My mom's still being chased by men,

I got to knnow by reading her text messages and hearing her conversation on the phone, with oooooooout her knowledge,

i'm really disturbed, cause i don't know what would become of me and my siblings when one of this men finaly gets her

from the text messages it sounds that they are still begging her and she's like refusing cause she's got children, I even read someone say her first born (that's me) is not old enough and is no excuse (_{can you imagine})

you guys should tell me what to do, I'm really confused

Not a lot you can do, really.

For starters, your mom's your mother, but she's also a woman, with natural female desires.

You don't say where your dad is in all this. How old are you?

And, how old is your mom? You shouldn't be reading her text messages either, I don't even read my fiancee's!

well since your father did not do a good job on her she still has the good s to make a man go aarrrghhh!!! damn lil mama, then you know she's not young. it's only a matter of time before she gives in, im sure she's sarved if you know what i mean.lol

segzi cres:

well since your father did not do a good job on her she still has the good s to make a man go aarrrghhh!!! damn little mama, then you know she's not young. it's only a matter of time before she gives in, im sure she's sarved if you know what i mean.lol

Not a thoughtful thing to say - we don't know the history of his father's absence. He could be late, who knows?

You're meant to be giving him advice regarding his mother, I'd say that's very disrespectful. There are situations where jokes are appropriate, this isn't one of them.

Second Siena

u still havn't told us where papa is and how old mama is.

i guess she should be old enough to handle such advances.
its just normal that women get men come around all the time.

its left for her to make the best decision.

i think mama is ok, afterall, she hasn't brought anyone home yet.

Siena:

Not a thoughtful thing to say - we don't know the history of his father's absence. He could be late, who knows?

You're meant to be giving him advice regarding his mother, I'd say that's very disrespectful. There are situations where jokes are appropriate, this isn't one of them.

word!! sometimes i just wonder

segzi cres:

well since your father did not do a good job on her she still has the good s to make a man go aarrrghhh!!! damn little mama, then you know she's not young. it's only a matter of time before she gives in, im sure she's sarved if you know what i mean.lol

Some people go just post sha!

yea peps like siena are right. we may not know the crust of the whole matter, from ur Pop whereabout, how old u or ur mum are, or d likes. But from ur story, it seems ur parents r seperated.

Since we all don't have these info, my candid advice is that - whatever thing may be going on, U NEED TO BE A MAN, STAND UP TO UR RESPONSIBLILITY AS D FIRST BORN, TO PROTECT URSELF, UR SIBLING'S & UR FAMILY'S INTEGRITY. ACT SMARTLY, not like a kid. Do ur findings, Talk maturely with ur Mum. Do ur best, right. Good luck to u

dont be confused my man just ask her if she nos ur father
den u no if its her styleee

People, am sorry to digress a little, i found my profile pix to be too large. i've tried doing it all to no avail. please can someone tell me how i can reduce it to a smaller size. thanks so much.

she must be a hottie!

Abi, well things does happen such way though, but omo is aint easy seeing ur self in kind of situation, u really dont hv option i guess, but stil thank God she even think of her children, if na that kind yeye moms she go just dey do her thing, nothing dey happen, well things will be aiight though!

@poster
Well, i think u should b thinking about ur life and not moma's cos she's matured enough to handle her own situations and as it is, there is little or nothing u can do about this situation, its all up to her.

between,
its not advisable 4 u to be reading her text messages, at least she's got a right to her privacy huh?

@ pterygott,  she must be a hottie!

like u right.

could u do me a favour? how can i reduce my pix like urs. mine's too large. i've tried reducing it all to no avail.

cheers dear.

Guy,remove the picture completely from your profile otherwise no chic will ever contact you from this forum, honest.

@ chiboyz,

said i had a simple need, and here's all u're saying to me. and who's mentioned anything about chic.

well, THANKS VERY MUCH.

well am not pissed off. can't be.

Abeg Phiniter wetin be your age?

Well you ll just have to live with it, mum also has a life (I assume you are old enough).
They do say mature wine, tastes better.

@ edddie, the only way i can think of is for you to reduce the size (pixel number) of the photo before uploading it.

open the photo in MS paint, click image, then stretch/skew. and reduce the percentage of the photo. then save it and upload and see if that helps.

another way that might be helpful: if you have Corel Photo Down loader or any other image application software. use the tools in it to reduce the size of the photo, sae and upload.

hope this works for you.

@ 0123456789,

men thanks very much. i'll try that as soon as possible.

am so grateful once more 4 all ur effort. cheers

Jealous,sulking child. Grow up

Hey, you seem a little selfish and a tad bit immature ( no offence) it really gets lonely for women sometimes.You should also respect her privacy, Look on the bright side, your new step dad could be a minister or diplomat, bet you wouldn't be complaning then woulda,

@poster i know you are angry and jealous over your mum,
dont worry she wont hurt you and your other siblings, she wont remarry if thats your fear ok. you can still call her , speak with her, tell her how you feel. tell her how much you and your siblings loves her, that will do the magic too.

peace

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My mom's still being chased by men,

I got to knnow by reading her text messages and hearing her conversation on the phone, with oooooooout her knowledge,

i'm really disturbed, cause i don't know what would become of me and my siblings when one of this men finaly gets her

from the text messages it sounds that they are still begging her and she's like refusing cause she's got children, I even read someone say her first born (that's me) is not old enough   and is no excuse (can you imagine)

you guys should tell me what to do, I'm really confused  

WORD

Take it from someone who is still there, my dad pursues young girls like crazy, he even tried snatching my brothers

girlfriend, well not to drift to far away, if it hurts you that much, just approach her about it. All these SO- CALLED

GROWNUPS that are still as RANDY as hell. I wonder how i will introduce my dad to my fiancee when that time comes.

I third Sienna

u dint give us the whole details, is she separated from ur dad? Pls lets be careful with our replies, dis is someone's mumm, no need for rude, suggestive or cat call remarks

@Poster

your mum is old enough to decide what she wants.in as much as she still cares for you guys(the kids) then you should let her do whatever makes her happy.she is a woman and also has some needs which you being her son can never meet up to.and make sure you stop intruding please.