Have you ever looked at men who can get any girl they want and wondered, "how do they do it?" Yes, females are attracted to power and status. Yes, they are attracted to symmetrical features, strength and confidence. But, we all know there are some unattractive, not-so-powerful guys who many women swoon over. Here are some of his secrets:

1 Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes, unless she's the type to rebel against popular opinion just because it's popular opinion (in which case the remainder of the steps will probably wear her down).

2 Subtly reveal your human side with talk of taboo and sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."

3 Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is drop-dead gorgeous, ignore her. After hearing about your rakish reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving.

4 Do not hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily. Yes women get jealous easily but their jealousy will cause them to become moody , non-tolerant and distant when around you. If you hint that plenty of women like you, you will be seen as a Playboy and not taken seriously. Women like to feel like they are the only ones in the world and many desired. They prefer to be chased not the chaser. Hinting that other women like you is a major turn-off.

5 Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, MySpace, family, TV shows, or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about exotic vacation spots, mythology, sex (sometimes), history, astrology, dreams, fate, and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things. The eyes are very important.

6 Never apologize. Never worry when you are talking with a girl, because it will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of timidness, which, for many girls, is a turn-off.

7 Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about. As with dancing, it is your job to lead. Don't lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. A good idea would be to say, "yeah, I watched The Notebook. I liked how he didn't give up hope after he saw her with the other guy."

8 Give her plenty of space. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.

9 Make her laugh. When a woman laughs, she feels more relaxed and lowers her defenses (and inhibitions).

10 Touch her. Reach for her hands, hair, shoulders, ankles, and back. Don't just always wait for her to do it first. If she doesn't like it, she'll definitely let you know. But touching someone communicates to them that you find them attractive, and also that you're reasonably confident. Both of these things can make someone feel more attracted to you.

11 Make her feel irresistible, like you have to restrain yourself around her. Try it by telling her something seductive, starting with rejection of this desirable thing - ex. "Please don't wear short skirt tonight, as I will not resist the temptation!" or something like that "Please don't touch me like that, cause I like it more than I should!" She'll probably keep doing it (consider it a form of reverse psychology).

http://www.wikihow.com/Seduce-a-Woman

^^^^^ No mind am. The OP dey always carry dis manual waka. Anytime he jam chic, he go quickly read am before he go scope the chic.

op,forget all those stories!
If a man aint got seductive swags,he aint got it!
No short-cuts around it!

@ ops, it's a leeway and very essential

Poster, na so dem seduce ni? U on a longggggggg taaaaain!!!!

190: Gawd damnit

GIVE ME 1 BILLION NAIRA

I WOULD SEDUCE 1 BILLION GIRLS IN ONE MINUTE

No need for all these stories!

190, still daft at 2012.
so you want 1 billion naira when you cannot even manage 1000 naira.
your brain needs 6 huge bottles of tonic.

coogar:

190, still daft at 2012.
so you want 1 billion naira when you cannot even manage 1000 naira.

ROFTLMAOO!!!!!!

So true.......

These points are nt totally pointless as most of u may think.

Hmmmmmm

190: [color=red]cooogar still an ape in 2012
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190 - you disgusting asshat!
3 years later and you are still recto-cranially inverted.
you should have been aborted with 200g of limestone.

slimyem:

yemslim.....are you related to 190?
try and take him to synagogue or mountain of fire.
he needs deliverance and a nak[i]e[/i]d dance in yaba market.

coogar:

yemslim.....are you related to 190?
try and take him to synagogue or mountain of fire.
he needs deliverance and a nak[i]e[/i]d dance in yaba market.

we are not related.
I know him as the mallam that collects thrash in a wheel barrow on my street though...and sometimes acts abnormally when he's not pushing his barrow..
I could inform the landlord's association to do something before his displays on insanity gets over the edge soon.
That's only so much i can do...

slimyem: we are not related.
I know him as the mallam that collects thrash in a wheel barrow on my street though...and sometimes acts abnormally when he's not pushing his barrow..
I could inform the landlord's association to do something before his displays on insanity gets over the edge soon.
That's only so much i can do...

thanks.
we all need to join hands together and help 190.

do you wanna tell me obasanjo has seductive swaggs? i dey laugh. if obasanjo wants a million ladies, hes sure gonna get them sharp. money makes d nipples of a woman to erect and make dem wet below. forget all the Alaba manual you put up. he no dey work. even chinco people will spank you

All those things are formalities. Once you are good looking, educated, composed & gentle, you will be irresistible to the women folks.

Godspower Ndu.:
All those things are formalities. Once you are good looking, educated, composed & gentle, you will be irresistible to the women folks.

couldn't agree more

What an interesting class, the lecture is so understanding and please when are we going to have the next class What an interesting class, the lecture is so understanding and please when are we going to have the next class

dis poster na mumu,im think say wetin work for oyinbo gurls go work on naija gurls,naija gurls have only one formula which is (1)money (2) money (3)money

Typical Nigerians.. They abhor information. Someone took the time to type or copy and paste information that may or may not improve your relationship with Women.
And what does she get?
Insults.
Well done poster. Nos 1, 5, 9 and 11 have worked for me.

Another one of those "how to understand these aliens we know as 'women'" e-manuals.

coogar:

190 - you disgusting [size=18pt]asshat[/size]!
3 years later and you are still recto-cranially inverted.
you should have been aborted with 200g of limestone.

haven't heard that in YEARS!

*pictures a hat on an azz with '190' embroidered on the brim*

This bs don't work... Just be natural and be yourself - whatever happens, happens.

Brixtonyute: This bs don't work... Just be natural and be yourself - whatever happens, happens.

AMEN!

MsDarkSkin:



haven't heard that in YEARS!

*pictures a hat on an azz with '190' embroidered on the brim*

*Kip laffin, i'll only end up kissing u in a few

190:




*Kip laffin, i'll only end up kissing u in a few

Suffice it to mention some other things; we've all got our different styles of accost. @OP, there is no gainsaying that feasibly some of those tips work but adumbrantly i reckon those tips are exhaustive and subject to criticism.