If your friend is in a fix, will you allow him/her to stay with you in your matrimonial home?? Why??

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depends on the friend. We all know our friends and our friends. lmao. Some people are our friends for many different reasons. My Partner in Crime? hell no. I will give the person some money to find accomodation.

My dear it is not a good idea oooo, no matter how much you trust your other half, it is better to avoid fire instead of looking for an extinguisher when it happens.

Personally, i would pray and fast and fortify my house with nails and bullets, before i allow any friend to stay with me and that would be only for 2 weeks tops.

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They trust their husbands but they won't allow their best friend stay with them without fortifying their house with fasting and prayers. . .

NEVA! i'l never alow it.no matter how close we were when i was stil single i wont allow it.even if she was my chief bride's maid.il luk 4 evry posible excuse 2 giv ha.i wont even give devil a loophole cos he can use ANYBODY

Not only will I allow it but I also have in the past put up not only my friends but other women in need.
What is total no go by me is a male visitor. That is only possible if he is father or direct brother. The other option- he is there with his wife. This is because I have daughters and I shall not take chances. I can live with my husband falling on a woman under my roof but I could never forgive myself if I expose my kids to any danger.
I do trust my husband and he is a decent man. I will not however put my hands in fire to vouch for any man or woman not even myself. However the other issue is that with the set up in my home it would be very hard for my husband to come on funny ideas. 10 Kids at home match any detective. More effective than BBC and CNN put together

off course i can and i do. There are always pple staying in our house, friends, cousins etc. My husband is a decent and self controlled man, he doesnt need police. The man has chosen to make life very easy for himeself so i have never had any reason to doubt him.

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off course i can and i do. There are always pple staying in our house, friends, cousins etc. My husband is a decent and self controlled man, he doesnt need police. The man has chosen to make life very easy for himeself so i have never had any reason to doubt him.

:-Seconded.

.yet sometimes it has its other challenges, like usage of things in the house, cleaning and acceptance of attitude to general issues


I have one already in my house for the past 6 months, She is now like the sister i never had.

I can't allow that to happen o! The devil is trickish and anything can happen! A close long term friend who is a nurse was once distressed and I had to accomodate her for a while. My husband was away for a trip at d time. Before I knew it, well meaning people started asking me if I was d one receiving male doctor visitors at home while my husband was away!!!! They were seeing various cars belonging to doctors in our house parking space!! I had to tell my friend that she shd excuse me as it was a taboo in my husband's culture for her to live wt us, so she left b4 he ever returned frm his trip! Talk of giving me a bad image!

ronkebp: My dear it is not a good idea oooo, no matter how much you trust your other half, it is better to avoid fire instead of looking for an extinguisher when it happens.

Personally, i would pray and fast and fortify my house with nails and bullets, before i allow any friend to stay with me and that would be only for 2 weeks tops.

Lol

Don't trust any man when it comes to sex not even a saint.the devil has destroyed many lives by over confidence. A pst's wife went to pass a nite in a family to go for retreat d following day.unfortunately d woman of d house was not around and d woman pass d nite there wit d knowledge of her hubby and d man's wife in d atmosphere of christian spirit. Only for the man to force a kiss on her like rape kiss in d morning suddenly without d woman consent.It caused a serious problem.I will never trust my wife to even angel as far as man-woman chemistry is concerned from my experience.Be careful