LOVE WITHOUT UNDERSTANDING AND WISDOM IS EQUAL TO AN UNFULFILLED MARRIAGE.

Marriage is not an end, it is only a means to an end; To think that marriage is an end is to end up in deception.

Marriage is not a place of rest, it is a place of responsibility. Marriage is work and it is only the properly prepared that make the most out of it.
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Singleness is the preparatory ground for marriage. To play with your single life is to play with your marriage. Singleness is the training ground for marriage.

Marriage is first designed for companionship. God saw Adam and said it was not good for him to be alone. When this purpose is abused every other thing will be abused.

It is not compulsory you marry a guy because you got pregnant for him before marriage. It was a mistake, you don't correct it by getting married otherwise your marriage may be a mistake.

Beauty can attract and lead to marriage but it is only character that keeps and sustains marriage.

The husband's first Job is not to put food on the table, the man's first job is to love His wife, every other responsibility is next.

The wife's first Job is not to bear children, her first job is to submit to her husband as her head. Every other responsibility follows after this.

It is not love that sustains marriage, many that went through divorce honestly loved their spouses. It is just that
they could no longer live together. So what keeps and sustains marriage is wisdom and understanding.

Women are emotional beings, men are rational beings. Understanding is simply treating each other according to who they are and not who you want them to be.

A woman cries when she is happy, she also cries when she is sad. It is natural for her to easily cry, hence the bible says they should be treated as been weak.

Sex is only 10 percent in marriage, to marry for sex alone is to be fully set for disappointment. Sex is not everything. You must have a vision for your family.

It is important to consciously begin to prepare for marriage. Many prepare for wedding, thinking they are preparing for marriage. Wedding is just a one day ceremony, marriage is for a life time. So it is wisdom to take the latter as more important.

Not every woman is extremely beautiful, but every woman can be attractive if they work on their character.

The bottom line is this; IN MARRIAGE, DO NOT SEEK TO PLEASE YOURSELF, ALWAYS SEEK TO PLEASE YOUR SPOUSE and you will be indirectly pleasing yourself. The best is just about happening to you in Jesus Precious Name. Ephesians 5:22-25, Genesis 2:18.
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