Boyoorisha:

Please people I need your advice on this issue: There is this girl that I was supposed to marry but did not work out. She is now married but not happily. Each time she had a fight with her hubby, she would always tell me and ask for money for upkeep. She called me again yesterday and told me about another fight, this time the hubby almost send her parking! Now he has refused to give her money as the hubby locked the draw where he keeps money for her upkeep. She has requested for another help but I am relunctant cos I would not also take that as a man. Is it right if I give her the money not for anything in return but as a help?

Moeisha. as loong as giv you punnny, why not?

Mr, Cork:

Moeisha. as loong as giv you punnny, why not?
I'm not interested in her punny

slimyem:

is she handicapped?why is she living off a man??
Op,Tell her to go get a job and stop fighting her husband and you should stop giving her money henceforth.

Dyt:

get er a job

slimyem:

is she handicapped?why is she living off a man??
Op,Tell her to go get a job and stop fighting her husband and you should stop giving her money henceforth.

born2fuck:

Give her the money since both of you separated without hurting each other, unlike my ex girlfriend whom was a devil,I still give her 1k when I jam her for bus stop , but make sure you do not nak marry woman Apkako , me no support Apkako on married woman

No Qualms:

OP, u have your answer

Boyoorisha:

I am relunctant cos I would not also take that as a man.

And yet?

Not so simple, we're out of this relationship so it's easy to say "go" but what about what they built, her feelings, and others elements we don't even imagine that link them
Op, let's try to follow your instinct and your heart you know her more than us so you know more how to deal with, so if she need it just giver her

ElmA, :

@poster. Get her a job!

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Hmm!
You made the first mistake when you gave her the first time! This is a married woman for gawd's sake! If you are this woman's husband, and you find out that there is a stand by man out there that gives her money, whenever she misbehaves, how would you feel? I can categorically tell you, that it is because of the money you give to her that gives her the impetus to disobey, and fight her husband! Now, Mr Generous, if this marriage collapses, are you willing to cater for this woman? Why should you give her money? Are you her father, her brother who? Have you advised her to always respect her husband? Why start what you cannot realistically finish? Giving her money might not be totally wrong in "some" cases, but Giving her money continually anytime she fights with her husband, is an encouragement to her. . .

Na ya money. Anything wey you wan use am do, na im you go do. We fit hala from now till thy kingdom come make you no give am, but if you wan give am, nobody go stop you. You carry mata give Matthias, Matthias haff talkinson. . . [/size]