Guys/Ladies, do u give ur partner/fiancee/girlfriend/boyfriend body massage. How do u help her/him reduce the stress of work, family...
How do u make her/him so she/he thank u the next day. Tell us what u do, so we all can learn from it. Who knows, u may help save a relationship, no one person knows it all.

For me, I give wifey a foot and body massage. Remember once she returned home all stressed from work and in a very bad mood cos they had a hard day at the office. She really was mad enough to dish some of it 4 me too. Anyway I didn´t want us 2 have 2 get in2 an arguement over it so I gently went to her in the kitchen while she was making our dinner and asked her 2 go take a shower while I finish up cooking dinner. By the time she was finished dinner was halfway thru. While we were waiting 4 dinner I offered to give wifey a foot massage and while at it, I suggested she may need a body massage cos her muscles where all tighten-up. Anyway we missed dinner that night cos the food got burnt , but I got a very sexy kiss and a big "thank you honey" the next morning 4 my efforts.

So tell us what u do in ur relationship to help ur partner ease up stress.

Wow. I love this. I have never given my huisband a massage before but I will try it when he is around. How do I actually do it and what items do I need

deybowlah: Wow. I love this. I have never given my huisband a massage before but I will try it when he is around. How do I actually do it and what items do I need

try some massage oil (most of them have very wonderful fragrance), or if u don´t find any massage oil the olive oil (though I don´t really like how it smells).

Whenever we are together, I give and get good massage sessions. Erotic if I may add.
@deybowlar,I learnt by going for professional massage sessions myself. Look for a spa and massage lounge in your location, and on your second or so session, you would have an idea of how to use your hands, where, how and when to massage, tickle and touch each body part.
For a perfect effect, get some nice massage oils(I recommend "body shop" Japanese musk), dim lights, cool music,fluffy pillows, solid bed and both partners na.ked.

ifyalways: Whenever we are together, I give and get good massage sessions. Erotic if I may add.
@deybowlar,I learnt by going for professional massage sessions myself. Look for a spa and massage lounge in your location, and on your second or so session, you would have an idea of how to use your hands, where, how and when to massage, tickle and touch each body part.
For a perfect effect, get some nice massage oils(I recommend "body shop" Japanese musk), dim lights, cool music,fluffy pillows, solid bed and both partners na.ked.

I actually invested in books. I read alot and have lots of books on massage. It achieved its purpose cos wifey is very happy with the outcome.

ifyalways: Whenever we are together, I give and get good massage sessions. Erotic if I may add.
@deybowlar,I learnt by going for professional massage sessions myself. Look for a spa and massage lounge in your location, and on your second or so session, you would have an idea of how to use your hands, where, how and when to massage, tickle and touch each body part.
For a perfect effect, get some nice massage oils(I recommend "body shop" Japanese musk), dim lights, cool music,fluffy pillows, solid bed and both partners na.ked.

Thanks I have gained from the advice. I promise myself to try it out.

@ poster thanks for bringing this up

deybowlah:
Thanks I have gained from the advice. I promise myself to try it out.

@ poster thanks for bringing this up

u r welcome.
Anyother person!!

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Nice. Can't have massages though, for some reason I get so ticklish.

stillwater: Nice. Can't have massages though, for some reason I get so ticklish.

lol, ticklich eh! Wonder what ur masseur would do if she/he if u suddenly start laughing while being massaged. probably think something is wrong somewhere .