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|Hahaha by freecocoa(f): 6:02pm On May 28, 2012|
Yeah i deleted it .
|Re: Hahaha by jonaboy: 6:13pm On May 28, 2012|
If she truly loves her boyfriend she shouldn't have cheated on him but since it has happened there is nothing she can do about it,i would advice her to forgive herself and search her heart to know who she loves the most btw d 2 men and break up wit d 1 she feels little for.
|Re: Hahaha by Mynd_44: 6:15pm On May 28, 2012|
Crime and punishment. Was she drugged? Or did the other guy use jazz on her? The truth is that she des not really love he BF and has no regard for him. If you are bold(wicked) enough to cheat, you should not feel guilt
|Re: Hahaha by Sijo01(f): 6:16pm On May 28, 2012|
Hv neva chted so dnt kno hw to get ova chtin guilt.
Mi wil advis she kip it to hersef n since she can define wat she hs 4dem both, it wil b easy 4her 2get rid of her neigbour if she is reli determin.
|Re: Hahaha by joeydozzy(m): 6:17pm On May 28, 2012|
I've seen this kind of thread couple of times.First of all, she has to sort out her feelings for both guys. Know which one she needs more and finding out if the second is just a fling. This is where decision makings seem to be the toughest. Secondly,the best thing is for her to tell him. She wouldn't want him to hear it from someone else. If he truly loves her, a breakup would be imminent. Lastly, if she really loves the first and having second thoughts about the second, she should run far from that guy which could give her a better perspective to clear her head
|Re: Hahaha by 190: 6:25pm On May 28, 2012|
What a great future wife she'l be
Cocoa see d kind of friends u keep
|Re: Hahaha by Mynd_44: 6:27pm On May 28, 2012|
190: What a great future wife she'l beYou don dey madt
|Re: Hahaha by freecocoa(f): 6:35pm On May 28, 2012|
190: What a great future wife she'l beSee me see problem o.
As if you are above sin or mistakes,not justifying what she did but the fact that she even feels guilty shows there's a good person inside her.
You are not in the position to judge her or me for that matter.
|Re: Hahaha by 190: 6:38pm On May 28, 2012|
She don spread leg apart finish - enjoy d meat, clean mouth
Now she's claiming I've sinned
|Re: Hahaha by freecocoa(f): 6:45pm On May 28, 2012|
190: HissSharrap joor.
Swear that you've never cheated before.
|Re: Hahaha by jonaboy: 6:46pm On May 28, 2012|
Guys d tin is we find ourselfs in situations we really don't know how 2 handle sometimes and dat is wat is happening 2 dis lady.Since she said she loves her bf alot d only advice is 4 her to stop seeing d other guy n if he refuse to let her be she should pour hot water on him wen nex he is around abi na by force dem dey love person.
|Re: Hahaha by joeydozzy(m): 6:46pm On May 28, 2012|
|Re: Hahaha by Mynd_44: 6:53pm On May 28, 2012|
freecocoa: Sharrap joor.As much as I hate to say this, 190 is right
|Re: Hahaha by 190: 7:00pm On May 28, 2012|
It takes two 2 tangle,
D girl was obviously reportin 2 her boss in d act (cocoa) #winks#
|Re: Hahaha by freecocoa(f): 7:04pm On May 28, 2012|
190: It takes two 2 tangle,I really don't have your time now.
|Re: Hahaha by lola.luv(f): 7:05pm On May 28, 2012|
My sweetest, most refreshing, cold as ice, hotter than fire cocoa drink on a sunny day! How you dey, girl? Long tym....
Back to the topic, your GF is probably being tripped by the novelty of something new. She wants to throw two years down the drain? To hurt a good guy who did nothin 2 her? NAH!
|Re: Hahaha by 190: 7:06pm On May 28, 2012|
|Re: Hahaha by slimyem: 7:08pm On May 28, 2012|
Mynd_44: Crime and punishment. Was she drugged? Or did the other guy use jazz on her? The truth is that she des not really love her BF and has no regard for him. [/b]If you are bold(wicked) enough to cheat, you should not feel guiltaren't you in the same class of guys that say...[b]you can have s..ex with one and still be in love with another?
|Re: Hahaha by freecocoa(f): 7:10pm On May 28, 2012|
lola.luv:You my love,its not fair o,you just forgot about me,I'm doing great,hope you are too?
Girl i really have missed you a lot,good to see you darling.
|Re: Hahaha by 190: 7:11pm On May 28, 2012|
Sharrap slimyem sharrap
Let dat gurl confess 2 her BF and give dem 3months if dey'l stay together
If cheatin and confessin is advisable - why don't u go on a cheatin spree
|Re: Hahaha by agb2011(f): 7:14pm On May 28, 2012|
Wateva her decisn is, she shuldn't tel her boyfriend she cheated on him. Why? because no man respects a woman who cheats no matter how much he luvs her. Telin him wil make him (probably) break up wt her &he may end up disrespectin al woman (just lik most guys on nairaland). She shud also learn 2 4giv herself &nt repeat d mistake again.
|Re: Hahaha by cowgurl: 7:16pm On May 28, 2012|
Hi Sweetcocoa. What your friend is going through supports those who feels long distance relationship is not worth it. Your friend can't stand it cos ow else will you explain getting down with her neighbour. Well the deed is already done so she should quit crying/feeling guilty about it and ask herself who she really wants cos you can't tell me she didn't feel a thing for this guy she slept with.
|Re: Hahaha by sandyylove(f): 7:21pm On May 28, 2012|
lola.luv:lola so u even online nd we are there,begging u to complete campus blues!nt fair at all
|Re: Hahaha by slimyem: 7:22pm On May 28, 2012|
190: Sharrap slimyem sharrapyou say what??
|Re: Hahaha by 2sexy(m): 7:24pm On May 28, 2012|
190: What a great future wife she'l be190 this kind thing is very common among Naija girls na. You should know better.
I was a victim back 2009 and the E-diot still told me how the guy in question furked her. She said the guy furked her hard and just like this one, it was a long distance thing.
Freecocoa, your friend had been having the urge and probably didn't tell her Boyfriend and so, had a free lunch with the guy next door. One is certain, the guy she slept with will dump her. Mark my word because history never fails!
Just like in my case, I don't think the other guy has ever S.ex her. That's what they do in a situation like this and I will go further to advice any guy: Never do a long distance relationship with any Naija girl and never date any without furking her. You will be much safer that way.
|Re: Hahaha by 2sexy(m): 7:24pm On May 28, 2012|
190: What a great future wife she'l be
|Re: Hahaha by 2sexy(m): 7:32pm On May 28, 2012|
Fast forward to this day, the guy my ex had it with dumbed her and she ended up sleeping other guys thereafter.
After her back don begin pain her, she remembered me and wanted to come back. I just made to understand that I don't need used products...
|Re: Hahaha by lola.luv(f): 7:33pm On May 28, 2012|
Abeg, no vex. I've been wit u in spirit. Its just that I've been soo busy. Trust you doing well indeed, babes....
I know its not fair, sandy. Make una jus bear with me for now...
|Re: Hahaha by 2sexy(m): 7:41pm On May 28, 2012|
Abi o. My ex back then didn't complain when the came around, she didn't complain when the guy started wooing her, didn't complain when the guy took her home, touch her, took off her clothes, open leg, the went in and came out but she regret it after the guy don finish work.
You would be surprise that the other guy she claim to love may have made attempt to even sex her but she refuse and only to give it to a neighbour. And I believe that may be why she is regretting it. Rubbish!
No wonder guys say girl have fish brain because they don't even understand themselves. What a pity!
|Re: Hahaha by Rocktation(f): 7:46pm On May 28, 2012|
She could tell her boyfriend. It seems like the right thing to do. Atleast allay the guilt within, irrespective of the aftereffect.
It's why I always advice ladies who claim to hang out with only male friends, to be careful. They keep telling everyone like it gives them an edge over others or something, idk. With the s-exual tension that almost inevitably exists between any red-blooded heterosexual man and woman....platonic relationships are close to impossible.
freecocoa: .I laughed when I read this. Badttt fwend.
|Re: Hahaha by Orikinla(m): 7:48pm On May 28, 2012|
freecocoa: A very good friend of mine came to me this afternoon looking very sad, inshort she was crying. Her reason being that she cheated on her boyfriend who loves her to pieces.(He lives in a different state)
She does not deserve her boyfriend, because she is immature and insecure and once a cheater, always a cheater.
Most girls who cheat during dating also end up cheating in marriage.
|Re: Hahaha by xtenxive(m): 7:52pm On May 28, 2012|
The simplest part of it all is forgiving herself and moving on. The fundamental question is if she'll not repeat this act again, something made her fall for her neighbour and I think as long as she continues to see that neighbour of hers, she's likely going to fall again & again. Concerning her boyfriend, if she tells him then their relationship may hit the rocks but if she never tells him then she will forever be in that relationship with guilt if she TRUELY loves her boyfriend like she's claiming.
Life is about making choices, she knows the ups & downs of each action she can take. Let her make her choice and be responsible for the eventual outcome of events.
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