Onegai:

The reason I stand by my words is it takes 2 to Bleep.up a rel. So if she was truly all at fault, what would it cost you to be polite while leaving, eh But the fact is that in every rel, there was misunderstanding on both sides, and the breakup merely means you've decided to try other options. Simple. So why be a goat abt it? Ask yourself: "why must I breakup harshly, why must I ignore, blank, blame, act like a bad person to leave this person if she didn't cheat on me, steal my money, kill a family member?" Why are you punishing that person for a rel not working out, when we all know not all will??

Onegai: ---

jp philips:

you write so much that you lose context, a chyker you called it, do you break up with chykers?
now we have understood you are polite to admirers good for you but i tell you what, if you are stunningly beautiful and you attract men in droves, after 5yrs of your life, you will psychologically develop a cloud of attitude to protect yourself from those trooping radicals.
in conclusion, i think you are just an average gal or a little below ave that you need to be that nice pending when you may need them again no offense though

all you are saying makes no pragmatic sense unless you are begging for attention from guys, the bad news is that loads of girls get more than required attention so they hardly care about the feelings of a loser,
its like saying RIP to a shot armed robber,

baby, you are either unattractive or jobless IMHO

Onegai:


you're funny. Trust me, even you cannot afford me. Trust me. I won awards at Uni for looks (I really didn't like being nominated though and it's why I'm very careful how I post here, I used to be super-popular for being hot and I hated it), I have a very popular last name. I'm polite because my dad taught me all people, from his mechanic to my uncle (on the list of Nigeria's richest) deserves the same measure of politeness. And no, I'm not some 25 year old chicken. It's sad that when a pretty girl is humble, she's seen as having low self-esteem. I guess I should start shouting and vexing, like a child.

MsDarkSkin:

sewenn: saying the truth and nothing but the truth

Onegai:
Emotions playing you is the big problem. If it happens, sure, but control it and see what next. I've seen good relationships hit the rocks because they had problems and emotions got out of control. That's what a Break is for, to rein in yourself and emotions, refocus and decide what next. Instead, we use it to scout for the next babe/guy. Even if your emotions play you, control it. That's the difference between an adult and a child: one controls his/her emotion. So if you break up messily, take the time to go back and break it right, and proper.

Onegai:
Emotions playing you is the big problem. If it happens, sure, but control it and see what next. I've seen good relationships hit the rocks because they had problems and emotions got out of control. That's what a Break is for, to rein in yourself and emotions, refocus and decide what next. Instead, we use it to scout for the next babe/guy. Even if your emotions play you, control it. That's the difference between an adult and a child: one controls his/her emotion. So if you break up messily, take the time to go back and break it right, and proper.

obongproff:

So u get sense like dis ehn?
Iyanmi!