reeeT: Am selfish and self centerd,everitin has 2be about me and in that process, i have lost alot of good men.Now,am tryin 2be more open to my man eventhough it makes me look weak

iykeboyy: I have learnt alot. Among which is don't take her forgranted.
There is thìs girl that fell madly and blindly inlove with me.she was ever ready to give me any thing although she is a year older than me but she stil repect me to the fullest, the girl in question was the only daughter of her wealthy perents so money is never her problem and as that she atracted many toasters of wish are more advance than me,but to may suprise she turn down their proposal cus of me. At a time i begin to get bored with her and started taking her love, too much calls and test massage 4granted. She complained and was crying cos of my strange behavious but her nagging was landing on my deft ear.
One evening i called her to meet me somewhere she was happy and left all she was doing to meet me that night but to her greatest supprise i explained to her how imparative the need to break up was. To cut it short. She went home crying dat 9th but i pretended as if i was not seeing her.that was the end of the relationship

ONE WEEK LETER
after one week of the incident i saw her one early morning around my apartment on a new brown baby jeep with one guy like dat teach her hw to rid. After some time i discover dat her dady bought her dat car two days after the break up. Now am regreting because i luv her. LEASON you cannot miss water until the well turn dry.

U can solve the question on my signature.

Mrs.Chima:
One thing I have learned not to toy with a celibate man.

Ozonna:

Dude, u r a 9ce guy. Flee from her as far as u can cos she maybe using u as her shock absorber just incase of heart break (gals r good coaches, some usually have substitute bench), she maybe feeling u r not in her league or u r just her fone recharger.

There r many gals out dere waiting for u to say sometin. You need to erase her from ur mind and get anoda gal cos somtin tells me u're single (hope u r not).

Benito69: Never date any girl that has all the following;
-she is the first-born
-she has two sisters that are 7 and 9 respectively
-she is your age-mate
-she is from delta
if she is all of the above, don't believe the crap from her mouth.

flanrey: To clearly define my relationship... Not toasting a girl with marriage when all I want is a fling

I learnt the hardway and paid with my car windscreens and tires

Hotie Tima:



there's alot more and u know it

oluwagbami: My opinion is, if you have truly fallen in love you, then don't have the monopoly of your heart anymore............... i happen to be a very emotional guy, that was my mistake..... i showed that i love the girl way too much, i showed too much affection, showed that i really cared for her, got her whatever she asked for, showed that she meant so much to me..... in short, that i couldn't do without her by my side............. And when the moment came, she dealt me with Thor's hammer and i was completely shattered. She broke, smashed, shattered and pierced my heart. since then i have promised not to display too much affection when it comes to dating....

ludot: This is my version of the post "What Are The Dating Mistakes That Guys & Ladies Make?" found at https://www.nairaland.com/672795/what-dating-mistakes-that-guys

I hate pointing fingers and I believe it takes two tango. A friend once said, "relationships are for two people, some don't just know how to count." For me, when a relationship ends, I believe both parties should own up to the parts they played to make it crumble.

I have made several mistakes in my past relationships and I have learnt from them, one of which is being too busy with work to call or send her text messages till someone else snatched her.

Whether you are a guy or a lady, are you willing to share yours so we can learn from it?


for me i have learnt not to involve my friends too much into my love afiars, my ex and i gave a lift ride to my friend and after we got home on his way back to the car he find's telephone number written on a piece of paper, my ex ask me if i droped it i replied no i dnt remember, but i ask him softly to bring the number for me, which he refused and i also intend to call out of jelousy and i accused him too of transporting other babes so i now said to him we should call together to clear doubt, to my surprise it was my friend whome we gave ride that picked up so on and so forth........ i was really mad and felt disappointed. but she failed.

another friend of mine set me up on a date and i lost him after a bitter and huge arguments but he never belived my explanation so i let go and few months later i travelled and now i heard that the very friend has a child for him, well,well such is life and i have learnt not to tell most sweetest part to my friends i guess they do all that out of jealousy.

KateSpade: Lets see

If you date multiple ppl at the same time, do your best not to mix them up

Relationships are sacrifice, you have to put in some work, time and effort

You might like other things more than your bf, just don't let him know that

There is no easy way to break up with someone. So just get it done, don't drag it on.

Pick n choose your battles

Compliment him every now and then

Horlardorjah:
I'm in a relationship with a lady that happens to b my church member. As always, I showered her with all my love, made her know a moment without her sucks. Wat do I get back 4rm her, she acts too busy for me.
she comes online on FB/whatsapp & won't respond 2 my messages until after 2hrs. She still claims she loves ME oh. My mistake was letting her know how much I loved her and her reaction has definitely changed my affection for her.
Honestly, all I want from her now is to get her laid & call it quit. Guys neva show a lady how much u love. If u do, u are on a long tin.