coupe-boy:
It may sound funny but i need to say it and at least get some advice from u guys.Now here is the story:>>>> My wify has a friend that grew up together from childhood. Resently, she informed us that she is about getting married. She now then called and pleaded me to release my wify to assist she and her husband to be some of the wedding preparation/planning. To cut a long story short, my wify went and refuse to come back to our home. I tried calling her and the response was that my calling her was too much and that i shouln't call again becos the whole activity is so busy and she wont hv d time to speak wit me. Now she is back to our home after flouting my orders about leaving thier place to our matrimonial home in time. Now in dis situation wat will i need to do And even after her wedding she hasn't even call me to show appreciation 4 releasing my wify to her,neither the husband did. Pls advice...

coupe-boy:
It may sound funny but i need to say it and at least get some advice from u guys.Now here is the story:>>>> My wify has a friend that grew up together from childhood. Resently, she informed us that she is about getting married. She now then called and pleaded me to release my wify to assist she and her husband to be some of the wedding preparation/planning. To cut a long story short, my wify went and refuse to come back to our home. I tried calling her and the response was that my calling her was too much and that i shouln't call again becos the whole activity is so busy and she wont hv d time to speak wit me. Now she is back to our home after flouting my orders about leaving thier place to our matrimonial home in time. Now in dis situation wat will i need to do And even after her wedding she hasn't even call me to show appreciation 4 releasing my wify to her,neither the husband did. Pls advice...

Sisi_Kill:

Lmao! Eleha Jawe!!

Why will she wanna come back to a place where she has to be "released"

Okay on a serious note, It is very annoying when people don't show appreciation after you let them use your property!! You didn't have to release her to them but you being the magnanimous person you are, you did and how do the repay you. . .mot a word of thanks. Some people have no idea what can ungratefulness can cause.

I remember a story my grandma told me, one man released his slaves to go help his friend clear his farm, after the clearing the other man didn't even come calling to say thanks. . .nothing. The slave owner got angry and fought his friend, the small fight between friends turned to all out war and before you know it the whole village razed down by fire, property lost, lives lost. . .all because one person didn't see fit to thank another for releasing his slave. SMH!!

My Advice, don't be angry just take this has a lesson learned. Now you know that next time you won't release your wife to any body until you get assurance they will appreciate your releasing. . .releasion. . .whatever, you get the point, no?

moremi2008:

[size=18pt]@ OP, your wife is not a cooking pot to be lent out to friends and family when needed. [/size]

chaircover: awwwwwww now I feel sorry for the poster. I like it when people learn from their mistakes.
poster just as you have been told, ease off. Let your wife be free and even though she is married to you, she is still an individual. She is still yours, but not in the way that you have expressed it in your post.

Sisikill will not kill me one day

coupe-boy:
Thank you all for the good, the bad and the ugly advice. I'm a change man now, old things hv passed away and every thing now is new. Thank u all..

coupe-boy:
Thank you all for the good, the bad and the ugly advice. I'm a change man now, old things hv passed away and every thing now is new. Thank u all..

Sisi_Kill:

Lmao! Eleha Jawe!!

Why will she wanna come back to a place where she has to be "released"

Okay on a serious note, It is very annoying when people don't show appreciation after you let them use your property!! You didn't have to release her to them but you being the magnanimous person you are, you did and how do the repay you. . .mot a word of thanks. Some people have no idea what can ungratefulness can cause.

I remember a story my grandma told me, one man released his slaves to go help his friend clear his farm, after the clearing the other man didn't even come calling to say thanks. . .nothing. The slave owner got angry and fought his friend, the small fight between friends turned to all out war and before you know it the whole village razed down by fire, property lost, lives lost. . .all because one person didn't see fit to thank another for releasing his slave. SMH!!

My Advice, don't be angry just take this has a lesson learned. Now you know that next time you won't release your wife to any body until you get assurance they will appreciate your releasing. . .releasion. . .whatever, you get the point, no?

moremi2008: @ OP, for some reason something just told me to check out your previous posts on NL! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are a devil, sir! Haba! You not only slept with your wife's younger sister, you have also recently impregnated another woman knowing fully well that you and your wife have not conceived yet! Yeparipa! God deliver my sisters from men like you! Just take am easy oh! Everything in this life has its reward and if all you write about on here is true, you are sowing TERRIBLE seeds for the future.

taryour:


OMG!!! U av changed,after all d damages u av caused ur wife,d hurt n pains,d betrayal,rejection n emotional stress. U even slept with her sister n u ad oda girlfrnds. U say u av changed but did tell ur wife abt all ur deeds?as she completely fogiven u with d whole of her heart? If u did not tell her n u think u av changed then i assure u dat u are in for a deep shit. Cos her spirit,creator,body and soul asnt forgiven u,u will definately pay for every single hurt n pain u av caused that woman. Her creator will hunt u down,n u will never succed or av rest of mind in life untill u postrate infront of ur wife n plead for her forgiveness. U are wicked ooo,u did all dis to her yet u can still call her sturbon. Kai !! U are a very wicked and heartless man. Ur marriage is still young n u av done so much damage...

Aparche: [/b][b]

^^buhahahahahahahahahahaha...I love this
@op: is ur wife a prisoner in her home that u have to "release" her?

moremi2008:

Abeg, spare us the platitude. So what happened to your girlfriend's bele? You don comot am? I pray God forgives you. Randy old goat! You had better to fix your marriage and heal yourself!

moremi2008: @ OP, for some reason something just told me to check out your previous posts on NL! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are a devil, sir! Haba! You not only slept with your wife's younger sister, you have also recently impregnated another woman knowing fully well that you and your wife have not conceived yet! Yeparipa! God deliver my sisters from men like you! Just take am easy oh! Everything in this life has its reward and if all you write about on here is true, you are sowing TERRIBLE seeds for the future.