I met this lady 2009 during pre-degree programme just as a friend. We started going out on may 13th,2011(love panorama). She had been indecisive based on the fact that we are age mate on whether to shower me her 100% love even though she keeps proclaiming her love to me. What shocked me was when i discovered that her calibre of person(very committed christain to the core) could be proclaiming love to two persons at the same time- i and another guy. When i confronted her on this she said that that was the situation of things she found herself in and it was very normal.
Yesterday she bodly said we could not be together [after 1 year of care,attention,love and time lavished on her] because of the fact that we are age mate(like d fourth time she was gonna bring up that issue); she said she was 100% convinced and that God destined us to be friends only. I am someway not convinced with the break-up but would like to free her because she has toiled with my emotions several a time,but my room mate doesnt think like that. He had always been optimistic about this whole issue-even though i am, albeit im now beginning to decline.
Pls I want you guys to advise me because i still love her: do you think i should still pursue her(shower her love) , hold on for a while and get involved in another relationship or free her?
Should age be an issue in relationship?

Yes, age to me was a deciding factor in whom I chose/accepted as my spouse.

Do you.

sexkillz: Well, age is not the problem here. The problem is that she doesn't want you NO MORE. . . Just move on and save your face. . .

Thanks manh i appreciate!

Ideally, age shouldn't be an issue. But practically, it is.

Go on at ur own disaster