WARNING: My son, never spend your money on a lady with the notion that you want to marry her in the near future. You are not her parent to pay her school fees, pay for her apprenticeship, pay for her hostel and give her pocket money. When you decide to do that, note that you are doing it for charity and it is at your own risk. She is not obliged to marry you because you have spent your money on her. Infact, it is for your own good for her not to accept to marry you because you have spent on her. That love or marriage will be conditional and deadly. It is about time you young and single guys reason wisely.

If you must spend, let it be because you WANT TO, and not because you want to make an 'investment'.
Invest only in a WIFE and your children. Take up another man's responsibilities at your own risk.
Worse, you could lose your respect along the way. After all, you are 'needed' or useful for something- money.
Much worse, if she ever says the words '' I love you'', Beware. It will be a CHORE saying it cos You are completely invisible/'liked' only because of ur 'usefulness'. Sooner or later the PEST(You) will be done away with. And the ZERO CONTRIBUTOR will be accepted by her family as the 'worthy son-in-law'.

A man that a woman feels OBLIGATED to say Yes to his proposal because he has 'trained' her, should not cry to anyone when he is treated as dirt or her attitude toward him changes later on cos U FORCED her hand.

Could as well be modern day slavery.

If u'd said something intelligent, it would mean an eclipse will happen today. Thanks for being predictable hun. SMH

relationships are worthy investments. . . . , . .

I could pay her fees. But with no strings attached.

Wislet:

If u'd said something intelligent, it would mean an eclipse will happen today. Thanks for being predictable hun. SMH

Damn! That was a sucker punch! Chimezie are you still breathing? Take heart son.

Seriously though, that was some good advice up there.

You are right

what u can work 4 u dnt deserve, so if u cant mak an invertemt 4 her u surely dnt deserve her.

If u'd said something intelligent, it would mean an eclipse will happen today. Thanks for being predictable hun. SMH

that was heavy copying this comeback for another victim.

Nonsense and it's ingredients.

Hear ye, hear ye. Wisdom hath spoken. For all you Salvation Army soldiers, no whining after your investment goes down the drain.

Wislet: WARNING: My son, never spend your money on a lady with the notion that you want to marry her in the near future. You are not her parent to pay her school fees, pay for her apprenticeship, pay for her hostel and give her pocket money. When you decide to do that, note that you are doing it for charity and it is at your own risk. She is not obliged to marry you because you have spent your money on her. Infact, it is for your own good for her not to accept to marry you because you have spent on her. That love or marriage will be conditional and deadly. It is about time you young and single guys reason wisely.

If you must spend, let it be because you WANT TO, and not because you want to make an 'investment'.
Invest only in a WIFE and your children. Take up another man's responsibilities at your own risk.
Worse, you could lose your respect along the way. After all, you are 'needed' or useful for something- money.
Much worse, if she ever says the words '' I love you'', Beware. It will be a CHORE saying it cos You are completely invisible/'liked' only because of ur 'usefulness'. Sooner or later the PEST(You) will be done away with. And the ZERO CONTRIBUTOR will be accepted by her family as the 'worthy son-in-law'.

A man that a woman feels OBLIGATED to say Yes to his proposal because he has 'trained' her, should not cry to anyone when he is treated as dirt or her attitude toward him changes later on cos U FORCED her hand.

Could as well be modern day slavery.

God bless you
Good advice
Completely agreed with you

it baffles me why a guy would "invest" in another woman, who can't invest in herself. If he wants to, he really should without compelling her into a relationship. To enter into a relationship should be an uninfluenced decision, not a decision made "under duress".

A very good advice you have there.

Totally in agreement. First time hearing a female tell the men-folk not to spend on gurls... Ernn, i know she added ''if you spend, don't expect 'returns on investment' '', but hey thats the objective truth.

Very, very true. Excellent advice: If you must do anything for anyone in a relationship, do it because you liked them, so you don't expect them to feel obligated to dating/marrying afterwards. I confess, I'm guilty of going "after all I've done for so-and-so..." then I realise that he didn't force me to do it, didn't beg me to do it, I did it because I wanted to help him primarily, then make him realise how nice I was. Same with spending, buy her gifts and invest in her future because you care and don't expect that she will marry you for it.

Op is right! & sadly enuf, most of †ЂΞ mugu men who invest in ladies refuse τ̅☺ take care of their mum & sisters. They r greedy mofos.

Wislet: If u'd said something intelligent, it would mean an eclipse will happen today. Thanks for being predictable hun. SMH

lol, well said!!

Who said investments only has to do with money?
Good advice though.

Nice one there.