Outstrip:

Why do people just take people's kindness for foolishness. This is why sometimes it pays to just be a mean Bottom NaughtyWoman. Imagine moving his girlfriend in. the girl too no get shame. Anyway poster stay there and be asking questions. When you get home today she would have given birth to twins and moved her mother in to do omugo

ifyalways:

@Kode[b],invite your babe over.[/b]
Women have their own way of throwing out unwanted guests so Invite your babe,inform your friend that your babe is coming over for some days and leave the rest for the ladies.

ifyalways:

@Afam,The only language Nigerians living in Nigeria understand is 'roforofo'.If you wanna play gentleman,you can as well kiss your dough goodbye.
Well,not to appear rude;send the debtor an sms at around 8 am and inform him that you have an urgent need for your money hence you would stop by at his/her place by 11 am to pick the money.You have achieved 2 things:
Remained cool and non-abusive.
Asked for your money as opposed to asking for "when" you'd get the money.

The debtor should be ashamed not you.Next time,Never ever give out money you can't afford to lose especially to a friend,family or colleague.Chances are you'd lose both plus your sanity.

ifyalways:

@Kode,invite your babe over.
Women have their own way of throwing out unwanted guests so Invite your babe,inform your friend that your babe is coming over for some days and leave the rest for the ladies.



@ifyalways, this is very true. I just pulled that on a fellow recently and it worked perfectly. Imagine a visitor turning me to a visitor in my own house.

Koolking:

mehn, this is a predicament. Knowing your friend quite well, talk to him about his gf he invited over without an opinion from you. Your friend to me is not acting matured and is taking advantage of your kindness. I trust chats will help sort things out.

nanidee:

Lol,  This story sounds too familiar.

My boyfriend was faced with exactly the same situation as the OP, infact, his was worse, because this was a serviced apartment, meaning extra pay, and not only did his friend and girl friend stylishly move in with him, they were practically living off my boyfriend. Eating up everything in the fridge, drinking everything, and the most annoying part was receiving visitors and serving them drinks, food et all.
This leech of a friend claimed he wanted to be closeby because of some meeting he had to attend, and as he put it, "his place was far from town".
Voila!!! He slowly brought his belongings, and before you knew it, his very fat girl friend landed as well.

Geeezzz!!!! When I realized what was going on, and knowing my guy to be very easy going and courteous, I had to step in sharp sharp.

*first things first, i made it clear that no one should take anything  I put in the fridge, as I would not take it lightly. Then I took up the responsibility of buying the groceries  
* next I made the kitchen quite uncomfortable for the fat a*as girlfriend, when I realized that she only goes in there to cook my boo's food for her and her boyfriend, without even caring to make some for my boo. ( that was the height)
* I insisted that no one touches "my food stuff" yes! I called it mine
* I made sure I cooked some really appetizing meals, just for me and my boo, made sure they saw it, and whenever the guy asks
for some,  I politely say "sorry, my baby might want some more. You know he works so hard to make enough money to pay the bills, and I don't want him to get hungry at any time" and then, I'll suggest he eats some bread as there's some in the cupboard.


Trust me, with the nasty attitude I put up, (especially remembering to sing Jason De'rulo's - don't wanna go home) anytime I see them, it wasn't long before the fat a*as girlfriend moved out. Lol.

The boyfriend decided to be stubborn and stay back, that's when I started getting real nasty. Trust me, even my boo started to get soo uncomfortable, that he quickly consented when I suggested we go spend the weekend in a hotel.

The leech had no choice but to leave, since he couldn't pay for the serviced apartment for the little time that my boo wasnt going
to be around.

After that incident I became unnecessarily nice whenever he calls my boyfriend. I would even shout "hello, longest time" over the phone, and sometimes insist on saying "hi" to him.  

Whew,  Sorry for the long story, but I couldnt help remembering this.

So, my advice, like someone said, get your woman to pay you a visit. She'll sort it out in no time. This one requires brute force lol.