Dbisi: I had a problem with my husband about 2 months before our wedding, he suspected and accused me of having an affairs he later found was not true and this was after we have dated for 5 years. That broke my heart because i was a very decent girl and infact he disvirgined me after 4 years into our courtship after i had graduated from UI. He did apologise though and even though i tried to stop the wedding he begged me and made the whole world beg me i was no longer interested but it was too late. When we got married i realised i never enjoyed sex it is always pain and i tried to see if something was wrong with me, i tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet i still never enjoyed it. One day i listened to a voice mail a girl left for him of how much she enjoyed him and how he should not because of marriage forget her as he was too sweet on the bed, this broke my heart because i trusted him and now i realised its not as if he doesnt know how to make love it was my problem. Though i regret it now and feel quilty, i slept with an ex who never slept with me as a single girl and i must confess i enjoyed it, now i can't say what my problem is, i never did it after then and i still don't enjoy sex with my husband. I feel so guilty and i wish i could confess to him and ask for his forgiveness. Is it wise to do this and please if you have ever had like problem what can i do to enjoy sex with my husband. Please, this is a marital and serious and real issue will appreciate genuine and helpful advise.

Bleep him. You don't have to tell him anything. Just keep doing what you want to do and hope he doesn't find out.

Hopefully the sex is better now. Op did not return to tell us if she confessed. Hopfully not!

Dbisi: I had a problem with my husband about 2 months before our wedding, he suspected and accused me of having an affairs he later found was not true and this was after we have dated for 5 years. That broke my heart because i was a very decent girl and infact he disvirgined me after 4 years into our courtship after i had graduated from UI. He did apologise though and even though i tried to stop the wedding he begged me and made the whole world beg me i was no longer interested but it was too late. When we got married i realised i never enjoyed sex it is always pain and i tried to see if something was wrong with me, i tried to forgive him and free my mind and yet i still never enjoyed it. One day i listened to a voice mail a girl left for him of how much she enjoyed him and how he should not because of marriage forget her as he was too sweet on the bed, this broke my heart because i trusted him and now i realised its not as if he doesnt know how to make love it was my problem. Though i regret it now and feel quilty, i slept with an ex who never slept with me as a single girl and i must confess i enjoyed it, now i can't say what my problem is, i never did it after then and i still don't enjoy sex with my husband. I feel so guilty and i wish i could confess to him and ask for his forgiveness. Is it wise to do this and please if you have ever had like problem what can i do to enjoy sex with my husband. Please, this is a marital and serious and real issue will appreciate genuine and helpful advise.

it still happen to me, my guy once cheated on me, but later repent but d thought keep coming, i lost trust on him but still love him d problem is no matter how he romance or make d love i dont feel anything but pretend to be enjoying it, one day i try another guy, my heavenly feeling was just or point, then i stop having fear that something is wrong with me, later i started working on myself by watching porn movie, when am Hot i go to him and dont wait for him to come then u will be suprise how both of u will enjoy it, is hard to free ones mind but gradually if his d romantic type u will get over it

I ll assume that act was meant to boost your marital life,and since you have had the knowledge that the fault might be from your end,good.In my opinion I believe strongly that you have failed to let go of the wrong accusation which has affected your inner emotion towards him.You should forgive and forget it and rebrand the whole marriage as though you are new love birds and increase your level of communication with him.And for the act it stays a secret with you,you dare not tell him please.

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