Please I seriously seek opinions and advice in this particular matter. Aside having a relationship far/near and even those that are very serious and want commitment, why do I find it out to help my friends get men of their own. For example, I have a lot of men in my life, not men as in random men but those that want commitment, maybe three of them even though they know of my long distance, yet when friends I have that are single tell me to hook them up, I always pretend like I would but would never do so. There is an atom of jealousy, that the guy I would give them would be better than mine.

A friend of mine was telling me how a guy that was trying to woo me but I was talking to others asked her out and she is already in love, instead of me to be happy, I started feeling jealous even though I have others. I kept telling myself it's bad, you cannot have them all to yourself.

Please how do I get to stop this negative feeling? I know it's not good.

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Good you identified the problem. Hope you find the solution. I can't seem to find an answer to give you right now. Maybe it cos I'm sleepy!!

@ Lacrissa,

Live and let live. Not all men r  for u or wl suit you. Be happy for your friends when they find love. It has a funny way of making you feel good too.

Be used as a source of blessings, not seeking gain from those you have blessed.
Remember it is more blessed to give than receive, as weird as that sounds.
So routinely going out of your way to help or bless ur friends may help curb ur feelings of jealousy at their success.

However, I wonder if these are true friends or girls u mix wt as a result of 'runs'  or simply casual acquaintances.
That may explain some of ur feelings. Then choosing your friends carefully, may be the way to go.

Hope these ideas help

Go and get married. Shikena. Then you eyes will stop roaming

Lacrissa:

Please I seriously seek opinions and advice in this particular matter. Aside having a relationship far/near and even those that are very serious and want commitment, why do I find it out to help my friends get men of their own. For example, I have a lot of men in my life, not men as in random men but those that want commitment, maybe three of them even though they know of my long distance, yet when friends I have that are single tell me to hook them up, I always pretend like I would but would never do so. There is an atom of jealousy, that the guy I would give them would be better than mine.

A friend of mine was telling me how a guy that was trying to woo me but I was talking to others asked her out and she is already in love, instead of me to be happy, I started feeling jealous even though I have others. I kept telling myself it's bad, you cannot have them all to yourself.

Please how do I get to stop this negative feeling? I know it's not good.

Babes, here we go again! Whats all these?

In the past, you bugged us with your LDR relationship. You stressed so much about your guy that I pitied what he probably was going through with your drama and all. Now its another tale of hook ups & jealousy.

I recall our first encounter mid last year, you wrote something about having a successful/booming cosmetic business. I will advice you chanel your energy to that business or better still make a brand of your own cosmetic range and perfume. Emblem of Lacrissa would be good for a perfume and Lacrissa's concern would be good for body creams/lotion, foundations, concealers and brown powders, so think about it. Cuckoo Lacrissa sounds sexy too (Hope you are not offended, just messing with you. Your name would sell a cosmetic range though, trust me )

You this lacrissa,you should be an actress walahi,the drama in you is just too much.haba!

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What makes you thinks she aint one yet? She might be acting all the drama she writes about IN HER HEAD

iice:
Ugggh women

their worst enemies,can you imagine this...