MRbrownJAY: the catch is to accept that you will probably NEVER find a perfect mate, and even if you do, that person wont stay that way forever because people change in r/ships. nobody stays the same forever, people grow, mature, learn and adapt to life and its surroundings.

so, as much as it is difficult to find that perfect mate, i doubt it would be very difficult to find someone that you dig very much.
and to make sure that this person as most of the quality that you require in a mate, while having least possible flaws that you cant stand

there is nothing wrong in saying sometimes:" ok, whatever babe!", there is nothing wrong with having an argument or having different views....and unfortunately, people like you who are seeking for perfection (all the time and forever) would never understand that.

if you truly love someone, then it shouldnt really mind if that person likes basketball while you love football OR that you are shy and that she is "out there".

shymmex: I'm back with my stories .. I know some folks are bored of my stories, but I'm a perfectionist - and I seek perfection everyday, in everything I do in life.. I know if I don't open up about certain things I'm confused about - and brainstorm with people, who may have been through similar experiences in the past, I'll continue to make the same mistake.. We all learn new things everyday, and I'm on here to seek knowledge...

I've never been in a 'perfect' relationship, and it seems I'm too complicated for every girl I have ever gone out with (I'm a capricorn, and you know how we get down )...

I'll like to know if anyone has ever been in a 'perfect' relationship..

shymmex: I'm back with my stories .. I know some folks are bored of my stories, but I'm a perfectionist - and I seek perfection everyday, in everything I do in life.. I know if I don't open up about certain things I'm confused about - and brainstorm with people, who may have been through similar experiences in the past, I'll continue to make the same mistake.. We all learn new things everyday, and I'm on here to seek knowledge...

I've never been in a 'perfect' relationship, and it seems I'm too complicated for every girl I have ever gone out with (I'm a capricorn, and you know how we get down )...

I'll like to know if anyone has ever been in a 'perfect' relationship..

MRbrownJAY: ^^^ sorry i think you lost yourself, the religion thread is WAY OVER THERE-------------->

btw: on your way to the religious section,instead of talking rubbish, open and read your bible, it would greatly help you. we were all created out of his image, so if he is perfect, then we human can all be perfect as well, duh!!!

MRbrownJAY: the catch is to accept that you will probably NEVER find a perfect mate, and even if you do, that person wont stay that way forever because people change in r/ships. nobody stays the same forever, people grow, mature, learn and adapt to life and its surroundings.

so, as much as it is difficult to find that perfect mate, i doubt it would be very difficult to find someone that you dig very much.
and to make sure that this person has most of the quality that you require in a mate, while having least possible flaws that you cant stand

there is nothing wrong in saying sometimes:" ok, whatever babe!", there is nothing wrong with having an argument or having different views....and unfortunately, people like you who are seeking for perfection (all the time and forever) would never understand that.

if you truly love someone, then it shouldnt really mind if that person likes basketball while you love football OR that you are shy and that she is "out there".

Goldieluks:


Perfect relationship does not exist as far as i know.
By the way, how does Capricorns get down?

MRbrownJAY: ^ŝtep away Mrs C, let me deal with this gal!!!! lol

@bernfame
so now you are changing your stand? i thought you were saying that there is no perfect human being......thats completely different than having a perfect r/ship.

anyway let me help you ONCE AGAIN: if my sole aim in life is to marry a submissive beautiful wife and i meet a lady whose sole aim in life is to marry a dominating/bossy/assertive man THEN we would have a perfect r/ship.......simply because i would provide her with all that she needs/desires in a man and life. PERFECT RELATIONSHIP STATUS!!!!

now as for the perfect human being, we are all PERFECT, in our own rights. just because someone doesnt like fat people doesnt make fat people imperfect, just because some people dont like ugly ducklings, doesnt make ugly people imperfect. same with lazy people or dumb ones, it is all in the eyes of the beholder. we are the way we are and we will make perfect music with the right person out there (even if we are the worst of our kind).

now if you look at yourself in the mirror, and you dont see yourself as great, perfect, fantastic etc then the joke is on you lady!

shymmex:

Peep this:

Capricorns are normally confident, strong willed and calm. These hardworking, unemotional, shrewd, practical, responsible, persevering, and cautious to the extreme persons, are capable of persisting for as long as is necessary to accomplish a goal they have set for themselves.

Most girls can't stand the two bolded qualities.

ypzilanti: Yup. Nothing is perfect and no one, but if the good times are much more than the bad times...maybe like 95 percent, then you have a perfect relationship. Thats my opinion.

Heres a checklist:

If you never think in your mind that you could get a better deal than your partner, you have a perfect relationship.

If you get as much as you give emotionally or in your calculation, more.

If no one else is closer to either of you than you are to each other.

If you both never abuse or curse at each other no matter the quarrel.

If the sex is borderline amazing.



According to one friend, the only difference between madness and love is reciprocity. If you would go out at 1 am in the morning to help her on third mainland bridge, would she do same for you? If your answer is yes, na love...if no..na madness.

P.S. Keep the fights clean and the intimacy. dirty.