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I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by mynat: 7:10am On Oct 10, 2007
, i actually have bin a real guy i.e. rich, cool educated, sexually active and what most ladies will trully pray to have,but still i caught my wife cheating on me, though i have decided to leave all my belonging for her, take our only daughter and leave the house for her, please what do i do?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by scambater(m): 7:20am On Oct 10, 2007
Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by almondjoy(f): 8:09am On Oct 10, 2007
scambater:

Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.

Not really, boredom lack of a meaningful hobby can make people stray.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Seun(m): 11:59am On Oct 10, 2007
Try to settle it; invite her parents to talk to her. Fighting her will not make you happy; you'll be happier if you can somehow fix your marriage. And don't forget to visit to a doctor for HIV test. Sorry my man.

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by ayomifull(f): 12:18pm On Oct 10, 2007
I agree with Scanbater tell us the real and the true story, it hardly happens that a wife with all the luxuries you claim to have will go out of the matrimonial home, looking for what?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by kosiie: 12:20pm On Oct 10, 2007
what a pity cry
i'll advise you forgive her [though difficult], then try settle the issue, its obvious smt is missing in your marriage that she's probably found elsewhere.
try save your home rather than walk away
rmbr your vows, 4 better 4 worse, till death do us part

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by buttyelele: 12:21pm On Oct 10, 2007
2 questions my guy,

1 who did she cheat with and what is the relationship between you and the person.
2 have you ever cheated on  her.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by prinstek(m): 12:23pm On Oct 10, 2007
it's unfortunate, some ladies are not contented & they are very greedy. no matter how u u try to satisfy them they will still Bleep up. (even though ur partner lacks certain things, does that mean shld not endure). but my suggestion is that u shld try to forgive her with proper warning & counseling. because is like angel u av known is better than the devil u av not known. moreover, every lady has potential of doing the same thing. therefore, take heart & continue ur life don't be distracted.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by jintujinta(m): 12:26pm On Oct 10, 2007
If that is true, sorry brother but packing out is not the solution. Before i attempt giving any solution i want to ask you a question. What about you? Have you ever  cheated on her. Be plain. Jesus said to the crowd that brought the woman that was caught in adultery: " Let him cast the first stone, whoever is not guilty of a sin"

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Easybaby(f): 12:26pm On Oct 10, 2007
You don't have to do anything again. . .since you have left all your belonging to her, took your only daughter and left the house for her undecided

You have done everything . . .welldone! cheesy grin grin
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by LadyM1: 12:30pm On Oct 10, 2007
I dnt believe dis story pls. Tell us d real stori n stop appraising urself. Who no like e mama soup?
abegee!!!!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by ThoniaSlim(f): 12:31pm On Oct 10, 2007
@topic
Read through your posts and found out your not worth the pity. as much as am not in support of your wife cheating i still believe you got some fault also. as some people said above, your not telling the full story,
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by THO: 12:35pm On Oct 10, 2007
Where do u thing u are running to? abi u want to marry an angel? is a pity u did not get a decent person but u is ur luck because is not written on the face. Just invite her parents and find out what is wrong wt her. but I still suggest that u tell us the real story.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Bensogie(m): 12:47pm On Oct 10, 2007
, Law of CAMA. Think back! lipsrsealed
u didnt give a detailed information, i mean 'behind the scene'. Dont just tell us what u want us to know, and expect us to condemn the woman for her actions. If u want honest suggestions, then share the Full story.Cos we are a family.
My Opinion grin grin grin
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by derasky: 1:00pm On Oct 10, 2007
is it because may be she has not caught you in the same act. search urself very well, can you swear that you have never cheated on this woman before? Anyway, whatsoever happened, if she is repentant of her sin, pls forgive her and give her another chance ok! I know it can really be painful. shocked
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by mrtunde(m): 1:04pm On Oct 10, 2007
I somehow get a sense that either the story is a fabrication, you know something to get a thread going, or there are significant pieces of information missing.

so update your post my guy if you want honest replies!!!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by tomX1(m): 1:23pm On Oct 10, 2007
scambater:

Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.

People may cheat for a variety of reason. Sometimes it could something trivial or something fundamentaly great. It all depends on the mindset of person doing the cheating.

Seun:

Try to settle it; invite her parents to talk to her. Fighting her will not make you happy; you'll be happier if you can somehow fix your marriage. And don't forget to visit to a doctor for HIV test. Sorry my man.

This advice is as good as it gets. Dialogue, forgive, and start on a clean slate with her. Consider leaving only if you still don't get any meaningful result after your dialogue.
Whats all that talk about leaving all your property for her. Is that a way of rewarding her and boyfriend for their adultrous laisons?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by gbengeoou: 1:28pm On Oct 10, 2007
You better forgive her , or else you self won go for second wife.

In case you need 2nd wife, my grandma still de sweet 74. sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad sad

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by oyinyechi(f): 1:37pm On Oct 10, 2007
No one is perfect. I belive the two of you need 2 sit down and talk. COMMUNICATION is the key.
No matter what her reasons might be try and forgive her, i no it is difficult 2 forget.
The lord will be your strenght.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by ebony4life(f): 1:54pm On Oct 10, 2007
what a pity
i'll advise you forgive her [though difficult], then try settle the issue, its obvious smt is missing in your marriage that she's probably found elsewhere.
try save your home rather than walk away
rmbr your vows, 4 better 4 worse, till death do us part

True talk try and forgive her,
Be a real guy by mending your marriage.
Don't add more to the rate of broken homes we have.
Think about your daughter.

God will help you.

Peace, cool
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by ebony4life(f): 1:59pm On Oct 10, 2007
Less I forget,

I recommend a film After the Vow for you.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by samueline(f): 2:04pm On Oct 10, 2007
@ poster, i wonder why u r suddenly acting like a saint. I decided to check your profile before replying to this post and I realised that u r nt a saint either on a number of occassions, u gave ur mobile no freely to people especially females promising to have sex with them. I rily wont go into so many details here. I tink everyone who has posted a reply here shld look at your profile and read ur previous posts on other threads and then determine the kind of person u rily are.

I tink there's something u r nt telling us here.

Where not talk things over with your wife since you are not so much of a saint. Get her to apologise, and then you too should do the same and then move on.

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Carlosein(m): 2:07pm On Oct 10, 2007
samueline:

@ poster, i wonder why you're suddenly acting like a saint. I decided to check your profile before replying to this post and I realised that you're nt a saint either on a number of occassions, u gave your mobile no freely to people especially females promising to have sex with them. I rily wont go into so many details here. I think everyone who has posted a reply here shld look at your profile and read your previous posts on other threads and then determine the kind of person u rily are.

I think there's something you're nt telling us here.

Where not talk things over with your wife since you are not so much of a saint. Get her to apologise, and then you too should do the same and then move on.

well well well.

tell us the real gist now bro.

dat way we can help u.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by arshy(m): 2:17pm On Oct 10, 2007
@poster
You have taking a decision, so what do u want us to tell you?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by marco74(m): 2:28pm On Oct 10, 2007
men am amazed at the response from both the guys and the girls;try 2 talk 2 her,and just 4give her??interesting!!if i didn't know,i'd have thought this was a forum in usa or one of the western countries.get real my friends it can and will never be the same again.don't trust her,she will do it again,and the reason she is going 2 give then will be different.i don't condone extra-marital affairs from the man or the woman.my advice would have been the same if a lady was the one asking for it.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by romeo(m): 2:28pm On Oct 10, 2007
mynat:

just gve me a call and i will put you tru on what to do, i don't really have to see you.But a call will do.08033338914
Cheers.


mynat:

i tell you same thing happened to me too i met a six footer lady who requested i help her .she is apdded in every angle, and we got to me house she requested to take a shower but guess what?
she's really BIG!! , a GIANT being but with a large mess she soon began to scream


mynat:

grin hello thief of heart : just allow me to say you are hot hit me on 08033338914 and lets talk.


mynat:

its all lies to take waist bead/chain to mean sometin fetish, Please pardon me for this, i once f**kd a big girl waist chain/bead she got pregnant.

its just a fashion trends ladies wearing beads round their waist or guys don't you like them on it?, as for me it TURNS me on when i see on even on a Mad woman (joke).


mynat:

@Oluyemimi please when next u want to go out without your strap, let the location be my house, simply hit my on 08033338914 and let me hav a feel of what u sell (milk shake)

such a fool you are bro grin grin

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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by manoy(m): 2:41pm On Oct 10, 2007
Why are u guys bothering urself.He is brutal lier


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1 Forums / Family / I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? on: Today at 07:10:45 AM
, i actually have bin a real guy i.e. rich, cool educated, sexually active and what most ladies will trully pray to have,but still i caught my wife cheating on me, though i have decided to leave all my belonging for her, take our only daughter and leave the house for her, please what do i do?


2 Forums / Fashion / Re: Going Out Without Wearing A Bra on: October 05, 2007, 07:18 AM
@Oluyemimi please when next u want to go out without your strap, let the location be my house, simply hit my on 08033338914 and let me hav a feel of what u sell (milk shake)
Quote from: chistiana on September 29, 2007, 12:57 PM
There is nothing bad in going out without a bra, depend on the size of breast.

am out there on the street of Lag without bra.



3 Forums / Fashion / Re: Going Out Without Wearing A Bra on: October 05, 2007, 07:12 AM
Quote from: chistiana on October 01, 2007, 08:10 AM
and what happen to that, actually my size no dey 4 market.

so i got no choice lol.


your size dey my house come and get it. from 1 dozen and above, i'll giv it to you.


4 Forums / Fashion / Re: What About Waist Beads? on: October 05, 2007, 06:55 AM
its all lies to take waist bead/chain to mean sometin fetish, Please pardon me for this, i once f**kd a big girl waist chain/bead she got pregnant.

its just a fashion trends ladies wearing beads round their waist or guys don't you like them on it?, as for me it TURNS me on when i see on even on a Mad woman (joke).


5 Forums / Religion / Re: If Churches Are Banks on: October 05, 2007, 06:40 AM
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8 Forums / Sexuality / Re: Doggy Style Is Definitely For Lower Animals : Read My Story on: October 04, 2007, 01:18 PM
Quote from: otuwe on October 03, 2007, 06:12 PM
sex generally was initiated by animals

maybe u should stop having sex alltogether

that would make u more human



@otuwe : you are simplpy my kind of person, i wonder why people have a one way kind of reasoning.im sure you are glue to doing papa and mama style.
Doing doggy wont make u a dog, because u don't exercise in one pattern but in different ways. think.



9 Forums / Romance / Re: Ever Slept With A Guy And He Just Disappeared? on: October 04, 2007, 12:58 PM

Quote from: londoner on October 01, 2007, 05:36 PM
Have you ever slept with a guy very quickly after meeting him, but as it started to happen you got that sinking feeling in your stomach? You knew it was a mistake, but you did it anyway. And then the thing you KNEW would happen actually happened: He unexplainably disappeared from your life. Honestly, have you ever had this happen? Of course, the worst part wasn't that it happened, but that you KNEW you shouldn't have done it in the first place, but you did it anyway

just want to ask all the ladies in da house

The explanation is that he got what came for, any slight intention of getting into anything serious was quenched by you giving it up so easily. Its a double standard I know, but if your going to have a one night stand be able to bear the consequences. Is he going to take you out and dine you, why? You did it backwards my dear. (no pun intended).

Anyway, its a lesson learned for you and you wont do that in a hurry, if you want a guy to see as you as more than a lay. Take heart, we all make mistakes. I have never been in that situation before.






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Meanwhile take CARE.


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16 Forums / Health / Re: Wish I Could Be Slim on: September 06, 2007, 03:28 PM
just gve me a call and i will put you tru on what to do, i don't really have to see you.But a call will do.08033338914
Cheers.


17 Forums / Sexuality / Re: Craziest Sex You've Ever Had on: August 28, 2007, 05:16 PM
i tell you same thing happened to me too i met a six footer lady who requested i help her .she is apdded in every angle, and we got to me house she requested to take a shower but guess what?
she's really BIG!! , a GIANT being but with a large mess she soon began to scream


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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by MikelX(m): 2:45pm On Oct 10, 2007
This whole thing is a fake and waste of time. Get a life man!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by mellow(m): 3:00pm On Oct 10, 2007
You said you caught her cheating? Is it in a game of Ludo or draft? Please, do let us know where and when she cheated.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by jibolala(m): 3:03pm On Oct 10, 2007
I think is better to keep quiet than just writing because others are doing so.Honestly,there is no evidence that you are married.You are only trying to play on people's intelligence. I demand an apology for wasting my time reading this trend.

Dear All,

I suggest we should change the topic to '' I cheat and lie?:What do I do?''
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by omena555(f): 3:07pm On Oct 10, 2007
having gone thru this poster's profile and recent posts, all i can say is that he's just one hell of a rotten guy! rich and cool indeed, when in one of his posts he was actually looking for a job! who even dash this guy wife sef?? he's just bored and trying to get a thread started by all means. very dumb i must say!  undecided
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by sammyjl(f): 3:17pm On Oct 10, 2007
Get even

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