kitty kat: He is married

IZUKWU: 'He has been there for me financially' the above is what is confusing you . The financial security,he gives you. It's like he has bought you and you owe him. Cut that r/ship anyhow you can. Is it even a r/ship ? . Life should be simple and too complicated. Avoid complicated relationships.

kitty kat: He is married

190: OP

Is d name of this guy -- coogar

Mynd_44: I stopped reading when he locked you inside the house and beat you up. That is enough grounds for a breakup. Hell I don't even want to know if he is married or not. Whether he has a wife or not dump him and do it fast

chel-sy:
I met my my bf in 2006, he lives @lag while i live @ Asaba,wasnt ready 2 date him den..in feb 2008 he travelled 2 london for vacation and made no contact with me untill march 2009....said he wasnt in good condition dts y he didnt call...he continued 2 luv n care 4 me so i decided 2 date him... Our r/ship was a distance one cos i was schooling in d east while he does his biz @ lag...he was always der 4 me.. In march 2010 he traveled again 2 US and was mearnt 2 stay @least 3yrs yet no contact till dec wen he called wid a nigeria num....said dt things didnt go as planned dts y he had 2 come bk and dt he couldnt call...asked him if he contacted any of he family members said yes....told him dt @tyms i wonder if he truely travelled and dt wenever i visit him, dt he ll show me his int'l passport... Meanwhile, we ve met so many tyms in lag weneva i go on holidays bt he never took me 2 his house...he preferred visiting me @ my brothers place or lodgin in a hotel nearby...in 2011(my final yr) he visited me and in 2 occassions he beat me and changed my padlock, both of us were inside, he seized my fones and answered all my calls...was mearnt to go somewhere dat day wid my gf bt didnt cos i was locked inside and he didnt open d door wen my gf came knockin....my gf feared and safety and quickly called my mum and informed her, on seeing my mum's call he gave me d phone to pick bt i refused, so he picked it n my mum shouted on him to open d door for me......aft dat i told him to go his way dt am nt interested anymore.....dt ive really seen d devil in him...aft pleading, i forgave him. Now am serving in lagos and my so called boyfriend hasnt invited me to his house, i tried inviting myself bt always make up excuses,meanwhile he is staying wid his cousin and his reason is dt he doesnt wnt his cousin to know me yet... Am in a r/ship of 4yrs yet i dnt no my bf's house,shop,family n friends yet he kips telling me dt i ll know all dat wen d tym is ripe.....he has bin der for me financially.....am really confused ryt now cos i wonder wch bf will not wnt his gf to visit him...finally i told him dt am tired of d whole fin dt i need a brk, sinc den he has bin begging me to come bk and promising to take me to his relations in lagos except where he is staying now dt he ll move out soon and i ll b visiting anytym i want...d issue is dt i dnt love him again n i feel lyk an ingrate cos he has done so much for me......pls nlanders wat do u fink abt him?