4Him:

We always listen. If you think we don't its because you people are never plain.

Never plain? When did No become "never plain"?

stillwater, you sef get time

Like they will ever admit to ignoring hints or flat out Nos claimig to themselves that things will change then they later become juvenile and bitter claiming the girl lied or strung them along.

Abeg leave them to their delusionals.

stillwater:

Never plain? When did No become "never plain"?

How many women really say No and mean it?

4Him:

How many women really say No and mean it?

Please No is No is NO
are you people now mind readers?

nwando:

Please No is No is NO
are you people now mind readers?

Sometimes No means try harder or "you're on standby till the present jerk leaves" or "i'm not sure". It makes no sense to leave at the first sign of No.

Ok I lied!
when we say No sometimes it means "Try a little harder"

OR

I don't go down easy
but why we do that
I have no Idea
maybe that's just how God made us

4Him:

Sometimes No means try harder or "you're on standby till the present jerk leaves" or "i'm not sure". It makes no sense to leave at the first sign of No.

ROFL
I didn't read you before posting mine.
looks like you sabi women well well.
david!!!
Hmm!!

How innocent boy like you come get am for plenty experience?
_{I know it's that morenike girl corrupting your innocent mind}
where is she?

haha osisi

sometimes it IS try harder or im not exactly sure right now but I'm going to say No so you wont rush my decision, but like i said instead of trying to understand that, they become immature jackasses.

and that there is when you know that they such a person isnt worth your time.

This topic reminds me of those guys in naija that will nearly hit you into the nearest "gutter" with their "ride" just to talk to you

Anyway, guys get tired because if a girl ain't feeling you, she ain't feeling you.

nwando:

ROFL
I didn't read you before posting mine.
looks like you sabi women well well.
david!!!
Hmm!!

How innocent boy like you come get am for plenty experience?
_{I know it's that morenike girl corrupting your innocent mind}
where is she?

lol Morenike needs experience herself.  
Life is a game, you learn how to deal your cards as you mature.

I once had a girl say flat out NO once; it was like a blow. I'd never had a girl say no before and i had woken up that day supremely confident she would say yes in a heartbeat.
After an hr of "trying harder" she eventually gave in. Turns out she said no because she was afraid i'd leave for someone else since i was in my finals and she didnt want to lose out.
She was right!  

Lesson of the story - unless you're absolutely sure the girl is not worth the chase then No should not be a barrier to you. Like a friend would say, the only reason you give up on a woman is if she's got a ring on her finger.

hello Rad  

There are some guys that you know you would never go out with, said No a thousand times to, but they would still be disgracing you in the name of "toasting".

reloaded some men absolutely don't get it.
I was in a crowded train sometime ago,some stupid idiot took advantage of the proximity of bodies and was rubbing his "abunna" on me,even jumping up and down when there were no bumps.
Despite my dirty looks,the he goat continued.

He should thank his stars that I'm saved,I almost used my umbrella to  rupture his testicles right there on a moving train.
can you imagine?

Radiant:

This topic reminds me of those guys in naija that will nearly hit you into the nearest "gutter" with their "ride" just to talk to you

Anyway, guys get tired because if a girl ain't feeling you, she ain't feeling you.

Thank you.

nwando:

reloaded some men absolutely don't get it.
I was in a crowded train sometime ago,some stupid idiot took advantage of the proximity of bodies and was rubbing his "abunna" on me,even jumping up and down when there were no bumps.
Despite my dirty looks,the he goat continued.

He should thank his stars that I'm saved,I almost used my umbrella to rupture his testicles right there on a moving train.
can you imagine?

rubbing na one thing, jumping up and down? You no issue am slap?

@ topic

because after doing all the work, man must rest. . .even papa God take break after all creation was finished

Some men worse pass goat sha, unless you take cane drive dem comot, NO means keep trying.

you sef osisi, self control sha

I most likely would have yelled and pushed him. I did the same to some jackass on a bicycle last month who nearly hit me trying to get my attention. Year ago, I would have just ignored him but seriously going to the city more often where you are surrounded by all sorts of lunatics has made me quite mean and jaded

stillwater:

There are some guys that you know you would never go out with, said No a thousand times to, but they would still be disgracing you in the name of "toasting".

Madame, you shld be pleased that men find you attractive enough to "toast" you. Some women would give an arm and a leg just to get a guy to say hello to them once a month. 
Look, women have this air about them that makes you wonder at times.

Even when a guy you dig comes around you'd still say a big NO and then go home praying he comes back again haba.

No wonder guys lose interest after the chase . . . you get there after enduring so much humiliation only to find out the girl wasnt even worth 5 minutes of your time.

D-reloaded:

I did the same to some jackass on a bicycle last month who nearly hit me trying to get my attention.

_{Hey darlyn} exactly what i'm saying


BO, u too cool

D-reloaded:

you sef osisi, self control sha

I[b] most likely would have yelled and pushed him[/b]. I did the same to some jackass on a bicycle last month who nearly hit me trying to get my attention. Year ago, I would have just ignored him but seriously going to the city more often with alot more lunatics has made me jaded

I was self controlled for the most part but I'm talking about a journey of several stops with a train load of baseball fans.
I had to shove an object between us to seperate us.

debosky:



rubbing na one thing, jumping up and down? You no issue am slap?
@ topic

because after doing all the work, man must rest. . .even papa God take break after all creation was finished

Some men worse pass goat sha, unless you take cane drive them comot, NO means keep trying.

I wished.

D-reloaded:

I most likely would have yelled and pushed him. I did the same to some jackass on a bicycle last month who nearly hit me trying to get my attention.

Even bicyclists kwa?
hinya O
people get nerve o

lmao @ BO

you see?

If bicycle man dey toast una, then you better tell your naija sisters to show more respect when a whole OKADA man asks them out oh.

seriously 97% of people in NYC escaped from the asylum of Bellview Hospital.

Cant be nice to them

gerraway debo
which one be bicyclists toasting?
assuming she said yes,what will he do ? carry her at the back ?

Lmao. eh I dont care about such. He was just being obnoxious

in the city, a guy with a bike is usually a health fanatic which is fine, this one was just being a clown and i wasnt in the mood for his madness

Na drive-by toasting or ride-by toasting.

debosky:

you see?

If bicycle man dey toast una, then you better tell your naija sisters to show more respect when a whole OKADA man asks them out oh.

You forgot to mention how grateful we should be when they "propose" to us, be on a bike or in Onitsha main market

D-reloaded:

seriously 97% of people in NYC escaped from the asylum of Bellview Hospital.

" "

debosky:



rubbing na one thing, jumping up and down? You no issue am slap?

@ topic

because after doing all the work, man must rest. . .even papa God take break after all creation was finished

Some men worse pass goat sha, unless you take cane drive them comot, NO means keep trying.

Not some, majority!!!!!!!!!

4Him:

Madame, you shld be pleased that men find you attractive enough to "toast" you. Some women would give an arm and a leg just to get a guy to say hello to them once a month.
Look, women have this air about them that makes you wonder at times.

Even when a guy you dig comes around you'd still say a big NO and then go home praying he comes back again haba.

No wonder guys lose interest after the chase . . . you get there after enduring so much humiliation only to find out the girl wasnt even worth 5minutes of your time.

I can't be pleased when I have to take a longer route instead of a shorter one in order to avoid certain guys.

D-reloaded:

seriously 97% of people in NYC escaped from the asylum of Bellview Hospital.

Cant be nice to them

I try to be.
You have no idea what will set them off.

4 Play:

Na drive-by toasting or ride-by toasting.

half bread is better than none o.

nwando:

I try to be.
You have no idea what will set them off.

Hahha that is true.

@ nwando, don't play nice ooo. Most perverts prey on nice girls more.