sexy glow: Oh Isi akwu dara n'ala,Di gbakwa oku,ojadili etc yu've just reminded me of the good old days in high school.I was so previledged to have attended the then goverment secondary school.An experience worth while.

Na timaya send u ni ? i believe d bolded na verse for hin new single abi?

gohome:

Have you remixed the question?

no,i havent!
The poster asked one question and peeps are busy answering another!
Can You Go Down On your Knees To Beg A Man Not To LEAVE?
This was the question.right?
What all these 'i can beg him if i offend him' about?That is NOT the question!

Pride will not allow African to fight for something they truly love. If you love the person, it will be foolhardy for you to let the person go. You should go to any length to fight for the one you love.

Afam

slimyem: no,i havent!
The poster asked one question and peeps are busy answering another!
Can You Go Down On your Knees To Beg A Man Not To LEAVE?
This was the question.right?
What all these 'i can beg him if i offend him' about?That is NOT the question!

U can beg in HD if ya want oooo

I answered d question based on the bolded, so free joor!

I dont have a problem with apologizing,infact if i am at fault, ha i will apologize with all my heart. But the whole kneeling down thing gets on my nerve. What is it that i cant say on my feet that i have to kneel down for and vice versa?

I think that people are too quick to kneel down. If you are proposing, you kneel down, feed hubby wedding cake, kneel down, secondary school nko, kneel down, raise up your hands and close your eye. Kilode?

The same way i do not expect the guy to kneel down for me in the name of apology or for any other reason, that is the same way i do not expect to kneel and beg someone. If you truly want to accept my apology, kneeling down should not be a factor in my opinion. To me kneeling down is just another form of manipulation in some cases. Some one will mess up badly, will kneel down and say sorry, and you ma go chop nonsense. Meanwhile he/she knelt down cos he/she knew that will make you feel like he/she is being humble. Kai i dont want jo, keep your knees to yourself.

gohome:

This has nothing to do with liver. Its all about personality. The dudes here all say they will beg their queen not to leave them, why will someone that is suppose to be a mother ( or a Mother someday) say she would never knell b4 any man.... SMH. I pity her man.

please go and lie down inside gutter,you didn't see the part where i wrote "never say never" abi? and when did i say it is wrong to beg?saying I've never begged any man kneeling down now means i've never begged before or won't beg a man?carry your nonsense pity where it is needed cos my man is not complaining.

if a man makes up his mind to leave and you go begging him,your tears and pleas could make him stay a little longer before decides to leave again!
What's the use postponing your pain really?
If any guy as much as hints leaving,i'll hold the door open for him!
If you like,knack head for ground,its what i've done before and will do again if the situation calls for it.
No time mheen!

freecocoa: please go and lie down inside gutter,you didn't see the part where i wrote "never say never" abi? and when did i say it is wrong to beg?saying I've never begged any man kneeling down now means i've never begged before or won't beg a man?carry your nonsense pity where it is needed cos my man is not complaining.

una wan fight?

Nothing wrong with a woman kneeling down since it's in our culture. I don't see anyone having a problem kneeling down when they greet their elders. So what's the difference?

Miss EZ: I dont have a problem with apologizing,infact if i am at fault, ha i will apologize with all my heart. But the whole kneeling down thing gets on my nerve. What is it that i cant say on my feet that i have to kneel down for and vice versa?

I think that people are too quick to kneel down. If you are proposing, you kneel down, feed hubby wedding cake, kneel down, secondary school nko, kneel down, raise up your hands and close your eye. Kilode?

Kinpo,Kintu,Kilimanjaro lode

Sweerie am assuming dis guy rolled on the floor to beg for ur hands in marriage rite? so kneeling down to beg him shouldn't b much of a task na.

[size=18pt]DISCLAIMER!!!![/size]

Dis is not Badosky scoring points, am jus bin REAL!!!

dasparrow: Most of the respondents have not even answered the questions posted. Some people are even preaching submissiveness crap. This is not the 16th century folks. Love your wives like Christ loves the church, adequately provide for your families, stop sleeping about and committing adultary and passing STDs to your wives and you will solve the issue of 'submissiveness.'

@OP
I don't have much to say other than, what you see in Nollywood movies is a replica of what really happens in Nigeria. Nigerian society is a chuvinist one and gender/ethinic/religious discrimination is the order of the day. The Nigerian society puts alot of pressure on women to be in a relationship even if it will lead to their untimely death due to rampant cases of domestic violence where the perpetrators get away with their heidous act. The men are viewed as demi gods and get away with treating their women like crap. The women have been brain washed beyond redemption that they don't even know their rights, and allow themselves to be treated like slaves by the men in their lives who are suppose to shower them with love and affection. So that is why you see them (women) crawling on all fours like a turtle all in the name of beging like that is going to make any difference to a man who has already made up his mind to leave. I will not advise any of my female family members to go on their knees all in the name of beging. Human beings are not God. We are like the morning dew, here today and possibly gone tomorrow. If anyone wants to go on their knees and beg, let it be for and to God and not a mere mortal.

I am sure you are such a kid and have no idea what conflict resolution is. Like I said begging or no begging is just a personality issue. It transcend Man and Woman matter. We see this kind of behavior in international politics and foreign policies, we see it happen between mum and daughter, dad and son, two great. pals,etc etc. If its not in your nature to shift grounds in any conflict you find your self in, then you sure have a problem.

dasparrow: Love your wives like Christ loves the church, adequately provide for your families, stop sleeping about and committing adultary and passing STDs to your wives and you will solve the issue of 'submissiveness.'

invalid point. Alot of women cheat too.

dasparrow: Human beings are not God. We are like the morning dew, here today and possibly gone tomorrow. If anyone wants to go on their knees and beg, let it be for and to God and not a mere mortal.

if the god (note the small g) you worship condemn begging while kneeling, I rest my case. I shouldn't be talking to you

slimyem: no,i havent!
The poster asked one question and peeps are busy answering another!
Can You Go Down On your Knees To Beg A Man Not To LEAVE?
This was the question.right?
What all these 'i can beg him if i offend him' about?That is NOT the question!

We answered the question by saying no we wont beg him to stay. However, if he was leaving cos of something we did then we would beg.

kelz88: We answered the question by saying no we wont beg him to stay. However, if he was leaving cos of something we did then we would beg.

correct girl joor. English oh English. wonder why folks cant understand thee

xynerise:
una wan fight?

Some people are just annoying,OP asked a simple question and the anumanu is busy saying another thing.

slimyem: if a man makes up his mind to leave and you go begging him,your tears and pleas could make him stay a little longer before decides to leave again!
What's the use postponing your pain really?
If any guy as much as hints leaving,i'll hold the door open for him!
If you like,knack head for ground,its what i've done before and will do again if the situation calls for it.
No time mheen!

Confused. Will you beg or not? Open the door for him to leave or what?

freecocoa: Some people are just annoying,OP asked a simple question and the anumanu is busy saying another thing.

WHO DEY TROUBLE U? POINT DEM OUT NOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!

kelz88: Confused. Will you beg or not? Open the door for him to leave or what?

kelzz from dat last post of hers , u can tel she forming wan tin wan tin.

Na her type dey turn sugar mummy.

freecocoa: Some people are just annoying,OP asked a simple question and the anumanu is busy saying another thing.

thats his opinion na

freecocoa: Some people are just annoying,OP asked a simple question and the anumanu is busy saying another thing.

thats his opinion na

Idowuogbo:

WHO DEY TROUBLE U? POINT DEM OUT NOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!

,abeg forget that one joor,i no want make you wound person.

freecocoa: Who is this one and what the french are you yapping about? Abeg excuse me.

Is that all you have got.I was expecting you to criticize constructively. Most arrogant bit ch es I know are kinda intelligent. your case beats my imagination..
Dumb + Arrogance = Wicked combination.

kelz88: Confused. Will you beg or not? Open the door for him to leave or what?

what's confusing you?
I said,i wont beg any guy not to leave ever!i'd even help him by holding the door open while he packs up his stuff!

xynerise:
thats his opinion na

He should give his opinion without twisting my comment.

freecocoa: ,abeg forget that one joor,i no want make you wound person.

the highest she can do is to break bottle.

gohome:

Is that all you have got.I was expecting you to criticize constructively. Most arrogant bit ch es I know are kinda intelligent. your case beats my imagination..
Dumb + Arrogance = Wicked combination.

Seriously i won't waste my time on an ediot like yourself,you couldn't even comprehend my post so why bother,abeg to the left.

Idowuogbo:

kelzz from dat last post of hers , u can tel she forming wan tin wan tin.

Na her type dey turn sugar mummy.

at least you don senior me reach sugar mummy levels.
how old are you again sef?43?
Enu e bi iwo idi mi!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew

xynerise:
the highest she can do is to break bottle.

Watch out,she fit break am for your head o.

My last word to all the humble ladies in the house:may peace and love of God keep you and your hubbies together unending.enjoy!

freecocoa: He should give his opinion without twisting my comment.

I wasn't twisting your comment... It was a candid ( but painful) reply. It was based on the fact that you said you wont beg no matter what.

Idowuogbo:
Kinpo,Kintu,Kilimanjaro lode

Sweerie am assuming dis guy rolled on the floor to beg for ur hands in marriage rite? so kneeling down to beg him shouldn't b much of a task na.

[size=18pt]DISCLAIMER!!!![/size]

Dis is not Badosky scoring points, am jus bin REAL!!!

You are missing my point. I am saying that i do not expect anyone to kneel down for me for any reason. And the same way i do not have that expectation of anyone, no one should have that expectation of me. Will i kneel down to greet an elderly person as a sign of respect? Hell YES!!! Will i kneel down to beg anyone? NO? For the simple reason that if someone is going to accept your apology, i dont think that kneeling down should be a factor? what does it prove, that both your knees can touch the ground? Not all kneeling down is sincere and therefore in my books it doesnt count.

PS: i would hope that my hubby to be would be more creative about proposing. kneeling down is definitely something i do not want to see.

gohome:
I wasn't twisting your comment... It was a candid ( but painful) reply. It was based on the fact that you said you wont beg no matter what.

Haba!! She said then again never say never.

gohome:

Is that all you have got.I was expecting you to criticize constructively. Most arrogant bit ch es I know are kinda intelligent. your case beats my imagination..
Dumb + Arrogance = Wicked combination.

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Dude abeg y all dis na, i refuse to go dia o.Pls lets not reach dia sir,cus standing on an escalator fit b like plane for u if care is not taken.

Cocoalario will beg u no worry, shes an expert in begging sef.

How u wan ur begging, first class or second class?