TisaBone: so what exactly is it that you THINK you need.

tpia@:
i think most men like women who arent 100% fixated on men to the exclusion of every other thing.

TisaBone:

oh so basically what ur saying is that men like to be ignored? kinda like how im doing Reality right now?

violent:

Nah!...I'm a caveman with multiple testicles, you don't tell me my shyt stinks even if they do!

TisaBone:

wasn't nobody even talkin to you. see this is exactly what i mean. you men have no manners! wut ya'll need is a firm, but loving hand to guide you. everyone knows men only think with one head, and its not the big one. so leave all the big stuff to the more capable sex.

cowgurl: Lmao. Yeah, dat shud work Tisabone. @Topic, they sure can't handle it obviously.

TisaBone:
lmao thats a little bit too woman for them.

TisaBone: I did not say aggressive, but assertive.

the type of woman that will love you unconditionally, but as soon as you mess up, will tell you your s---hit stinks. the type that doesn't take any mess, and doesn't believe in second chances and will leave you in a heartbeat if you are not acting right. the type of woman that carries her own weight. does this turn you on, or are you not man enough to handle such a woman?

Who told you assertive women come "factory fitted" with those stereotypes up there? Assertive doesn't mean not believing in second chances or ability to carry her own weight. . . What do you mean not "man enough to handle such women?" Don't they have emotions? What is going on here?

TisaBone: I did not say aggressive, but assertive.

TisaBone: the type of woman that will love you unconditionally, but as soon as you mess up, will tell you your s---hit stinks. the type that doesn't take any mess, and doesn't believe in second chances and will leave you in a heartbeat if you are not acting right.

TisaBone: the type of woman that carries her own weight. does this turn you on,

TisaBone: or are you not man enough to handle such a woman?

nomsuzwana: African men would like to think they want and can handle an assertive woman who speaks her mind and knows exactly what she will or will not put up with, BUT, in all honesty they can not handle such a women. I speak from experience!

nomsuzwana: African men would like to think they want and can handle an assertive woman who speaks her mind and knows exactly what she will or will not put up with, BUT, in all honesty they can not handle such a women. I speak from experience!

fresh_dude: In my experience, women who pride themselves in being 'liberated' are just unnecessarily rude, confrontational and cantankerous. They tend to display the very same aggressivenes they would term as 'ungentlemanly'. Ladies you dont need to pick a fight at every instance to prove your equality and liberation(some of us men actually KNOW you lot are liberated). If you wont put up with my gruffness I sure as hell wont condone your nasty attitude. Respect goes to the lady who's 'ladylike' in her disagreement and (defiance). I dont want to be dating a man in a female body. NO!

TisaBone: I did not say aggressive, but assertive.

the type of woman that will love you unconditionally, but as soon as you mess up, will tell you your s---hit stinks. the type that doesn't take any mess, and doesn't believe in second chances and will leave you in a heartbeat if you are not acting right. the type of woman that carries her own weight. does this turn you on, or are you not man enough to handle such a woman?

Ammyng:

They can't handle us

bennyraz: @TISAbabe, I know where you are coming from and i guess your post is referring to you. Well, you are ready to love unconditionally? fine. But do you know the meaning of unconditional love? If you love someone unconditionally like you claim, no matter what the guy does, no matter how the guy messes up, it would be difficult for you to tell him off. Love without conditions is true love. But you attaching conditions to your love only shows that you don't truly love the guy. You just have it up in your head. It's like you are learning how to love the person. Mind you, love is a natural thing. And if truly you love the person, no matter what, you would be there. You don't need to be assertive aggressively as if you are on ice waiting to melt. Relationships of assertive women don't last because they love with the conditions you put up there. Do you expect a guy/babe to be 100% perfect? No because no one is perfect cuz we are bound to make mistakes even if some mistakes are done out of selfishness & greediness which is quite questionable. I know you want to set the boundaries & you want your guy to not cross the line.. Ok. And you can acheive this by being financially independent ok. It means you want to set the rules, no problem. You want to be the man of the house as a woman, no problem. Just get a man who he's a woman in heart. You won't have problems.. Ok.

mayoroflag: The q is do I?

The answer is: Yes, I do.

Else, will you prefer to have a wife who "barks like a dog" to Lisa a la Coming to America (cut out the fantasia)?

However, I notice most African guys love Lisas for girlfriends and "Bark like a dog, a Big Dog" for a wife....

fresh_dude: What exactly is she asserting, and why does she need any asserting, are we in a contest for whoseopinion matters most?You really need to read up on the meaning of 'unconditional' love Why wouldnt it, aint gon be running around with vegetables.Well I dont believe in competing with my woman or bending over backwards to impress her, if she dont like me the way I is, she can go fcck that transgendered above. Thank you, hope I answered your question?

fresh_dude: What exactly is she asserting, and why does she need any asserting, are we in a contest for whoseopinion matters most?You really need to read up on the meaning of 'unconditional' love Why wouldnt it, aint gon be running around with vegetables.Well I dont believe in competing with my woman or bending over backwards to impress her, if she dont like me the way I is, she can go fcck that transgendered above. Thank you, hope I answered your question?