Although getting a girl's number is not one of the easiest things to do in the world, following up on her after getting her number is actually a more difficult thing to do. Many guys usually get it wrong at this stage and if you get it wrong, your chances of winning the girl over is almost zero.

Let's look at it this way. If you succeed in
getting a girls number, what should you do when you get home? Here are the options you're faced with.

1. Call her immediately

2. Call her the next day

3. Wait a few days before you call her

Let's take a look at the three options.

Call Her Immediately

The advantage of this is that you will be following up on her when you're still "fresh" on her mind. If she liked you when you met her and got her number, speaking to her a few hours later won't be a bad idea.

The disadvantage is that you will appear desperate. It will look like you don't have a life and women, especially the beautiful ones do not like that.

Call Her The Next Day

The advantage is that you will still be on her mind the next day. That will encourage the "flow" that started the previous day.

The disadvantage is that you will still appear desperate. If she is a beautiful woman, she will likely have lots of guys falling over themselves to speak to her. If you call her the next day, you will simply join the list of "desperate" guys.

Call Her Days Later

The advantage here is that you will appear to her as someone that is not desperate to have her. It will look like you have a life (you should) and that is what women like. By calling her days later, you will be telling her that you won't be calling her (and bugging her) all the time if you eventually end up dating her.

The disadvantage is that there is a chance she would have forgotten about you. If she is a beautiful girl, a lot of other guys would have approached her and we cannot expect her to remember all the guys she meets.

If we look at the three options above, the best bet is the third option. You have more to gain than to lose. When you call her eventually, just let her know you're the guy that she met a few days ago. Tell her the number you're calling with is your number and that she can call you up if she'll like to. Be brief with your discussion. Make her believe you have a lot to do and make sure you hang us before she does.

Give her space before you call her again. Never put pressure on her. Be laid back. Be arrogant. Be confident. You will have a better chance with her with this approach.

Source: http://www.wazobiablog.com/2011/11/what-to-do-after-she-gives-you-her.html

Thanks! Can I send her sms instead of calling? Or can i blip her daily just to keep me in her memory?

Op,u r a don/key pooh. Why ruin our chances here wit the ladies when you know dis a romance community.
If any girl refuse to give me her nomba here,i will haul ur generation wit tenth century curse

*smh* Now I have known that trick. Una think say una wise. If una like try all the tricks with moi, it won't work.

^^^^op,u now see reasons why i criticise your dumb ash post. Pray agybabe renage on her stance on this or else heaven will welcome another guest

why bother about her?

i will wait for her to call me. Simples

A friend of mine after having a conversation with a girl took her number that. On getting home he called but behold, she claimed she never knew him. The next he coincidentally met her at a bank. She claimed she still didnt know him, While this trick may work for some, it doznt 4 others

Just TXT her, ' hi, wasap, how was ur day?' etc. I usually start by txting.

different views and opinions, Some can call after one-week after.

I will forget him immediately. I won't even give him my number.

i prefer d third option cos if u call her immediately or day after,u'l be d one who will always be calling her evn wn she have acceptd 2 date u.cos u showd her u always have airtime 2 call.she mght evn take u 4 credit lover(airtime lover) who will always send airtime wn she ask.atimes we need 2 shw ds girls dt we worth something too by giving them time n space.dt's my opinion

Or you can as well give her your card and tell her to "give you a call sometime"

Risky_mallam:

Or you can as well give her your card and tell her to "give you a call sometime"

Hell yeah! That is the way to go. Particularly if you work for any of the oil producing companies. In fact, the chic will call you seconds after your departure and will keep calling you every hour afterward. Dem full PH and lag na.

@ OP.
I just wanna ask if midnight calls is acceptable? Because that's what i like. you can talk at lenght and at minimum cost.

fork adict:

@ OP.
I just wanna ask if midnight calls is acceptable? Because that's what i like. you can talk at lenght and at minimum cost.

unacceptable by me. Would not be appreciated. Some Ninja guys sef too like awoof. Prove to be a big guy and call in the day instead of saving #100 for extra cool.

Agybabe:

unacceptable by me. Would not be appreciated. Some Ninja guys sef too like awoof. Prove to be a big guy and call in the day instead of saving #100 for extra cool.

Why is midnight calls unacceptable by you? afterall that is the main reason why network providers approve that facility. Besides, calling during the day doesnt qualify one as a big boy by any standard.