Not because Nigeria Women arent' completely worthy of every compliment they get, but because some sisters project feelings of suspicion and unworthiness, They don't seem comfortable with being showered with compliments, as if they do got feel beautiful, sexy, and wonderful,

As a man, you feel you are fighting against her image of herself, and as a result, the whole process of getting acquainted becomes a chore, weighted down by negative vibrations, Even a simple and generic hello is something a brother has to THINK about before he actually does it, Hence, as sister freecocoa/Dyt wants to know, that's why you be getting them stares, instead of some convo,

There's a simple solution to that problem, my sisters, and that is to simply let the brother know in some way, that you appreciate his compliments. As you are the uncrowned masters of non-verbal communication, that should not be difficult, but, (smile!)

Bottom line is that just as you all are not obligated to speak or smile at a brother when he greets you, so too, you are not necessarily entitled to those compliments we shower on you ladies, One day, some of you will have only the memories of days when you were told how fiiiiiiiiiine you were, Show a brother how much you appreciate his compliments today, and perhaps those tomorrows will not be filled with your tears,

Peace out!!!

@ OP

that actually got me smiling

^^^You all know you guilty. Keep smiling

Ok
i don hear

Dyt:

Ok
i don hear

Dyt:

Ok
i don hear

hmmmnnn, who dey compliment u self? Nonsense

^^^tehehehe. i smell beef

JAZES:

hmmmnnn, who dey compliment u self? Nonsense

LMAO,

I think the OP is saying Ladies should stop forming?

forming is very fake

And I guess in your little mind. . . .You just made so much sense

funny naija babes

Who are these nigerian girls

Sm fink dey dont worth d complements

Ijogz K:

I love giving compliments when i don't mean them,

i'm quick to recognise flattery and i dont welcome them esp. coming from peeps lyk you.

slimyem:

i'm quick to recognise flattery and i dont welcome them esp. coming from peeps lyk you.

Rashidatu, whatzup

I'm guilty of dis and i repent cos from now on, i'm gonna jst smile and accept all compliments, pple appreciate me daily and i'm like wat, ?cos i'm kinda used to it but ''I REPENT''. I'm gonna just smile every time. tnks poster.

slimyem:

i'm quick to recognise flattery and i dont welcome them esp. coming from peeps lyk you.

was he refering to you? I bet u'r guity of what d OP mentioned

funmeme:

I'm guilty of dis and i repent cos from now on, i'm gonna jst smile and accept all compliments, pple appreciate me daily and i'm like wat, ?cos i'm kinda used to it but ''I REPENT''. I'm gonna just smile every time. tnks poster.

pple appreciate u daily? Hmmm, upload ya pix make we see na

TBH only an ediooot tells an obviously fine lady with a tude (u can sense such) that she is fine. It's essentially a "so what?" thing.
And almost immediately you set yourself up as her ego floormat for the day/night.
Nah it's best to focus on something else other than looks when talking to them. Leave the compliments for your friends, girlfriends and wives.

And it's just hilarious when an ugly one tries to do the same after a pity-complement.

good one

neyostica:

Rashidatu, whatzup

Sefiu,you don chop today?

Henry46:

was he refering to you? I bet u'r guity of what d OP mentioned

i bet you are one of those who compliment gurls even when you don't mean it and you know what?its such a LAME approach.step up your game!

Yes , it can

slimyem:

Sefiu,you don chop today?i bet you are one of those who compliment gurls even when you don't mean it and you know what?its such a LAME approach.step up your game!

LOL!

slimyem:

Sefiu,you don chop today?

Do i look like sefiu to you?? Oro enu o da, anyway i dey come ur village make i come spoil u

By the way, there is nothing wrong with being Rashidatu or Sefiu. This exchange is just funny.

neyostica:

Rashidatu, whatzup

slimyem:

Sefiu,you don chop today?i bet you are one of those who compliment gurls even when you don't mean it and you know what?its such a LAME approach.step up your game!

@OP, very deep and insightful. It takes a man of deep understanding and patience to not only notice, but also put it as succintly as you did. Kudos man. I only hope the ladies here will read and learn.

slimyem:

i bet you are one of those who compliment gurls even when you don't mean it and you know what?its such a LAME approach.step up your game!

isnt dat what you nd ur fellow ladies want? If u think otherwise search within your slimself

maclatunji:

By the way, there is nothing wrong with being Rashidatu or Sefiu. This exchange is just funny.

don't mind the little pr1ck.i already told him i aint dog-friendly but he's so deaf.his is the case of a dog who's gon get lost.

Henry46:

isnt dat what you nd your fellow ladies want? If u think otherwise search within your slimself

i see your mouth moving but all i hear is blah blah blah