On Oct 24, 2011 |
people can buy the nursing canopy, very essential |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by blank(f): 5:42am On Oct 24, 2011 |
Abeg abeg. Pikin dey hungry, u go just bone am cos people might get offended? Smh. In UK, it is illegal to discriminate against someone breastfeeding. In Nigeria, I am yet to see anyone stop me. In fact, people are always very helpful and don't mind at all. U can try and cover up as much as possible but if not, it is not a crime neither is it inappropriate. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Outstrip(f): 5:45am On Oct 24, 2011 |
Not a big deal. The baby is eating. It is the person that is thinking of it as sexual that has the problem. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by femmy2010(m): 11:11am On Oct 24, 2011 |
Miss_Ife: Doing it this way is cool. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by blank(f): 12:38pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
^^^^^ Whether it is cool or not, if u see a mother feeding her baby, jejely remove your eyes from her breasts if you feel it is inappropriate. Has she asked for your advice? |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Tgirl4real(f): 1:00pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
lol u neva see baby wey go jump slap you if you no gree breastfeed am I do not see anything wrong o. Jump that our funky mums prefer their babies go hungry than breastfeeding in public. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by femmy2010(m): 1:02pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
@blank, I hear u ooO. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Bre[i]a[/i]st feeding in public is okay - as long as the nursing mother is discreet. If she just whips out a br[i]e[/i]ast, and lets it all hang out in a public area, not cool. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by ElmA1(f): 11:52pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
[color=#550000][/color] If its covered. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by tpia5: 12:52am On Oct 25, 2011 |
since people mind, just cover the bosom with a wrapper or scarf while feeding. i dont really get the uproar over the topic. if you wear a loose blouse, you can just slip the baby under it. arent nursing mothers supposed to wear loose tops anyway? leaking milk, etc. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by mutter(f): 8:02am On Oct 25, 2011 |
Femmy, after squeezing and sucking your mothers breast you now want to deprive other babies of the same? The joy of breast feeding is not just the milk but also the body contact the baby has. So if you are so particular about hiding the baby under a cloth I hope the baby is still content and not suffocating under the cloth. That does not mean one should fling their breast out indiscriminately. No third party can stop me from giving my baby what it wants and what is good for it, anytime or anywhere. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 25, 2011 |
mutter: As a mother (and probably a more mature one) your uncouth manner of addressing another, and specifically your rude reference to his mother is disturbing. Everyone has the right to an opinion, besides, Femmy did not state others should not br[i]e[/i]ast feed in public. He stated his opinion. Get it? HIS opinion. Next time, consider that, engage your brain before you open that gape in your face, and castigate someone else, and refer to their mother in such a derogatory manner! |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by mafolayomi(f): 4:59pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Siena: . haba Mr Siena, i guess the poster was only joking na. and i guess Femmy too understood that |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by ronkebp(f): 5:35pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Ok now, with our generation, i do not think it is apropriate for a lady to bring out her breast gbaga!!!! in public all in the name of breast-feeding a child, don't get me wrong i breast fed outside, but in a secluded place, where no one would see me, moreover, there are so many things that you could use to coverup the ''good ladies''. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
ronkebp: Ronke, you got it dead right. Discretion is key here. Some mothers are so adept, you could share a park bench with them, whilst they nursed an infant, without being aware a baby was feeding. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by femmy2010(m): 6:16pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Siena: [color=#000099]Thanks for coming to my aid. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by femmy2010(m): 6:21pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
I think that a lot of the reason that people are against breastfeeding in public is because they see breasts as sexual in nature thought it is not. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Dede1(m): 12:59pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
@OP When did your bosom become a sight of death? What is wrong in sighting a bosom, woman or man? The world is turning into something trivially idiotic that seeing a bosom or a woman breast-feeding a baby is now sacrilegious. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
Dede1: I think you're missing the point here. Obviously the purpose of this thread went right over your head. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by muyoto: 5:57pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
It depends on what you mean by public. I was in the banking hall once--a [i]very [/i]public place by most standards--when the lady seated next to me, perhaps in an effort to quieten her noisy baby, whipped out the WHOLE DAMN THING and shoved it into the baby's mouth. the thing--large and flabby as it was-- was fully exposed and she made no attempt to cover it. An EFFING BANKING HALL FA PETE's SAKE!!! Now that was not just inappropriate, but obscene, if you ask me. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Dede1(m): 7:17pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
Siena: Do you ever realize a sentence conveys a thought and not what you would like to make out of it? I do not know how you and the poster arrived to conclusion that publicly breastfeeding a baby violates common standard of decency. Again, what is indecency in breastfeeding a baby in the public and who the hell set such common standard of decency such action violates? Probably eating any food in public also violates common standard of decency. Ironically it is appears there are too many goofy people on family section of this forum. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by tpia5: 7:24pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
I was in the banking hall once--a very public place by most standards--when the lady seated next to me, perhaps in an effort to quieten her noisy baby, whipped out the WHOLE DAMN THING and shoved it into the baby's mouth a reason why nursing mothers need to wear large, loose blouses when going out with their baby. in addition, breastmilk can be bottlefed these days. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
Dede1: Please show me (and quote) anywhere I stated public br[i]e[/i]ast feeding a baby violates common standards of decency. Or are you making an assumption here? |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
tpia@: Sure, expressed milk is an option, but some babies don't like being bottle fed, regardless of the milk within. My daughter certainly didn't take a bottle, till she was 7 months old. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by blank(f): 7:58pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
Of course guys will say it is "inappropriate". They have not been stuck with a cranky baby while trying to get things done. If you have finished the bottled milk nko? Will u go to a "private" place to pump and then come to the "public" to feed the baby? If you were not able to cover up nko and the breast is exposed, so what? Smh. Make person try tell me that kain nonsense na dat time dem go no say mothers are not smiling. I don't know if it is just me but i find this topic highly offensive. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by tpia5: 8:01pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
if you're a nursing mother going out with your baby, wear a blouse that facilitates breastfeeding without exposing the whole breast. no big deal and nothing to get offended about. nobody said it was easy pacifying a cranky baby. |
Re: Is Public Breastfeeding Appropriate? by Smilenw(f): 8:30pm On Oct 29, 2011 |
When the baby is hungry and when there is absolutely no other way out, there is nothing wrong in breastfeeding in public. The mom could wear nursing undergarments , use a thin shawl or scarf , turn around from the public etc. There is nothing more annoying than a mom who forgets to cover up her body even after her lil one has had his fill and goes on to display her bosoms for the whole world to see. Having said this, I remember reading about a mom who was flying out of her country for the first time with her 4 month old and she had to feed her baby during take off. The woman promptly used the blankets provided to cover up her parts while feeding the baby only to find out in a couple of minutes that her baby was suffocated to death !!! |
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