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Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Phate07(m): 1:42pm On May 29, 2012
Considering the large number of marriage problems encountered by married folks, many other single boys and girls are still willing to dive headlong into the murky waters of matrimony mostly without knowing what's at stake. [img]http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQXNEvybeJf3Ed7s-tpACX_f53YqisWxiqqK_yScEBFiLaPlDMl8YjkE7Q[/img]

According to the CDC, 50% of marriages do end in divorces.

Number of marriages: 2,077,000
Marriage rate: 6.8 per 1,000 total population
Divorce rate: 3.4 per 1,000 population (44 reporting States and D.C.)

So am trying to find out(purely for research purposes) why people do marry and willing to spend the rest of their miserable existence with one person. Why do people get married?

For love? (i dont even know what this means these days)

For money? (very possible)

For children? (how about adopting)

For sex? (crap, you can get this from any LovePeddler at the corner)

Mutual depency or some other bullshit

For the single ladies and gents, what are your thoughts(or lack of them) on this matter?

For the married folks here, dont feel slighted in any bit, but could you please provide us insights on why you got married in the first place and what possible benefits have you derived from or through your marriage. And also do share with us if you have ever felt the urge to stab your partner at night or do something horrible.


Pls note: This is not an attack on the marriage institution and should not be perceived as such.

Cheers! wink
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Phate07(m): 7:25pm On May 29, 2012
Okay people, i need answers. And fast! sad
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Lagusta(m): 7:41pm On May 29, 2012
Ok, let me be the first to reply...

I got married cos i wanted to kno how it feels, since i m a very ambitious person. Let me also say i made a good choice of a wife, nd i hav no regrets,,,,,

Well, i hop dat answers ur question.
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Dyt(f): 7:46pm On May 29, 2012
Murmuring
Y do ppl get married [3ce]
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by slimyem: 7:48pm On May 29, 2012
procreation,companionship,sex..and blah blah blah blahcheesy
#case closed!#cheesycheesy
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by cindyrella(f): 7:51pm On May 29, 2012
#Thinking mood activated#
@op brb with the answer
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by pendo89(f): 7:55pm On May 29, 2012
Because they CHOOSE to get married! jeez.

diff. people marry for diff. reasons, but whatever their reasons are, bottom line is they Choose to.
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by richy5(m): 8:06pm On May 29, 2012
To have a descendant
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Mynd44: 9:29pm On May 29, 2012
@richy:
To have a descendant
You don't have to be married for that
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Rocktation(f): 5:14am On May 30, 2012
The rite is just obligatory.
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Mynd44: 5:21am On May 30, 2012
People marry for the shagging
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Exponental(m): 8:47am On May 30, 2012
Phate07: Considering the large number of marriage problems encountered by married folks, many other single boys and girls are still willing to dive headlong into the murky waters of matrimony mostly without knowing what's at stake.
wink

would u not buy shares cos market value could crash?
Would u not buy a car cos of accident or theft?
Would u not.................

Marriage is to be enjoyed, I will marry cos I will enjoy it.
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Nobody: 9:03am On May 30, 2012
They do that to take a step further in their relationship. To make it official, follow God's instructions, etc
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Phate07(m): 7:53pm On May 30, 2012
I get the gist now, apparently nobody knows the reason why. Hmm. undecided
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by faceit: 9:36pm On May 30, 2012
fior companionship mostly
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by dokunbam(m): 1:55am On May 31, 2012
As ur parent
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Mynd44: 5:05am On May 31, 2012
dokunbam:
As ur parent
How are you sure they are married?
Re: Why Do People Actually Get Married? by Phate07(m): 9:05pm On Jun 02, 2012
dokunbam:
As ur parent
undecided undecided

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