mcnepow:

!. Wetin no concern our family and marriage?? Oya go marry without telling your people and also asking her people to accept you.
2. If you be pentecostal, for instance, go marry J.W. You people don't believe in the same doctrines, how would it work. Don't tell me it doesn't matter cos it does.

bizgirl:

yes! denomination matters, i as a person cant marry from Deeperlife, catholic and Jehoval witnesses.

A-ZeD:

If you are a christian, can you please tell me which denomination Jesus attends??

~Killz~:

It's not about marrying someone of a different denomination out of love. . . It's about staying in that love when it is tested by palavers brought about by family + denomination!

bknight:

Human relationships r based on our fundamental perceptions and principles. These ideologies r formed by what school of thoughts we identify with. Partners that vary widely in how they see things in life will hardly go far in relative peace. For me, u may be the best saint but u r in celestian church? forget it, d day I know u r cele or u were once in cherubium n seraphim? Dat day we'll close shop for business. (Undue apologies to members of these sects, its just ♍Ɣ opinion and doesn't form d basis for any arguments).

Has it ever crossed your mind what your reaction will be when your spouse starts shouting in tongues in the middle of the night when you need rest after a hard day's job?(and this is in your small room apartment o not a flat/even if na flat you wan dey comot from room every night?

The love is strong enough to withstand that. . . I dont know why people keep deceiving themselves all in the name of love. It is this same group of blind lover's that'll turn around and castigate love, blaming love for their own error! Na wa o!

~Killz~:

The love is strong enough to withstand that. . . I dont know why people keep deceiving themselves all in the name of love. It is this same group of blind lover's that'll turn around and castigate love, blaming love for their own error! Na wa o!

fresh_dude:

Thank you sirs. Has it ever crossed your mind what your reaction will be when your spouse starts shouting in tongues in the middle of the night when you need rest after a hard day's job?(and this is in your small room apartment o not a flat/even if na flat you wan dey comot from room every night? Pentecostal worship is flamboyant o, if you dont like their mode of worship dont even bother marrying from there.

A-ZeD:

What if you belong to the same denomination but one shouts at night and the other does not? Changing denomination rarely changes personality and you should be marring based on the person not on the denomination.
Denominations can be changed but personality rarely does!!!

fresh_dude:

Exactly the reason why I said even members of the same parish are not necessarily compatible(why look for trouble by going outside your denomination then). This is not to say that people of entire different religions cannot find compatibility in another, it's just as someone has said that our lives are lived on certain uncompromisable principles which inter-denominational relationship will test. Case in point-I don't personally know anyone who will deliberately marry an Ifa worshipper.

A-ZeD:

Using myself as an example, the some of the qualities i would like in my wife-:
1)Intelligence (not denomination based)
2)Independent(not denomination based)

My point being if everyone lists what he/she wants in a spouse, 95% of it would not be denomination based so would the denomination of the person be a problem.
Question: If you marry someone with denomination in mind and 5years down the line the person wants to change what will happen to the marriage?

A-ZeD:

Using myself as an example, the some of the qualities i would like in my wife-:
1)Intelligence (not denomination based)
2)Independent(not denomination based)

My point being if everyone lists what he/she wants in a spouse, 95% of it would not be denomination based so would the denomination of the person be a problem.
Question: If you marry someone with denomination in mind and 5years down the line the person wants to change what will happen to the marriage?

fresh_dude:

And what would be the outcome if the remaining 5% outweighs the 95% requirements, eg, if you found the lady of your dreams to 95% [b]and her only flaw(which makes up the 5% is stealing or lying or say a terrible temper) [/b]would you not reconsider? If you wouldn't I say goodluck and there's no point discussing further. I would however advise that you go and seek wise counsel from those who have been successfully for a period of at least 15-25years before your ideas on marriage are set. And I really do hope you aren't arguing for argument's sake.

ayodele123:

If the point of divergence is just 1%, and the factor behind the 1% is a core factor such as spiritual intimacy or bonding, do you know that 1% can pull down the other 99%?

A-ZeD:

fresh_dude you miss understand my post. The 5% you talk about is not denomination based,
This is my point, 95% of the things people will want in a spouse is not determined by the denomination of church the person attends hence, the reason i'm of the view that denomination does not matter in relationship(title of the post.).

Hello guys,
Having attended Baptism of Holy Spirit Class at Winners Chapel, my wife has possesed the spirit of speaking in tongues and even prophesying in tonges too since October 2011 but i do not want that at all - the whole thing looks very strange to me, she herself has become a strange person to me, it scares me whenever she starts all those syllables of speaking in unknown tongues, even at some points, she goes in spirit.
As for me, I DON'T WANT ALL OF THESE AT ALL. HOW CAN SHE DO AWAY WITH ALL THAT BECAUSE I DON'T WANT IT AT ALL. Since she got that 'supposedly spirit of tongues' , i have never been sexually attracted to her again, our home has changed from being lively, bubbling to very moody one - is that how holy spirit works? Also, my haome has been experiencing all forms of unrest or the other between myself and her. Also, i am scared of loosing her to prophetic ministry.
I am a Baptist by denomination but she is a Winner. Because of this, i have instructed her to leave the church and start coming to my own church.
Please house, what is ur opinion. I want bthat spirit to leave her. Please, i don't want any abusive statement, be polite in ur answer.