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You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by penelope9: 6:50am On Jun 23, 2012
Hey guys, what do you think about this statement.make your own contribution please.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Mynd44: 7:21am On Jun 23, 2012
That statement cannot be debated. It is a FACT

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 7:21am On Jun 23, 2012
Yes.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by cowgurl: 8:22am On Jun 23, 2012
NOONE CAN MAKE YOU UNHAPPY WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT.....SO TRUE!

The earlier people realise that, the better for them!

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 8:57am On Jun 23, 2012
penelope9: Hey guys, what do you think about this statement.make your own contribution please.

It is not totally true. People, events and circumstances have strong effects on your happiness.

The mind is an amazing thing. However, it does not stand alone. It feeds off a myriad of variables.

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Lisa1: 9:15am On Jun 23, 2012
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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Sijo01(f): 11:50am On Jun 23, 2012
Mynd_44: That statement cannot be debated. It is a FACT

Gbam!!

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Chinom(m): 11:51am On Jun 23, 2012
Before kwanu ?!!. There many more happy people in our villages than all these lost souls in the Diaspora. Happiness is a choice.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by swtchicgurl: 11:55am On Jun 23, 2012
Truly, u're responsible for your own happiness. But, pray well that nothing takes that choice away from you.
For example, wicked people, sickness etc... u should understand better now. cool

Don't forget true happiness comes from God only.

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by bikerboy1(m): 12:07pm On Jun 23, 2012
Wat if U 're involved in a natural disaster, dat inflicts pain on U. Automatically, your happiness is stolen away.

So wat do U make out of it?
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Btunde009: 12:13pm On Jun 23, 2012
fluid26:

It is not totally true. People, events and circumstances have strong effects on your happiness.

The mind is an amazing thing. However, it does not stand alone. It feeds off a myriad of variables.
.......yes dat true talk,some dont beleive its not all to u alone but also to ur environments
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by sassy92(f): 12:19pm On Jun 23, 2012
Its true. You can't choose hw pple act 2wards u, bt u cn choose hw 2 react. If someone calls u an idiot, does dat mk you one? Choose to let it slide n walk away.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by tonyx4x44(m): 12:31pm On Jun 23, 2012
sassy92: Its true. You can't choose hw pple act 2wards u, bt u cn choose hw 2 react. If someone calls u an i.diot, does dat mk you one? Choose to let it slide n walk away.
if someone calls you an i.diot and you are really one nko? grin
sassy92: Its true. You can't choose hw pple act 2wards u, bt u cn choose hw 2 react. If someone calls u an idiot, does dat mk you one? Choose to let it slide n walk away.
if someone calls you an a.s.s and you are really one nko?

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by 2good(m): 12:33pm On Jun 23, 2012
fluid26:

It is not totally true. People, events and circumstances have strong effects on your happiness.

The mind is an amazing thing. However, it does not stand alone. It feeds off a myriad of variables.

No matter the circumstance you find yourself, you are still the one responsible for any possible happiness you might get in life based on what you fix as your priorities

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jun 23, 2012
I agree.u cannot expect relatives of bokoharam or dana crash victims to be happy.
fluid26:

It is not totally true. People, events and circumstances have strong effects on your happiness.

The mind is an amazing thing. However, it does not stand alone. It feeds off a myriad of variables.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Biodup: 1:01pm On Jun 23, 2012
Circumstances can make people to be sad. Only God can gives 2ru hapiness .
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by tchaik(m): 1:13pm On Jun 23, 2012
"When I was a little child
Happiness was there for a while
Then from me it slipped away
Happiness come back I say
Cos if YOU DON'T COME, I'M GONNA GO LOOKING, FOR HAPPINESS"
BOB MARLEY!!!!!
Omo, no body holds ur happiness, if u no fit make urself happy, then u are totaly PHUCKED!!!!!
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by pato405(m): 1:19pm On Jun 23, 2012
not for 9ja babes o! a guy that gives them cash constantly will always have their smiles but once the cash stops flowing, haaa...gloom takes the place of hapiness. ask them if you doubt.

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by inspirenet: 1:23pm On Jun 23, 2012
pato405: not for 9ja babes o! a guy that gives them cash constantly will always have their smiles but once the cash stops flowing, haaa...gloom takes the place of hapiness. ask them if you doubt.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Dawdy(m): 1:24pm On Jun 23, 2012
2good:

No matter the circumstance you find yourself, you are still the one responsible for any possible happiness you might get in life based on what you fix as your priorities
If u fell sick, would u still be happy?
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jun 23, 2012
Dawdy:
If u fell sick, would u still be happy?

I know people with terminal illnesses who are happy, of course initially one will experince some saddness but what you choose to do about it afterwards is up to you. You can choose to wallow in self-pity or decide that no matter the number of days you have left you'll make the best of it. Most of the time we have no control over our environment or even circumstances but we always have control over how we react to whatever situation we find ourselves in

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by ijebabe: 2:48pm On Jun 23, 2012
That is a nice thought. I say thought because its a shame only a percentage of people actually live it!
People commenting 'yeah' know it in their heads but are either in abusive relationships or in some such nonsense because of 'love'.
There is a time for everything, a time to be happy and sad, but if you're sad most of the time then you have no power to control ur own happiness.
Unless ur mentally unstable then that's a different issue entirely.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by MrCork17: 2:57pm On Jun 23, 2012
There is no way to happiness ..... happiness is the way!! wink
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by ijebabe: 2:58pm On Jun 23, 2012
^^ Wow! undecided
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by 401kk: 3:13pm On Jun 23, 2012
Sometimes you aren't. No man is an island, the condition/events of your environment plays a role in making you happy/sad.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by queensmith: 3:18pm On Jun 23, 2012
of course, what else can you depend your happiness on?
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 3:32pm On Jun 23, 2012
401kk: Sometimes you aren't. No man is an island, the condition/events of your environment plays a role in making you happy/sad.
+1
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Biggiestep(m): 3:39pm On Jun 23, 2012
Someone that is naturally happy will always be happy in wat ever condition they find themselves but 1 dats a sadist even though the find themselves in a perfect situation will find something anoyin abt it.
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 3:42pm On Jun 23, 2012
What is happiness anyway? Is it a permanent state or temporary?
Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by bold4: 3:44pm On Jun 23, 2012
fluid26:

It is not totally true. People, events and circumstances have strong effects on your happiness.

The mind is an amazing thing. However, it does not stand alone. It feeds off a myriad of variables.
yeah right, but u hav control over ur mind. D bible even says u guard ur heart wit all diligence 4 out of it flows d issue of life, so, it's ur responsibility 2 decide wat enters u & wat doesnt

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Re: You Are Responsible For Your Own Happiness by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jun 23, 2012
401kk: Sometimes you aren't. No man is an island, the condition/events of your environment plays a role in making you happy/sad.

no I don't think so cos you create your environment and bring out its conditions

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