Smallville4live:

You can start from the beginning, by saying, guy I like you, can we be friends. Some lady has done that to me and I was surprised. She say me at a traditional wedding when I was taking some pics of the celebrats. She asked someone to call me.

Vikin: Let me teach you how to ask a guy out indirectly.

First you should have a high self esteem, confidence and irresistable

Approach him and engage him in an interesting conversation...it can be anything..football, his shoes, his hair, color, race etc. Even if you dont know much about the topic, make him do the explanation part and you do the asking while maintaining a good posture and good level of self confident.

If he is interested in you, he will ask for your number and voila..you go from there.

You can also ask for it, there is no harm in that.

If he is not, just let him be and target another person that will respond to you.

Nice post.


This is a two way thing, be you woman or man, it works...trust me


So my dear, depend on the style used, it not wrong to ask a guy out!

platinumricky Primitive sub-moronic entity..U̶̲̥̅̊ wud probably get married on ur 48th birthday! 1ce i want something, i go for it...its as simple as dat. Everything in life is a risk, U̶̲̥̅̊ win some, U̶̲̥̅̊ lose some.

Lord_Reed: See why ladies should "mind THEIR selves":

https://www.nairaland.com/970260/met-bbm-she-came-house#11180896

Ranks007: Its very wrong wrong if she's ugly and somewhat right if she's cool, but on my end I'll thinking she want to give me aids if she's pretty!

OILOFGLADNESS: IFYOU LIKE OR LOVE AND ADMIRE A GUY YOU CAN MAKER HIM YOU FRIEND , ITS LEFT FOR HIM TO DEVELOP THE LIKENESS AND LOVE

ITS NOT WISE FOR YOU TO WALK UPTO A GUY AS A LADY TO TELL HIM ILOVE AND I WANT YOU TO BE MY GIRLFRIEND.

BUT STRATEGICALLY YOU CAN GET HIS INTEREST AND YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU WANT,

janyj:

You can say whatever you like, everyone is entitled to their opinion, if you are saying all this nonsense for me ask you out, then you must be dreaming . A man will treat a woman the way she wants to be treated, if you act cheap he will definitely treat you like a cheap girl, its up to the lady to decide.

Ranks007: Its very wrong wrong if she's ugly and somewhat right if she's cool, but on my end I'll thinking she wants to give me AIDS if she's pretty!

kayusfit:



YOU ARE A LOW LIFE FOR STARTING SUCH A DUMB AND BASELESS THREAD. FOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL

platinumricky:

Ewu Burkina-Faso!!! Hedgehogs like U̶̲̥̅̊ belong to the era of horse drawn carriages. Who's asking you out?! U̶̲̥̅̊ Я already getting it twisted.
Do U̶̲̥̅̊ have issues grasping simple english sentences? *pours cold water on her face*...Embrace reality and stop fantasizing! Those disney cartoons aint doing U̶̲̥̅̊ any good...

Smallville4live:

You can start from the beginning, by saying, guy I like you, can we be friends. Some lady has done that to me and I was surprised. She say me at a traditional wedding when I was taking some pics of the celebrats. She asked someone to call me.

platinumricky Ewu Burkina-Faso!!! Hedgehogs like U̶̲̥̅̊ belong to the era of horse drawn carriages. Who's asking you out?! U̶̲̥̅̊ Я already getting it twisted.
Do U̶̲̥̅̊ have issues grasping simple english sentences? *pours cold water on her face*...Embrace reality and stop fantasizing! Those disney cartoons aint doing U̶̲̥̅̊ any good..

ur such a freaky dumbazz, must you insult in every comment??by the way 96.1% of nigerian's are using BB so relax ur mind!!

cindyrella:


Well I kinda agree with you, there really is nothing wrong in being blunt and telling a guy u like him and wants to be friends with him...
but I can't do it..
I am just too shy to walk up to a guy and say I wanna be friends with him... Where will I even start from??

cindyrella:

Thanks for the tips!

janyj:

You can say whatever you like, everyone is entitled to their opinion, if you are saying all this nonsense for me to ask you out, then you must be dreaming . A man will treat a woman the way she wants to be treated, if you act cheap he will definitely treat you like a cheap girl, its up to the lady to decide.

janyj:

On point.

It is classless for a girl to ask a guy out, it only shows how cheap she is. If a guy truly loves a girl, he will do anything within his power to be with her. What happened to the pride of a woman?

shymmex: I don't know, but I've never taken any girl that asked me out seriously.. It's just the crazy world we were raised in..

But the funniest, and weirdest one that ever happened to me was a cute Naija chic at the train station who asked her Ghanaian friend to come ask for my number.. It was just awkward because I never believed the type of arrogant chics we breed in Naija could ever do that... But she showed her true colours the first, and only time I spoke to her on the phone - she went back into her naija girl mode, trying to act stush and difficult... I deleted her rubbish number from my phone, and told her to fvck off!

Dyt: i asked him ^ out

kayusfit: AND THIS BULL Poo MADE THE FRONTPAGE when most of my post are deleted. Smh for all the eediots on nairaland including the OP

Phrankin: Define "cheap", define "class" and tell me how it relates to high sense of security which is what a girl displays when takes the initiative to go for what she wants. People just use words for using sake.

Vikin: Let me teach you how to ask a guy out indirectly.

First you should have a high self esteem, confidence and irresistable

Approach him and engage him in an interesting conversation...it can be anything..football, his shoes, his hair, color, race etc. Even if you dont know much about the topic, make him do the explanation part and you do the asking while maintaining a good posture and good level of self confident.

If he is interested in you, he will ask for your number and voila..you go from there.

You can also ask for it, there is no harm in that.

If he is not, just let him be and target another person that will respond to you.


This is a two way thing, be you woman or man, it works...trust me


So my dear, depend on the style used, it not wrong to ask a guy out!