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| A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by shadshadyz: 10:17am On Mar 02, 2012 |
Please how can you differentiate a guy who is serious from a guy who just wants to use and dump, what are their traits ,so u can easily identify them? Secondly why are Nigerian guys so stingy? |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Killz3(m): 10:35am On Mar 02, 2012 |
^^ Brb. . .  |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Tosinville(m): 10:39am On Mar 02, 2012 |
u ae on a long thang. |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by slimyem: 10:49am On Mar 02, 2012 |
i guess you never really know unless you get into the r/ship. And most times,the guy's always quick to ask for sex or discuss topics bothering around it usually! Besides,some guy once told me that every girl knows a guy who wants just to sleep with her even if its the last moment before they get the jiggy on.dunno how true that is but for me,i always see it in the eyes!  |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by tpia5: 11:53am On Mar 02, 2012 |
Sometimes you can tell and sometimes you cant, if the guy is an accomplished deceiver. However, if you're only one of his many girlfriends, then that's a clue. |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Sugardiva(f): 12:28pm On Mar 02, 2012 |
The use and use and dump ones come on like a hurricane with mind blowing speed pumping u with texts and calls and all what not. So its not suprising when they blow over like the wind after they get what they want. They are too serious too early. What i do when i meet these kinds is to try my best to make them fall for me or depend on me in at least one aspect of their life and when they do i simply dump them.  Poetic justice! Its so much fun when u dump someone who planned to dump you. Buh dont try that tho, its a risky game cos it may backfire. |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Mynd44: 1:40pm On Mar 02, 2012 |
Tosinville:and any long thang na winch |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Killz3(m): 3:54pm On Mar 02, 2012 |
Sugardiva:This is a very good point. Op, in addition to the above, a serious guy is never in a hurry. He wont ask you for sex on the first date, nor will he kiss you on the first day. He knows the complications that arises from throwing the word love around, so he refrains from telling you he loves you, until he really means it. He cares about your feelings and your welfare. His actions speak louder than his words. He gives you gifts but never gives to impress you, he's unhappy when you are unhappy, he genuinely enjoys your company and will never put you down in front of his friends. . . Sadly, the serious guys are viewed by most ladies as weaklings. They fail to realize the seriousness, but choose to rather fall for the guy with smooth words. Quoting sugardiva again, "The use and use and dump ones come on like a hurricane with mind blowing speed pumping u with texts and calls and all what not". Most of these texts messages are mass produced. They send it to 10 or more different girls at the same time. Words Words Words. And they are so lazy that they forward the ones sent to them without editing. It's easy to be swayed by words, especially when you are freshly out of a relationship or you don't have a boyfriend or when you are insecure and never thought someone will pay you attention. They will spend heaven and earth just to entice you and unfortunately most times, they succeed. When the euphoria of the good times spent have worn off, they move to the next girl and leave you looking like a fool. . . Well, if that happens to you, you are a what? A FOOL. If you don't deem him worthy enough of a relationship, don't accept his gifts. Even if he is your type, don't be in a hurry. Guys love girls that are uptight. Forget the hype, and stick to your values. . . If you have any! 1 Like |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Mynd44: 5:23pm On Mar 02, 2012 |
Killz is a serious guy |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 02, 2012 |
Tosinville: |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by 2kurupt(m): 11:39pm On Mar 02, 2012 |
@OP, guys may be stingy when we realise you beg too much  Also a serious dude can change his mind and decide to use & dump you if he realises you want to use him to replace your father, |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Dynamique: 1:13am On Mar 03, 2012 |
If u want to differentiate between a serious guy&a use&dump,use ur BRAIN wisely!!!. |
| Re: A Serious Guy And A Use And Dump Guy by Mynd44: 7:29am On Mar 03, 2012 |
^^ The brain is absent |
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