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Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by gendebs(m): 1:56pm On Dec 07, 2011
A guy who has no job got married 2 a
banker, despite his fears nd advices dat
it s not gud 2 marry without a job.
Every month d girl wil giv d guy her full
salary N135k after removing her N15k
tithe. The guy wil giv d wife N20k for personal up keep nd guy determines
what happens 2 d remaining money,
dis tin happened for 3gud yrs. Thr was
happiness in d family & d girl never
refuse to do her primary home duty for
dat 3 yrs despite wrong advice from frds. That u can't pay d bills & still be
doing all d work.
Thr was a particular month d guy used
about N70k to travel from state to state
for different interviews. The guy finally got a job with a gud firm
in portharcourt his salary was N600k
monthly for a start. He bought his first car (a brand new)
for N4.5m, he gave d wife d car key. So
he took public transport to work for
about 2years b4 he bought the second
car for N6 million. After he bought d
second car he took d keys of the ist car & gave d wife d key of d second car but
the wife refused, so d guy started
taking public transport to work for one
month. The wife now decided to take
new car for d guy to stop taking public
transport to work. They were very very happy.
They finally moved into thier personal
house after some few years.
1 day, d wife was looking 4 some
documents she now saw a file codedly
hidden, when she opened d file she
saw her wedding picture when she
was very slim in d first page of d file.
She finally saw dat d document to d purchase of d land & every oder things
in d house contains her name only. At d
last page was d guy's wedding picture
nd a note written by d husband, '' MY
WIFE IS ALL I HAVE GOT,NOT EVEN THIS
HOUSE WORTH N24MILLION AT THE TIME I BUILT IT''. This couple got married in 1998. Last
Sunday was their wedding anniversary
with two children a boy & a girl. True LOVE still exists up till this day.
Are you sure, the love you have for
Him/Her can be compared to this one
you just read?
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by fernado56: 2:04pm On Dec 07, 2011
These love is special
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by iice(f): 2:21pm On Dec 07, 2011
Couldn't read it.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by lolaluv1(f): 2:33pm On Dec 07, 2011
Wow!!!  shocked shocked

Is this true? Wow, am speechless!!! There's hope after all. . . .
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Dyt(f): 2:41pm On Dec 07, 2011
patience
blv
strength
GOD i ask 4 all of dis
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Odunnu: 2:42pm On Dec 07, 2011
True love! Thank God the man didnt misbehave.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by LongOne1(m): 2:44pm On Dec 07, 2011
Impressive if true.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Sijo01(f): 3:02pm On Dec 07, 2011
cry cry cry
Somebody tell me diz isnt tru!
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by cynthiafred67(f): 3:17pm On Dec 07, 2011
wow I am speechless. shocked
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by gendebs(m): 3:20pm On Dec 07, 2011
it's a true story. Lov dey say is blind
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Kslib(m): 3:34pm On Dec 07, 2011
kutuma,dis love na symbian love!mehn dis one na GOD just unite dem!
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Dec 07, 2011
i swear, if any girl show me such support without insultin me, my family and my future, i'll do same as d man in d story! But d bitter truth is- No girl in nigeria will do this for any guy! Pls do not tell me nt to generalise, its d plain truth, i knw wat 'm sayin
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Dyt(f): 4:07pm On Dec 07, 2011
^my dear
ladies r nt animal as u tk us
we listen only if u tell us n drop ur ego n pride
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Dec 07, 2011
omg, TRUE love! so theres still love like this? touching story.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by bekay911(f): 4:12pm On Dec 07, 2011
Some Ladies can do dis bt @ d end of d day d guys will giv der love to sum1 else dats d freakin n dangerous dis. Men r unpredictable
@op very touching hope true n sincere men still exists nt platinium diggers
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by slimyem: 4:14pm On Dec 07, 2011
hmmmn.hard to believe!
Besides,men and women these times are worse than the 199x times.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by neyostica: 4:22pm On Dec 07, 2011
Superstory, too perfect
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by 195(f): 4:24pm On Dec 07, 2011
That lady certainly isnt Nigerian
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by bekay911(f): 4:27pm On Dec 07, 2011
Wat makes u fink so. Abi ur sista cant do dis shebi. Guess ryt
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Tinax(f): 4:36pm On Dec 07, 2011
well such things still happn, there is this copl frm my village, the wife is a trader dealin in food stufs and the husband does absolutly nottin, every day she comes bk frm the market,she'll just hand over all her total sales to the husband to arrange nd count with out inspectin him, aftr countin the man will take some for his up keep and give the wife the rest to restock the shop. The man has refusd to get or do any work, totaly dependin on wht the wife makes for total up keep of the family. And she doesn't compln, most times i wondr which kind love be this!
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by 195(f): 4:52pm On Dec 07, 2011
This is not possible in Nigeria

It cant happen

Nor be Nigerian women wen i know undecided
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by bekay911(f): 5:03pm On Dec 07, 2011
@190 aw many 9ja women u knw
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by stpat1(m): 5:22pm On Dec 07, 2011
My guy if u can find a WOMAN that went thru dat for 3yrs then what he has done is nothing. I gbadun d guy sha, he appreciates
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by drnoel: 6:21pm On Dec 07, 2011
true love
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by mykali(m): 6:38pm On Dec 07, 2011
strange. . .will have a hard time believing it, but that doesn't mean its not possible.

something special exists between the both of them . . .which i wouldnt bother trying to comprehend.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Nobody: 8:10pm On Dec 07, 2011
am 6mths pregnant for my ex-bf best friend.he used to tel me heavenly tins til i got pregnant for him,he is nw teln how he finds t dif to tel my ex,nd how he doesnt ave moni,nd how lazy nd stubborn i am because i refuse to abort my child due to my strong beliefs on obeyn Gods wrds.pple r blamn me for kipn my child,his is nt helpn maters,advicn his son wrongly.rite nw i dnt friends,he doesnt evn wnt to no hw i do tins evrytin is jst my biz because i wntd to kip my child no job no moni hw do i do dis,i no d God i serve wunt let me dwn
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by gendebs(m): 8:20pm On Dec 07, 2011
dis story might sound difficult to believe . But it is real, last sunday mark the couple's 13th year anniversary of staying together as husband and wife.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by thebrideng(m): 8:29pm On Dec 07, 2011
I wept when I read this tread. In my friend's case it was reversed. He married his wife 11 years ago, she worked, but he did not know how she spends her money. He don't even know how much she collects. She does not support him in anyway in the house. He gives her transport and feeding allowance everyday. Yet she will never respect him. They married in the Church and that is why he kept on with the marriage. He confesses to me that he is fed up with the marriage.

If truly this type of love exist, then I need one, my friend need one and every true man needs one.

But where can we find it?
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by LesbianBoy(m): 9:14pm On Dec 07, 2011
I agree with 190 on this, the woman is kwesion cant be a nigerian, Period!! No be naija womens wen get one kind of mentality(only God knows where they got it from) that if a man makes moiney its 'OUR MOINEY' but if it is a woman it is 'MY MOINEY!' grin
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Dec 07, 2011
It is a terrible trial for a man to not be able to provide + having a wife that does not understand.

It is also a terrible thing for women to have too many "girlfriends" when they are married.
The less "oh no he didn't gurl  shocked" & "If I was u. . ." noise around a woman when she is married, the easier it is for her to be supportive of her marriage.

What some wives fail to understand is that, okay after being a total b1tch to your hubby when he (both of you) is going thru a hard time. . . . what will then happen after he has overcome the trial and he starts to ball (truly no situation is permanent)? Is that when you want to start giving him fake-arse crocodile smiles? Would you be able to rightfully blame the man if he decides you're not worth loving later? seeing as instead of showing him love in his time of need, you showed your true nature and decided to join the world to curb-stomp him like a worm.
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Goldieluks: 9:55pm On Dec 07, 2011
Op try cutting a long story short abeg!
Re: Can You Love Your Spouse Like This? by Natasha2(f): 10:06pm On Dec 07, 2011
wow shocked shocked Amazing cheesy

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