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|Ladies: If A Man Wants You by geolabious(m): 3:29pm On Dec 23, 2011|
This advice was passed along to me from a counselor; it was great to hear so I wanted to share it.
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve
then heck no, you can’t "be friends."
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don’t stay because you think "it will get better." You’ll be mad at yourself
a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant,
Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are not dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, There is nothing cute about baggage. Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to complete you. A relationship consists of two whole individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun; even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes. When a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him—he takes it for granted.
Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies.
You’ll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, and an entire lifetime to forget them.
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by 195(f): 3:35pm On Dec 23, 2011|
Arent you women tired
Nigerian women are not interested
if they do these things them nor go fit chop
Neither can they get money to fix brazillian and Black berries too
so this list is useless - Its not applicable to Nigerian women stop wasting their time - biko
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by Andrew3(m): 3:38pm On Dec 23, 2011|
190_@:190 aint you gon marry a naija gurl? you hate em with passion
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by 195(f): 3:39pm On Dec 23, 2011|
^From my calculations
Im guna marry 3 wives (2 foreigners and 1 nigerian) so certainly im guna marry a Nigerian who knows what she wants in life
Not these Junkies
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by OK2NV2: 3:48pm On Dec 23, 2011|
your sissy taste in font style makes this a gay thread.
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by 195(f): 3:49pm On Dec 23, 2011|
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by OK2NV2: 3:58pm On Dec 23, 2011|
190_@:WHAT IS UR PROBLEM U SIMPLETON NAMED AFTER THE WORST MERCEDES EVER?
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by 195(f): 3:59pm On Dec 23, 2011|
ur left testicle
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by bekay911(f): 4:41pm On Dec 23, 2011|
Op thax a lot
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by OK2NV2: 5:23pm On Dec 23, 2011|
190_@:sorry, i never knew it got jammed down ur right nostril
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by geolabious(m): 7:34pm On Dec 23, 2011|
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by geolabious(m): 7:38pm On Dec 23, 2011|
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by ARareGem(f): 7:48pm On Dec 23, 2011|
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by slimyem: 8:17pm On Dec 23, 2011|
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by LesbianBoy(m): 12:09am On Dec 24, 2011|
|Re: Ladies: If A Man Wants You by Ranoscky(m): 12:31am On Dec 24, 2011|
They should not stay while hopin it will get better??. . . Advicin them to shift gear when the goin is rough?. . . And when they call u gals gold diggers, una go para. NONSENSICAL NONSENSE!!
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