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Poll: What should I do?

Divorce her!: 32% (45 votes)
Marriage counseling.: 67% (93 votes)
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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by ugo227(m): 1:25pm On Oct 13, 2007
the story doesn't sound true, ONE BIT!!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Adaugo01(f): 3:21pm On Oct 13, 2007
i think the guy that created this thread just wants to tell us wat he is doin to his wifey, instead of coming out straight he is lying on the innocent lady,
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by dellynash(f): 5:34pm On Oct 13, 2007
i think you should solve the problem with your wife . Running away with your only daughter is not a solution because u will always still have something to do with her. what if your daughter gets up one day say daddy i want to see my mummy? search yourself well im sure u must have cheated on her too is just that u weren't caught in the act. anyway what im trying to say is that u settle the problem with your wife forgive her and safe your home.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by mekoyo(m): 5:45pm On Oct 13, 2007
Opinions
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by albridge(m): 7:51pm On Oct 13, 2007
Men I'm offended by this post. Please man do the right thing and unregister yourself from this forum. It appears you have serious character disorder. Why else would you waste our time like this? Get another job. Lying and making up stories wont get you anywhere!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by dremoney(m): 10:50pm On Oct 14, 2007
hmmmmn,

Just think we need not bother bout the poster but lay emphasis on gettin orientated bout d subject matter per-adventure it happens to anybody really.

Point is,

Since its in a marriage,d best chuz is to make up wit ur partner n live happily eva after.
I advise couples giv room 4 a second or third chance on issues if possible.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Attention(f): 11:00am On Oct 16, 2007
When the offence is on the woman's side, it seems heavy. How about women that catch their husbands cheating, what should they do?

@ Poster.
Find out why she's cheating on you and fill the vacuum, its either money, love or your not being able to satisfy her in your role as a man.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by oyie(f): 11:38am On Oct 16, 2007
poster!

where r thou?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by dayonuel(m): 3:55pm On Oct 16, 2007
girls, girls girls, they are demons
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by nawa1(m): 10:22am On Oct 17, 2007
shits happen

Divorce her and surfer the rest of your life in regret, heartbreak, agony and pride grin
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Tawak: 12:17pm On Oct 17, 2007
n is dat d way forward
ma dear, take a matured step n dnt giv mi dat crap
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Tawak: 12:32pm On Oct 17, 2007
@ Attention
thumbs up
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by imelachi(f): 1:54pm On Oct 17, 2007
u dont have to divorce her go for marriage counselling , forgive and forget all what she has done to you and God will take control
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Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by bigbee(m): 8:03pm On Oct 17, 2007
u really didnt elucidate ur problem which makes it difficult to throw in any form of advice.there is always 2 sides to a story. if u are able to tell us what the matter really is then we can pick a point for u.

are u one of those that is so concern about ur finance and let ur family suffer. if thats one of the reason which of course u didnt state ur wife did what u said she did then u really need to re- examine the whole issue and try to work it out.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by nawa1(m): 10:09am On Oct 18, 2007
undecided
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by kokomma000: 5:32pm On Oct 18, 2007
[color=#006600][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Omena,
you made my day with your respond. I think we should take this forum serious. People fabricate all kinds of things thereby wasting our time.

Guys please be reasonable!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Bblak(f): 6:11pm On Oct 18, 2007
Follow your heart bro lipsrsealed
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by adconline(m): 6:25pm On Oct 18, 2007
I agree with Scanbater tell us the real and the true story, it hardly happens that a wife with all the luxuries you claim to have will go out of the matrimonial home, looking for what?

Why is it that some women still have holier than thou attitude? If it had been a guy, this poster would say men are dogs. Why did you think that women who have good things of life don’t cheat? Can we be open minded for goodness sake
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by nawa1(m): 9:52am On Oct 19, 2007
adconline:

it hardly happens that a wife with all the luxuries you claim to have will go out of the matrimonial home, looking for what?

you sef fit talk dis kind of thing? abi you no hear the story say, "obj wife cheat with bmb"

if you like make you be bill gate, if you marry a cheating wife, she go still cheat on you.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by holythug(m): 9:21pm On Oct 19, 2007
r u sure u quoted your self right, your daughter[/
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by wealthyman(m): 12:16pm On Oct 21, 2007
Love is just a word,it takes a responsible mind to give it a meaning.
I wish u would listen to me

An eye for an eye leads to more blindness.
She has done u a great wrong but i believe most infidelity on the part of ladies are generally caused by the men.I dont know what ur story looks like but the truth is if u truly LOVE this woman whom u call ur wife from the dept of ur heart then u will forgive her and start life anew like it never happened,i know its going to be the hardest pill to swallow but u can do it.

If u kill in anger u bury for the sake of odour.Go and reconcile with ur wife,bury the matchet and hatchet and forge ahead,i tell u life will not only be sweeter but its goina be better.Dont allow hat ur mind says thats negative to affect ur decisions.

take charge and be the loving husband u have always been.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by tmoney11(m): 12:01pm On Oct 22, 2007
let me ask u, how many times do u make love with her in a week?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by mynat: 7:08am On Oct 23, 2007
holythug:

r u sure u quoted your self right, your daughter[/

atleast i got your attention! shikena
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by BigMario2(m): 5:05pm On Oct 23, 2007
make you go die becos you dey cheat and lie se obasanjo no lie and cheat
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by mcbarry: 7:31pm On Oct 25, 2007
My dear friend,

Although two instances on which you are premitted to divorce your wife as on basis of Adultery and Stealing, permitted by the bible but I feel this issue is quite tactical to handle. It all lies in your POWER OF FORGIVENESS and how much you LOVE YOUR WIFE.

It's heard to deserve but I think, two can settle, three becomes a crowd and poses disgrace and lost of confidence for the future. REmembering that she's your wife and if your love for her permits that much forgiveness, please I should think that you should settle amicable between yourselves.

Take care and follow your instincts.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by boywest(m): 5:06pm On Mar 04, 2008
@poster, wetin u do b/4 she begin her own?

It is obvious u do not want her anymore sha. so move out but leave ur daughter with her o, u no go fit handle her.
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by nossycheek(f): 11:13am On Mar 05, 2008
Nairaland of liers
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by boywest(m): 2:36pm On Mar 05, 2008
[tr]Nairaland of liers[/tr]

Shuo!!!
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by tmoney11(m): 8:59pm On Mar 20, 2008
where did you see her? and what did you do?
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by almondjoy(f): 8:41am On Mar 21, 2008
@poster

How far? It has been like almost 6 months. Updates please, abi you don change your Nairaland name come back dey reply your thread? cheesy
Re: I Caught My Wife Cheating: What Do I Do? by Johnny(m): 2:45pm On Mar 25, 2008
I agree with Scanbater tell us the real and the true story, it hardly happens that a wife with all the luxuries you claim to have will go out of the matrimonial home, looking for what?

Which other real and true story do you guys want to hear? Are you just knowing that you women could be funny at times? Or there are justifiable reasons for a woman to cheat on her husband?
Now to the poster, please even your Pastor or Iman should not convince you into accepting that woman back. He can kill you. And do you know how much of your money she must have spent on her lovers? Please do away with this woman. If I catch my girlfriend cheating on me, it's parting straight, let alone a wife.

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