Ok. In response to Jennykadry's post explaining how sick and tired she is of the multiple complaints of problems in people's marriages, I've decided to create this post to sing a different tune. My husband and I just had a major quarrel. In the past, I would have cried, and blah blah blah eventually conceding just for peace to reign. Sadly, this doesn't work. Believe you me, my husband responds better when you cease to use the usual feminine wiles and just assert yourself. I have learnt to do just that and I get unbelievable results, mostly good and some not so good. Anyway, in this case, it was good. So yeah! (Jennykadry, I hope I've made ur day. No complaints, just good stuff)

lol.

Good to know. At least, we are all learning.

infact, my hubby hates it wen we have arguement and I start crying.lol. He simply thinks u are pretending so that you can get his attention and distract him from d main point.lol

Tgirl4real: infact, my hubby hates it wen we have arguement and I start crying.lol. He simply thinks u are pretending so that you can get his attention and distract him from d main point.lol

TRUTH

Crying sure throws them off center. I remember when I had post partum blues after our first was born. I was crying for no reason at all. Instead of asking me why he panicked. He was like do you want to follow mom back home when she is going. Kai. If I had a shoe I would have thrown it. Men just don't understand crying. They either think you see them as a monster or they get totally frustrated

Fhemmmy:

Most men think like that . . . .

good to know. Me don toughen up. No dey do any cry cry o.lol

Instead of crying, I will just ignore till cools down, then I will start my own.hehehe

Now Op, Try and Kongo-lize the make up

Shagg the living daylight out of that guy.

Next time he would be looking forward to more make up sexx

dayokanu: Now Op, Try and Kongo-lize the make up

Shagg the living daylight out of that guy.

Next time he would be looking forward to more make up sexx

Lol. Done that. I don't get it but make up sex is the best sex ever. Come to think of it, my husband strongly believes I'm possessed and need deliverance since I have the penchant of picking up quarrels for no reason(according to him o, I strongly disagree), now I know why....