Just imagine calling your wify Honny and she call you OGA.
Saw this two couple in london yesterday, at first i don't know they are Nigerians until we enter the same bus. When we were about to enter the man call Honny Honny where is your bus pass and the wify replied Oga its in my handbag. I turned and the woman sensed that i might be a Nigerian on the way i looked at  hear as she said that word OGA. Oviously i thought the man was not her husband until i started talking to them as i know now that they are nigerians. To my greatest suprise both of them are Medical Doctors in Nigeria.
Why are our women be so unromantic.

And you based Nigerian women's lack of romance on that?

oh how pathetic,
you obviously havnt heard of pet names!!!

Siena:

And you based Nigerian women's lack of romance on that?

i couldnt believe it my self!!

Well Fox, we live in a very "generalising" world!

Still, it's funny to comprehend sometimes.

@post
baby let me upgrade you lol, naija women can be romantic. . .but moi, very romantic, come into my world and you'll never want to leave. . .got what i mean?^{(-) bank account joking o}

generalizing in action.
and who says that 'oga' is not romantic?

whatever, atlease nigerian women are more romantic than nigerian men. they try to be romantic but it just doesnt work.

one more thread about nigerian women and how unromantic they are and i'll kill myself. cant take anymore.

spoilt:

one more thread about nigerian women and how unromantic they are and i'll kill myself. can't take anymore.

What is madam complaining about? when Nigerian men were "lazy" and "insensitive" you no complain o.

davidylan:

What is madam complaining about? when Nigerian men were "lazy" and "insensitive" you no complain o.

ROFLMBO

Davidylan take your time.

We havent had many threads addressing the laziness of our men. *cough**cough**.
But just about everywhere i turn its about the unromantic nigerian woman.

spoilt:

ROFLMBO

Davidylan take your time.

We havent had many threads addressing the laziness of our men. *cough**cough**.
But just about everywhere i turn its about the unromantic nigerian woman.

It is not our fault. . . the evidence is clear. Just look around at the brittle nature of those who represent the Nigerian women on this forum. I'd rather marry a Jewish woman.

cool down oh davidylan. Who has time to 'chocorise' and be romantic? There's yam to be pounded, water to be fetched, children to be backed, yards to be swept and conjugal duties to be mechanically performed. We are too exhausted to be romantic!

I dont see Romance in the dictionary of any Nigerian language. I think what we are used to is making babies and getting down to business,

spoilt:

There's yam to be pounded, water to be fetched, children to be backed, yards to be swept and conjugal duties to be mechanically performed. We are too exhausted to be romantic!

And the man goes out to get the money. Shikena.

Ikomi:

I don't see Romance in the dictionary of any Nigerian language. I think what we are used to is making babies and getting down to business,
And the man goes out to get the money. Shikena.

Now they are backing like wounded lion but will always bash 9ja guys like tomorrow has passed. OGA chei 9ja women are not representing at all. Medical doctors for that marra. Anyway i dont blame them, its from their foremothers.

spoilt:

cool down oh davidylan. Who has time to 'chocorise' and be romantic? There's yam to be pounded, water to be fetched, children to be backed, yards to be swept and conjugal duties to be mechanically performed. We are too exhausted to be romantic!

There's plumbing to be fixed, carpentry work to be done, tyres and carburetors to be fixed on the cars, rent to be paid, school fees to provide and energy to burn performing conjugal duties. We are too exhausted to be romantic and we are too busy to be lazy!
Chikena!

See me see wahala ooo!
When we have insensitive men - what do we need to be romantic for? (j/k)

How are you sure that word doesn't turn him on? Maybe it's how they've called each other since day 1. Besides Nigerian women can be very romantic, in fact most of them are - when they are single. Once marriage comes in, that fact is variable.

Where are all the "uncles" that were condemning us for calling them insensitive? They should come and lodge their own complaints here.

Oga chei !!! is she learning trade from the husband or what? why should our ladies/women be so unromantic to call their husband Oga, i even saw one myself that calls the husband DEE/Deede as he is her elder brother or something.You husband call you honni you call him Oga then how do think your Oga will carry your shopping bag for you. Call him Honni or sweetie and see why he will not even carry you for back with wrapper(oja).
Oga will ever get servant, the wife has mad herself the servant.

@first poster,

, who told you that Nigerian women are not romantic,you just come to my area,even a new born-baby(girl) is romantic,likewise everyother chicks there, u mean where is my area?,i'll tell u later,hmmmm,ok its ILASA

So,to prove u wrong,come to my city,anyway all the babes i've ever been dating are highly romantic.



Regards,
wesseyblack

different names turn different people on. how do u know that this "oga" name is not a private joke btw the pair?

janami:

different names turn different people on. how do u know that this "oga" name is not a private joke between the pair?

Inside public transport.

lmao @ thread? so?! Don't you think her man should be da judge of dat? couples make up different nicknames for each other which may also be comical names. anywayz, dont feel like writing much cuz dis is funny and silly. nothing to get all hyped about.

We can't be romantic since most of you guys are not "pretty" to look at anymore. Get rid of that pot belly and stop nagging us for sex all the time and we might just recover enough to be romantic.

Don't attack us like animals in a zoo!

almondjoy:

We can't be romantic since most of you guys are not "pretty" to look at anymore. Get rid of that pot belly and stop nagging us for sex all the time and we might just recover enough to be romantic.

Don't attack us like animals in a zoo!

lol. so true.

almondjoy:

We can't be romantic since most of you guys are not "pretty" to look at anymore. Get rid of that pot belly and stop nagging us for sex all the time and we might just recover enough to be romantic.
Don't attack us like animals in a zoo!

wu says naija women rnt romantic maybe its just ur wife [flash=200,200][/flash]

Sometimes when my huband gives me an "order" i also reply "yes sir". I think that says so much like stop bossing or can´t you say it nicer. It always depends on the situation.
Besides I think in a relationship where ther is respect romance can florish more.
IF i call my husband honey etc and there is no resect and we keep getting at each others neck ist that romance?
When I first got married we did have our arguments and I often wanted to stand my ground but at night my huband would tease me and say i wanted to be a man in the daytime and a woman at night.
I just love being a woman and letting the man be in control. I get what I want anyway just have to know how to tune him on the right frequency. Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown not the neck that rotates the head that carries the crown.

mutter:

Sometimes when my huband gives me an "order" i also reply "yes sir". I think that says so much like stop bossing or can´t you say it nicer. It always depends on the situation.

mutter:

When I first got married we did have our arguments and I often wanted to stand my ground but at night my huband would tease me and say i wanted to be a man in the daytime and a woman at night

mutter:

I just love being a woman and letting the man be in control. I get what I want anyway just have to know how to tune him on the right frequency. Uneasy lies the head that wears the crown not the neck that rotates the head that carries the crown.

meennn thats deep!

Mutter is a role model for all wives out there. Sometimes you dont have to be in command to be in charge.

obviously u r a busy body - what do you want - u want the woman to be kissing her hubby in the bus for you to know she is romantic - i guess u just want to see a blue movie in the bus live btwn hubby and wife. - na wa for u - i sure say the couple go dey laugh behind you when dem leave u - silly old boy - who send u message - no go face your own o make u dey look for romantic couple for bus for London- shio - Oga ko - Oga ni.

please!!! our women are romantic