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You write like an illiterate? This is obviously a fake story. You havnt left ur village talk less of abroad? Gsm has caused all dis modaphuckers to acces the internet. Ugly ko ugly ni. U claim u went to university but could not travel to another state to see the lady even after u had grown up. Anyway i guess nairaland needs the comments to keep the site intersting

@OP, HAVE YOU GONE UNDERGROUND.?
Come out here and give us feedback.
Have u guys met yet?

funky medina: You write like an illiterate? This is obviously a fake story. You havnt left ur village talk less of abroad? Gsm has caused all dis modaphuckers to acces the internet. Ugly ko ugly ni. U claim u went to university but could not travel to another state to see the lady even after u had grown up. Anyway i guess nairaland needs the comments to keep the site intersting

haba. Take am sofri. Na quarrel?
De guy talk say im loss de girl number, com reconnect thru one of her frnds on facebook.
Though i hope de OP ain't telling tales.... Else na koboko im go see for im bombom

shymmex:

This is the pix:

PLZ DON'T LEAVE ME, YOU SAID YOU LOVE ME FOR 9 YEARS.

Chei shymmex is this your girlfriend? We are all equal in the eyes of the Lord sha. Jesu kristi

@ post, physical attraction is as important as anything in a relationship. Move on. You don't like her someone else will.

lilkech:

so you are telling us that this babes face 'DOES NOT ENCOURAGE' friendship ?

one begins to wonder in whose image and likeness she was created

Maybe na peter or moses create am. U kno say peter dey quick vex.

I read through all what has been said on this thread and I decided to share my story!

I had a similar encounter with a lady on a dating website 5years ago, we talked, emailed, called each other back and forth, sometimes for months we wouldn't talk but when we got back we would discuss everything! She was like my confidant and I was like her confidant too, cos it was easy for us to say stuff to ourselves, stuff we wouldn't dear say......

To cut the long story short, I got a job which gave me the opportunity to travel to where she was, when I got there I gave her a call, she was shocked to hear I was in her town, it was hard for us to want to meet, but eventually we summoned courage to meet each other, when I met her I was like OMG, she was like a huge "ballon" (no disrespect).

All I remember I kept saying was "so what's up"!!! We couldn't even talk freely like we used to do through the phone and email, we cooled off, then I went back and retraced all we have said and discussed, and I just discovered I had peace with this lady, we connected in a very special way......

I went back not knowing she felt the same way!!! To cut the story short again, I have looked beyond the way she looks and I have learnt to take her the way she is, and we connect well! Infact we are getting married in November of this year! When my family met her, it was magical, they all loved her, like wise when he folks met me I was like a lost son, her dad calls me like a son he never had!

So my advise is, if u can look beyond beauty and see the connection, but if you can't connect, like someone advised, let her go before it's too late! My 2 cents!

@ godfada, nice one. I hope all could be as lucky as you. Congrats!

funky medina: You write like an illiterate? This is obviously a fake story. You havnt left ur village talk less of abroad? Gsm has caused all dis modaphuckers to acces the internet. Ugly ko ugly ni. U claim u went to university but could not travel to another state to see the lady even after u had grown up. Anyway i guess nairaland needs the comments to keep the site intersting

Please, take it easy on the OP. The ugliness was responsible for the bottle-breaking.

U sef no try, hw cud u possibly b dating a geh for almost 9 years and not make efforts to get a clear picture of her look. All dose stuffs abt she not bin able to handle a computer nah formatting. She sef knows within herself dat she aint dat presentable and tried to hide her face from u. I bliv dats y she sent a picture dat isn't very clear to u, as u claim. U shud av made extra effort to see her b4 goin dis far!!!! 9 yrs...gosh, sum pple wud neva learn. I wud just advice u to try to hook up wit her and actually c for urself hw she rily looks. And if still u not satisfied, den call it quit and get aonda geh!!!

DailyNews:

I think the best rule if possible should be: If you are a guy & you know you are ugly or say not good looking, not financially able to maintain a normal relationship, pls don't search online, try real life, so u people will know u truly & like u cos of ur person & agree to date or marry u, & if u are a girl & u know u are not obviously pretty, or u know that u are over-aged & not physically gorgeous with an average good character, pls dnt search online to avoid fooling guys & wasting their resources with specially snapped pictures. pls focus on guys within ur physical terrain, so that anyone coming after u must have come cos of ur inner beauty & nt on the I AM PRETTY & HOT GIRl impression u must have created in them through ur special pics. Like this, we can save ourselves all these tales of people going online to look for short-cut when they know they cannot attract anyone in real life based on their entire personality. Pls pls...lets stop fooling ourselves, cos this fooling of guys online via special-effect pics is becoming too rampant among Nigerian sisters! Too bad, lets do sth pls.

And what makes you think they are fooling each other with the pictures like you said? Until you see someone, you truly cannot conclude on the person's looks because pictures could be deceptive. In as much as I do not support the online dating thing, it could be an avenue to meet people and when you see physically, you can then make up your mind what you want to do.

@ OP, if this story is not a fiction, I would suggest you listen to GODFADDA. He has said it all because marriage is not all about looks.

@Ije babe....thanks!

Guys LDRs (long distance relationships) especially with sumone you have not met in person can be frustrating! You need to open your heart! Don't get to attached! But if you get attached, just believe, what you see is what you get!

funky medina: You write like an illiterate? This is obviously a fake story. You havnt left ur village talk less of abroad? Gsm has caused all dis modaphuckers to acces the internet. Ugly ko ugly ni. U claim u went to university but could not travel to another state to see the lady even after u had grown up. Anyway i guess nairaland needs the comments to keep the site intersting

I wonder why people like you keep hugging transformer over what you read online, this is internet for crying out loud

Whatever you read here might be an illusion,fiction and fake stories, so all you have to do is to comment on it as a fiction that has never happened, comment on it as something that has never happened but might be going on in som1's life so they can learn from it

Not insults and showing your low mentality online, we have nothing to learn from it.

LOL
Online love without JPEGS...it's always been a mystery to me

suniblu:

Maybe na peter or moses create am. U kno say peter dey quick vex.

I shouldnt laff but....adun die!

you dont even pity tha future of your kids your child to swear for you cause their friend call dem bonboy or edward beta run b4 it too late

kenny2gbaski: It all started almost 9 years ago, secondary school days, met her via a popular networking mode in a popular newspaper then and we started the normal Online dating, you know all those kinda luv in tokyo stuffs, We do talk on phone like 6hrs out of the whole 24hrs of a day.

She lives in another state and we both promised on seeing each other just the way young lovers do but i happen to have the overprotective type of parents so i couldnt travel out of my own state to see her, explained this to her and she understand and promised to wait for more time. we continued like that for about 3 years until we both gained admissions into different universities, though i chose to study oversea which really made matters complicated cos we hardly talk unlike before

I Decided to move on after 5years of ghost-dating (U know what i mean) and the truth was things wasn't so similar, I ve really fallen so much in love with my unseen girlfriend in such a way that i just couldn't keep physical relationship for more than a month, then get back to my unseen love again, at a point i felf i was going crazy, that continued repeatedly until we lost contact for a whole year, we are both through with school and i v got a good job here back home, now My Parents wants me to get married,

I've been into few relationships but none of this girls seems to be my type of woman to get married to, the only option on my mind was my Unseen girlfriend, though i never saw her but considering the fact that we v talked for almost 8 years and knew each other so well, she seems to be my type of girl, but the problem is i have never seen her, except for an unclear pic she sent to my phone few years back.
Yeah, she was lazy to learn how to browse the internet and use some social sites which would have been better for us both. anyways decided to give her one more shot by getting her new contacts from her friends. gave her a surprise call on her birthday and she was over excited, we talked for some days, had it at the back of my mind to settle down with her, no matter how Beautiful or Ugly she is. later she told me she was now on Facebook, gave her my username to add me. was busy checking my Fb wall every minute for new request, couldn't sleep all through the night, not until morning when i eventually saw the request and accepted.

Guess what?? i met the shocker of my life! I couldn't eat throughout the day, she was pretty much more ugly looking than i can ever imagined, even though i said i ll go for her no matter how ugly she was, but the ugliness was just too much for me to bear. Not even the best makeup could do a good justice to it. Can't even thinking of living at the same roof with her not to talk of going to bed with her. Very short, Chubby with no Cool face whatsoever, she looks more like a younger Patricia in Eddie murphy's "NORBIT" movie. (Those who watched 'll understand).

I'm 6ft tall, a bit dark and kinda muscular, u can imagine my pain considering our appearances especially if we happen to go out together. Now am so confused, I really wanna quit but where would i really start from after getting to know someone for 9 years? i do luv her still but her face and appearance aint doing any justice. My folks are already on my neck concerning marriage issue and the truth is i don't just wanna get married for the sake of doing it.

What do u think?? what would u rather do? leave your 9yr lover for being so ugly and marry someone who u haven't known and studied for so long cos u couldn't stand your last girl's looks?? I need serious advice please. Thanks

How can you fall in love with someone you have never met in person? Is this a joke?

ogbonoeba:

How can you fall in love with someone you have never met in person? Is this a joke?

I can relate to this...a liitle bit though.....

first off...let me laugh... (rolling on the floor and dancing alanta)

AFTER the laughter....
- the fact is, you thought you were inlove but it was never love, you just loved the way you both chatted and flirted on the phone and emails...am sure she was a good talker
- there is nothing you can do about the way she looks, it is either you love her like that or you leave her alone...but if i were you, i will go for the heart that is laced with GOLD and Diamond instead of an outward beauty with a heart filled with mud and filth.

Meet her 1st in physical.

ronkebp:

I can relate to this...a liitle bit though.....

first off...let me laugh... (rolling on the floor and dancing alanta)

AFTER the laughter....
- the fact is, you thought you were inlove but it was never love, you just loved the way you both chatted and flirted on the phone and emails...am sure she was a good talker
- there is nothing you can do about the way she looks, it is either you love her like that or you leave her alone...but if i were you, i will go for the heart that is laced with GOLD and Diamond instead of an outward beauty with a heart filled with mud and filth.

Buhahaha I love how the advices of women always shifts when it is about something that favors them.
I think I remember you being one of those NL girls that are always about "I will never marry short, bald, pot belly, etc etc" and yet toryi don change for here because the tables are turned

2buff:

Buhahaha I love how the advices of women always shifts when it is about something that favors them.
I think I remember you being one of those NL girls that are always about "I will never marry short, bald, pot belly, etc etc" and yet toryi don change for here because the tables are turned

No naaaa!!!!, did you read what he said....the guy was "inlove" or he thought he was inlove with the girl....beauty does not really make a good wife, majority of the time, it is not always about the physical looks....the girl might be "a dream come true of a woman" to the poster, he never can tell....

Personally i do not love without seeing......i gat to see what i would be loving!!!!

ronkebp:

No naaaa!!!!, did you read what he said....the guy was "inlove" or he thought he was inlove with the girl....beauty does not really make a good wife, majority of the time, it is not always about the physical looks....the girl might be "a dream come true of a woman" to the poster, he never can tell....

Personally i do not love without seeing......i gat to see what i would be loving!!!!

Point in bolded. So why you kon dey give am yeye female-serving advice?
Ofcourse she will be the best or be willing to conform to anything to please him if she's not that attractive.
But if a man does not think his gf is beautiful in his eyes, then that one can't work oh.

2buff:

Point in bolded. So why you kon dey give am yeye female-serving advice?
Ofcourse she will be the best or be willing to conform to anything to please him if she's not that attractive.
But if a man does not think his gf is beautiful in his eyes, then that one can't work oh.

You might be right!!!! people are different, it is a matter of principle...i don't love who i don't see, that is just me, the poster chose to love.....but am sure the feelings would have flown out of the window when he saw her....what if the babe used another chic to see his reactions?

ronkebp:

You might be right!!!! people are different, it is a matter of principle...i don't love who i don't see, that is just me, the poster chose to love.....but am sure the feelings would have flown out of the window when he saw her....what if the babe used another chic to see his reactions?

Then the babe is st[i]u[/i]pid and should understand better how these things work.

2buff:

Then the babe is st[i]u[/i]pid and should understand better how these things work.

...that is funny.....can't stop laughing.....

godfadda6: I read through all what has been said on this thread and I decided to share my story!

I had a similar encounter with a lady on a dating website 5years ago, we talked, emailed, called each other back and forth, sometimes for months we wouldn't talk but when we got back we would discuss everything! She was like my confidant and I was like her confidant too, cos it was easy for us to say stuff to ourselves, stuff we wouldn't dear say......

To cut the long story short, I got a job which gave me the opportunity to travel to where she was, when I got there I gave her a call, she was shocked to hear I was in her town, it was hard for us to want to meet, but eventually we summoned courage to meet each other, when I met her I was like OMG, she was like a huge "ballon" (no disrespect).

All I remember I kept saying was "so what's up"!!! We couldn't even talk freely like we used to do through the phone and email, we cooled off, then I went back and retraced all we have said and discussed, and I just discovered I had peace with this lady, we connected in a very special way......

I went back not knowing she felt the same way!!! To cut the story short again, I have looked beyond the way she looks and I have learnt to take her the way she is, and we connect well! Infact we are getting married in November of this year! When my family met her, it was magical, they all loved her, like wise when he folks met me I was like a lost son, her dad calls me like a son he never had!

So my advise is, if u can look beyond beauty and see the connection, but if you can't connect, like someone advised, let her go before it's too late! My 2 cents!

beaitiful one.
U found ur soulmate and held on cos u looked beyond the world's definition of beauty.
And believe me, such a woman will love u like u haven't been loved before.
Congrats on a great married life- in advance

owelle22: Meet her 1st in physical.

LWKMD...physical abi? Issorai!

Omogbhollahorn: you dont even pity tha future of your kids your child to swear for you cause their friend call dem bonboy or edward beta run b4 it too late

owelle22: Meet her 1st in physical.

Roflmao!
Where's the poster sef? Follow @Godfada's advice...shikena

I don't care about "the world's" standard of beauty. Last I checked, it looked like one of the skinny little things they put into Victoria secret underwear ads.
That has nothing to do with my own personal view of beauty. But as the OP said, hers was so bad to him that he could hardly eat after seeing her. I'm not sure that one would work then.

Plastic surgery dey to correct her ugliness.

Again, is there any beauty pageant for toto?

^^^^ Am sure he exagerated...

queensmith:

Chei shymmex is this your girlfriend? We are all equal in the eyes of the Lord sha. Jesu kristi

Are you better looking than her?