Ujujoan:

NA wa oh . . . 3 whole weeks! The man must really be petty.

mutter:

All these indirect apologies do not work with some men. You can use all the tactics but he would insist on an apology. This issue has gone on too long for some Bottom jiggling to function. We can make light of it but everyone knows that such a situation should not arise in a marriage.
When an african man stops eating his wife`s food he is speaking volumes and not being petty.

mutter:

The key word is his headship. Does a head not have the option to negotiate or not?This is a disciplinary action and not pettiness.
She would do well to submit by apologising.

debrief08:

He is being very petty abeg. What happened to his headship of the home? Is that honestly the best way to get his point accross? Why cant he talk with her and sort their issues out? why keep malice like some 9 year old? Malice for 3 weeks, haba. You cant please each other all the time, i offend my husband and vice versa but he will never condescend so low to keep malice with me for so long. If she did something so bad it is up to him as the head to look for a way to slove the situation not carry on like some spoilt 9 year old.
Being a husband is plenty responsibilty, the sooner Some Nigerian men learn that the better for them. If my husband has a problem with me he will say it and together look for a way to work it out and meet in the middle.

debrief08:

hahahaaaaaaaa, My Own Husband go chop your food, chop you and still beef you. lol. One day i asked him how can you be beefing me and still be eating and licking plate, he said why will i choose to make life difficult for myself? I pay for the food, why willl i go and pay extra again outside, what silly point am i proving?

ronkebp:

Gbam!!!!!! very very petty, baby!!! boooooo booobooo!!! taataa!!! Nonsense. I really don't like men that keep marlice, it so gets on my nerve, i am the marlice type of girl, if my hubby offends me, i really do not want to talk to him, but he will never allow it, never ever!!!!, we have never had any misunderstanding that lasted more than 1 day, because he will so be on my case, there was this night i had a misunderstanding with him and i decided not to sleep on the bed with him, i did not go to the other room either, because he would come and sleep in that room too, i went to the living room, to lie on the sofa, do you know he came down and slept on that same chair with me, i was soo angry but he did not leave me ooo, stubborness no make me go to the bedroom, i remained on that chair and he remained too, we were there till the morning, then my whole body began to ache bad, because of the way we squeezed ourself on to that sofa, since then, no matter how i want to leave the bedroom, i remain there, and infact it does not even last to the bedroom hours, it just doesn't.

tessybaby:

cheiiiiiiiiii 3 weeks
even ifi was was right i would have begged by now
i can't stand having problems for too long with
hubby.
ronke and CC you girls rock
i am stealing some of your techniques lol

after a misunderstanding with hubby we usaully resolve to "no talking"
i mind my business u mind urs
but i can't lie to you guys
after some days if he does not beg
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
then i go just do some lie lie sickness
come see as i dey shake for nite,
by morning na hubby go ask me wetti i go take for breakfast.
by nitefall we close everything with a hot blah blah
come and see confession
"i miss you baby" like say some person be travel before

mutter:

The key word is his headship. Does a head not have the option to negotiate or not?This is a disciplinary action and not pettiness.
She would do well to submit by apologising.

debrief08:

SIlly discplinary action. Be an adult, bring your matter to the table lets resolve it like the adults we are.

Ivynwa:
Malice should not be stretched all that out in marriage yet who knows the magnitude of the disagreement or what the disagreement is all about? for example a cheating wife can disgust her husband to that level when he finds out. Yeah, yeah.



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hahahaaaaaaaa, My Own Husband go chop your food, chop you and still beef you. lol. One day i asked him how can you be beefing me and still be eating and licking plate, he said why will i choose to make life difficult for myself? I pay for the food, why willl i go and pay extra again outside, what silly point am i proving?