YES,
1. If She is a promiscuous girl:
If your girl friend has a roving eye for all those around , in no certain terms will you ever be able to have a secured future with her.Trust is vital in a relationship and if she's not even your trust she's unquestionably not worth being your girlfriend.

2. If She keeps dominating you:

This is the case when your girlfriend keeps ruling your entire life. She doesn’t give you any space and treats you like a child. You should live your life the way you want to. If even after speaking to her, she doesn’t seem to care, it is probably better to end the relationship.

3. If She doesn’t respect you:

Respect is very important in a relationship. And both you and should your girlfriend, should give respect to each other. If you feel that she does not treat you with respect, bring it to her notice and tell her that no matter what the case is, she has absolutely no right to treat you like dirt and make you feel bad about yourself. If she continues with the same behavior, please get away from her.

4. She has some dangerous addiction:

This is the case if your girlfriend has some kind of addiction that can ruin her life. This may be alcohol, drugs, etc. Being with such a female, can actually put you into depression. Sometimes it is even possible that she gets you addicted as well. Hence, it is better to break your relationship with her.

5. If She is after your money:

You cannot possibly be with a girl who is with you only for your money. You feel that she expects you to spend for her all the time and asks you too many questions about your financial status.These are signs of a gold-digger.

6. Efforts are one-sided:

For a healthy relationship, both the partners need to make effort. If you are the only one who is making all the efforts to make the relationship worth, while she is just not bothered, it is time to speak to her. If she still doesn’t try, maybe it is wiser to end things.

7. If She keeps lying to you:

Small white lies can be forgiven. However lying should not reach an extent, where it becomes hard to trust the other person.


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And very rational too!!!!!!

And what if it's the other way around and for example it's the man who is PROMISCUOUS, DOMINATING, DOESN'T SHOW ANY RESPECT, HAS A DANGEROUS ADDICTION, IS AFTER HER MONEY, DOESN'T MAKE ANY EFFORT & IS A COMPULSIVE LIAR?

^ The girl should leave, then!

Ranoscky:

^ The girl should leave, then!

Clearly anyone with such characters is not worth having as a lover na.

True Talk.

you see,
seems the whole naija girl bashing thing is yielding good results.
@op
thanks for your sincerity.

It should go both ways. And "fire?" Men are employing women as their girlfriends now?

@OP
i may be very open minded but i see nothing wrong with #1. why should it be a problem if she enjoys whats around her, it's not like she is doing anything wrong. now, if she starts to wink at these guys or even send them her number THEN thats wrong but i sure dont see anything wrong with looking at something that SHE deems "nice".
dont we all like to look at sexy women (when we see one)? is there anything wrong with that? the important point is to remember NEVER to cross the line.

as for #3, Respect should be wider and not only towards YOU. if she doesnt respect your family , friends OR if she doesnt respect HERSELF, then you should also drop her. can you imagine dating a gal that respects you but insults your mother? kai!!!!

as for your list, you forgot a few ones:
#8 she keeps comparing you with her exe or wants to keep up with the Joneses
saying once in a blue moon that her ex was this or that is understandable BUT when everything you do is compared to her ex then you have to let her quickly knows to drop the comparison OR to simply tell her:"biatch shut the fukc up, if your ex was that great, you would still be with his sorry a[b]s[/b]s!" if this doesnt work then she MUST be dropped.

#9 she is with you for the wrong reasons.
status, body clock, desperation, peer pressure etc are some of the common reasons why many people settle with strangers . . . . . . . . such r/ship rarely go the distance, and if it does, it is for the "wrong reasons".

#10 she has no ambitions and killing your dreams
nothing worse that someone who will stop you from achieving anything in life, because of their insecurities. Dream wisely but DREAM BIG, whether married or not!!!!

#11 she is untrustworthy/dishonest or simply cant open up when it matters.
if you have to sleep with an eye opened all the time OR have to guess what is on her mind (the whole time) then you best drop that damsel FAST!!!
many people believe that because they date someone then they MUST trust them automatically, lol. it should be gradually earned along the road of your r/ship, nothing more.

#12 the emotional wreck
you know the type, right?! you tell her something meaningless and it turns into a 5hrs debate on how her feelings were hurt etc quick to shed tears for no reasons, get mad for no reasons, throw temper tantrums for no reasons, pack her bags for no reasons, confrontational for no reasons and, the worst of them lot, give you the silent treatment for no reasons.

and one i have experienced not so long ago: #13 women who have their period dictate their moods during 2weeks of every month.
having some mood swings (once in a while) is no biggie but when she is in a "bad mood" for 1 week because of PMS, then another 1 week of bad mood because she is on her PERIOD, then that means half of the time this person is  a mess.
trust me on that one, YOU BETTER RUN!!!!

MRbrownJAY:


as for your list, you forgot a few ones:
#8 she keeps comparing you with her exe or wants to keep up with the Joneses
saying once in a blue moon that her ex was this or that is understandable BUT when everything you do is compared to her ex then you have to let her quickly knows to drop the comparison OR to simply tell her:"biatch shut the fukc up, if your ex was that great, you would still be with his sorry a[b]s[/b]s!" if this doesnt work then she MUST be dropped.

MRbrownJAY:

@OP
i may be very open minded but i see nothing wrong with #1. why should it be a problem if she enjoys whats around her, it's not like she is doing anything wrong. now, if she starts to wink at these guys or even send them her number THEN thats wrong but i sure dont see anything wrong with looking at something that SHE deems "nice".
dont we all like to look at sexy women (when we see one)? is there anything wrong with that? the important point is to remember NEVER to cross the line.

as for #3, Respect should be wider and not only towards YOU. if she doesnt respect your family , friends OR if she doesnt respect HERSELF, then you should also drop her. can you imagine dating a gal that respects you but insults your mother? kai!!!!

as for your list, you forgot a few ones:
#8 she keeps comparing you with her exe or wants to keep up with the Joneses
saying once in a blue moon that her ex was this or that is understandable BUT when everything you do is compared to her ex then you have to let her quickly knows to drop the comparison OR to simply tell her:"biatch shut the fukc up, if your ex was that great, you would still be with his sorry a[b]s[/b]s!" if this doesnt work then she MUST be dropped.

#9 she is with you for the wrong reasons.
status, body clock, desperation, peer pressure etc are some of the common reasons why many people settle with strangers . . . . . . . . such r/ship rarely go the distance, and if it does, it is for the "wrong reasons".

#10 she has no ambitions and killing your dreams
nothing worse that someone who will stop you from achieving anything in life, because of their insecurities. Dream wisely but DREAM BIG, whether married or not!!!!

#11 she is untrustworthy/dishonest or simply cant open up when it matters.
if you have to sleep with an eye opened all the time OR have to guess what is on her mind (the whole time) then you best drop that damsel FAST!!!
many people believe that because they date someone then they MUST trust them automatically, lol. it should be gradually earned along the road of your r/ship, nothing more.

#12 the emotional wreck
you know the type, right?! you tell her something meaningless and it turns into a 5hrs debate on how her feelings were hurt etc quick to shed tears for no reasons, get mad for no reasons, throw temper tantrums for no reasons, pack her bags for no reasons, confrontational for no reasons and, the worst of them lot, give you the silent treatment for no reasons.

and one i have experienced not so long ago: #13 women who have their period dictate their moods during 2weeks of every month.
having some mood swings (once in a while) is no biggie but when she is in a "bad mood" for 1 week because of PMS, then another 1 week of bad mood because she is on her PERIOD, then that means half of the time this person is  a mess.
trust me on that one, YOU BETTER RUN!!!!

wish men do menstruate wonder wat it will b lyk

okay noted

chinaaman:

YES,
1. If She is a promiscuous girl:
If your girl friend has a roving eye for all those around , in no certain terms will you ever be able to have a secured future with her.Trust is vital in a relationship and if she's not even your trust she's unquestionably not worth being your girlfriend.
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Nigerian men are more known with this reputation than the women, so you should be talking more about the men in this regard.

chinaaman:

2. If She keeps dominating you:

This is the case when your girlfriend keeps ruling your entire life. She doesn’t give you any space and treats you like a child. You should live your life the way you want to. If even after speaking to her, she doesn’t seem to care, it is probably better to end the relationship.

Again, NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE KNOWN TO BE MORE SUBMISSIVE than Western women, so, the chance of this happening is very remote

chinaaman:

3. If She doesn’t respect you:

Respect is very important in a relationship. And both you and should your girlfriend, should give respect to each other. If you feel that she does not treat you with respect, bring it to her notice and tell her that no matter what the case is, she has absolutely no right to treat you like dirt and make you feel bad about yourself. If she continues with the same behavior, please get away from her.

Respect is not given on demands, but by merit, in other word, you earn respect as deserved

chinaaman:

4. She has some dangerous addiction:

This is the case if your girlfriend has some kind of addiction that can ruin her life. This may be alcohol, drugs, etc. Being with such a female, can actually put you into depression. Sometimes it is even possible that she gets you addicted as well. Hence, it is better to break your relationship with her.

This still does not apply to Nigerian women, at least, 90% of Nigerian women are free from such.

chinaaman:

5. If She is after your money:

You cannot possibly be with a girl who is with you only for your money. You feel that she expects you to spend for her all the time and asks you too many questions about your financial status.These are signs of a gold-digger,

Yes, this is where Nigerian women (and the men as well) are guilty

chinaaman:

6. Efforts are one-sided:

For a healthy relationship, both the partners need to make effort. If you are the only one who is making all the efforts to make the relationship worth, while she is just not bothered, it is time to speak to her. If she still doesn’t try, maybe it is wiser to end things.

If you say "both", then why is the title of this thread about "firing your girlfriend"?

chinaaman:

7. If She keeps lying to you:

Small white lies can be forgiven. However lying should not reach an extent, where it becomes hard to trust the other person.
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Nigerian men are more of the liars than the women.

chinaaman:

YES,
1. If She is a promiscuous girl:
If your girl friend has a roving eye for all those around , in no certain terms will you ever be able to have a secured future with her.Trust is vital in a relationship and if she's not even your trust she's unquestionably not worth being your girlfriend.

   Nigerian men are more known with this reputation than the women, so you should be talking more about the men in this regard.

chinaaman:

2. If She keeps dominating you:

This is the case when your girlfriend keeps ruling your entire life. She doesn’t give you any space and treats you like a child. You should live your life the way you want to. If even after speaking to her, she doesn’t seem to care, it is probably better to end the relationship.

   Again, NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE KNOWN TO BE MORE SUBMISSIVE than Western women, so, the chance of this happening is very remote

chinaaman:

3. If She doesn’t respect you:

Respect is very important in a relationship. And both you and should your girlfriend, should give respect to each other. If you feel that she does not treat you with respect, bring it to her notice and tell her that no matter what the case is, she has absolutely no right to treat you like dirt and make you feel bad about yourself. If she continues with the same behavior, please get away from her.

   Respect is not given on demands, but by merit, in other word, you earn respect as deserved

chinaaman:

4. She has some dangerous addiction:

This is the case if your girlfriend has some kind of addiction that can ruin her life. This may be alcohol, drugs, etc. Being with such a female, can actually put you into depression. Sometimes it is even possible that she gets you addicted as well. Hence, it is better to break your relationship with her.

   This still does not apply to Nigerian women, at least, 90% of Nigerian women are free from such.

chinaaman:

5. If She is after your money:

You cannot possibly be with a girl who is with you only for your money. You feel that she expects you to spend for her all the time and asks you too many questions about your financial status.These are signs of a gold-digger.

   Yes, this is where many Nigerian women (and the men as well) are guilty

chinaaman:

6. Efforts are one-sided:

For a healthy relationship, both the partners need to make effort. If you are the only one who is making all the efforts to make the relationship worth, while she is just not bothered, it is time to speak to her. If she still doesn’t try, maybe it is wiser to end things.

If you say "both", then why is the title of this thread about "firing your girlfriend"?

chinaaman:

7. If She keeps lying to you:

Small white lies can be forgiven. However lying should not reach an extent, where it becomes hard to trust the other person.


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Nigerian men are more of the liars than the women.

Where do you people get your stats

Am not going 2 waste my time 2 read any lady's reply cos its going 2 be d usual tìt for tat mentality.

rekeson:

Am not going 2 waste my time 2 read any lady's reply cos its going 2 be d usual tìt for tat mentality.

it is tit for tat! what is sauce for goose should be sauce for the gander. every point mentioned above
is observable by both sexes.

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my gf is guilty of all 7 points.i guess i'll have to fire her when she comes around 2nyt

^^
Before or after she gives you punny?