teddydeji:

my dear sister ,let me just give it straight to u that u are carrying an ignited dynamite in your hand which u have to get rid of before it explode in your face.lusting after another woman husband will only bring shame and pain to u.
God wil provide your own husband for u. "FI OKO OLOKO SILE" leave another man's thing alone
a word is enough for the wise

Congolese:

Many moons ago, I was job hunting and got an interview with a multinational company.  I had an initial interview with one of the assistant directors, I was told that the CEO of the company would make the final decision, two days before the big interview I was strolling along for a lunch appointment with an old school friend, when suddenly a figure of this finnnnnnnnnnne man happened to stop me and asked for the time, I looked puzzled as he was immaculately dressed and I decided to be a diva moment and replied "what sort of a man would leave his house without a watch or at least a mobile phone with the correct time, huh".  Then I simply just walked off.    You should have seen his face.    I gisted my friend and we just laughed off thinking it was chat up line and he just wanted to aquaint himself to me.    Two days later, showed up for my interview, nervously waited to be interviewed by the CEO, he finally shows up, Guess who the CEO was, yup, the good looking guy who asked me for the time, didn't know whether to laugh, run, hide, we just looked at each other and started laughing, the attraction was so powerful, only god could have scripted it, to cut a long story short, I got the job, he was married(I was too young and ambitious to care), we connected mentally, physically and spiritually, we both had the best time of our lives, until I reconnected to God and decided it was not good and I broke off all contact, moving house, area, job, number changeetc, Recently bumped into him, he was yelling my name out, after 8 years, boy he still looks good, and that smile, yes we are back together and it does not feel wrong, it feels absolutely right, such is life. If you love him for himself that's different but if you love him because he's your boss and the perks, you'll end up dejected and hurt in the long run.

Congolese:

Many moons ago, I was job hunting and got an interview with a multinational company. I had an initial interview with one of the assistant directors, I was told that the CEO of the company would make the final decision, two days before the big interview I was strolling along for a lunch appointment with an old school friend, when suddenly a figure of this finnnnnnnnnnne man happened to stop me and asked for the time, I looked puzzled as he was immaculately dressed and I decided to be a diva moment and replied "what sort of a man would leave his house without a watch or at least a mobile phone with the correct time, huh". Then I simply just walked off. You should have seen his face. I gisted my friend and we just laughed off thinking it was chat up line and he just wanted to aquaint himself to me. Two days later, showed up for my interview, nervously waited to be interviewed by the CEO, he finally shows up, Guess who the CEO was, yup, the good looking guy who asked me for the time, didn't know whether to laugh, run, hide, we just looked at each other and started laughing, the attraction was so powerful, only god could have scripted it, to cut a long story short, I got the job, he was married(I was too young and ambitious to care), we connected mentally, physically and spiritually, we both had the best time of our lives, until I reconnected to God and decided it was not good and I broke off all contact, moving house, area, job, number changeetc, Recently bumped into him, he was yelling my name out, after 8 years, boy he still looks good, and that smile, yes we are back together and it does not feel wrong, it feels absolutely right, such is life. If you love him for himself that's different but if you love him because he's your boss and the perks, you'll end up dejected and hurt in the long run.

play:

congolese, thank you for the mail, am sory but am just wondering, 8 years, does he want to marry u, are u sure. don't tel me your married because that, another matter.

and really you should not waste your time with him, particularly if he has no plans of marrying u. i understand the connection, have been there. this my boss in question, confides in me, tellsme alot of stuff about his personal life. am like his life line,maybe thats why i am attracted to mhim. there is a unspokn connection between us, which we try to hide with our work. thats why am here helples waiting, hoping that he might say sth. he is seperated u know, but he never talks about his seperation which is why am still in doubt about his marital status. u no, i want to settle down with him, maybe, but i gats to be sure.
lady m, u are so sweet , keep it going