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|Love The Way You Are... by marvelck: 8:22am On May 14, 2012|
Love The Way You Are...most times, we are faced with situations that might require us adapting to it somehow, atimes to our own disadvantage. Especially when it comes to the issue of Love and relationship. not a few of us always pray and wish to have a good partner either for marriage or in a relationship. and since none is perfect, each partner is bound to bring a whole lot of differences into the relationship or marriage. some are digusting, irritating or displeasing habits or attitude, which some guys or girls might not be able to cope with after a while. But love they say is Blind, and so therefore, partners shud endeavour to take the person that are dating or married to the way they are. while working with the person towards becoming a better person. if ur girl or guy is a liar, a cheat or indulges in one bad habit or the other, condemning or running away from the person is not the right thing to do. we are in a relationship or marriage to help each other. to help make the other person better, that shud be your job, rather than condemn or abandon the person. Most times this scenario is common with ladies, who are always carrying one baggage or the other. some are too materialistic, annoying, dramatic, deceitful or troublesome, that there is no day her guy wont be called to come and bail her at the station, separate her from a fight, settle her quarrel with a friend/foe, pay her debts, or talk to her parents on her behalf after a family dispute. such a girl is bad news to most guys, despite her beauty and assets, some guys would still run away from such a girl, that is after sampling her assets of course. And what about in the case of a guy, he might be a chain smoker, hot tempered, a born womanizer, liar too, pretend alot, lazy, a glutton, or unserious. there are girls who complain alot about boyfriends who are lazy or unserious and who cheat and lie alot, but yet they are still stuck with the guy cos of love. they stick around with the hope that such a guy would change for good, someday. and some do their best to help make their guys change their bad habits. atimes you would see a girl going to the beer palour to 'retrieve' her drunk boyfriend, after spending the night at the beer joint, helping to clean him up whenever he throws up, arranging/putting his apartment in order (especially those guys who hardly clean or arrange their apartment), cook him a proper meal if he's the type that cant or dont cook, wash his dirty clothes all the time and also assist him with funds whenever he's broke or after lavishing his salary anyhow. There are lovely girls that does things like this for their boyfriends unconditionally and without expecting anything in return. All cos of love. they love their guys the way they are. while hoping and willing to help make him better. They are not those fair weather girls who are like parasites, who only come around to eat his food, collect money from him and give him sex. That's all. whether his room is dirty, smelling or disorganized, that one no concern them. whether the guy is virtually smoking and drinking himself to death, e no concern them. all they are interested in, is money for hand , back for ground. and if the guy happens to go down, they dont waste time in jumping into the arms of another man. Shikena! In marriage or relationship partners shud endeavour to love each other the way they are, and work towards making each other a better person...
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