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Shyne22: @deedee... So much love for your friend you got. I wish everybody can do same. That said, I think ur frnd should try Astrological match comparison for her dates. I don't say she should blv all she sees there but I bet you it's so rich not just on relationships but on how to live with people around us. If it was possible I would have teach her more on it but she can get it all from surfing the net. It's 99% possible those she has met ain't hers, despite they all left her. There re tns we don't need preaching n quoting bible pages when d knowledge has already been impacted on us. I'm, no voodoo, I'm a catholic but like I said its common knowledge that when we get it we quickly back it up with prayers. Talking from experience cos I now control some personal acts that affects me in the past. Good luck on ur research!!!

Deedee49: Please help out with ur advices if u can!

I have a friend, who is veeeery pretty! She's light in complexion and her skin glows, she's spotless, with long hair.... In summary, she is perfect! She started dating officially at d age of 18. Now 9 years after she started dating,she has a list of about 29 men she's eva dated! She is not a flirt,and dated dis men one at a time. And becos of her beauty men always flock around her,but de neva last! Her longest relationship lasted for 11 months. Now, d problem is, de always complain just before de opt out, dat she's too romantic, too loving, infact too perfect! She decided to be d opposite, and d men still complain she doesn't do enough! Her wish now is for number 30 to be D one, but she's scared to even start dating him! Wat do u advice her to do p ls?!! Pls if u truly wish the best for ur friend do her this great service by linking her up with me,she will never have cause to look for number 31.

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Konnektions146: OP,
i just heard u talk abt Astrology, for what? no provoke me ooo.

anyways, i would say she relax a little and think, she is de only person dat can tell her self de truth, men can be too funny dat dey sweet tongue as dey wanna get somethin from u....moreso dere is somethhin witj VER PRETTY LADIES, seriously most men dont take dem serious.
there is dis general impression dat as u are talkin to her, a lot more is talkin to her and dat as a lady, she will succumb to some advances........thus de natural unseriousness from de guys towards her.

pls ask her to take a break, think and find out where de issues really are coming from
at what point does de relationships start gettin bad??
is she so clingy/over bearin/too jealous, nagging , too demanding, childish,

she should really do a lot of thinking and re-thinking and find out what and where de issue is and i am sure she will be able to identify de faults if she is not too full of her self.

wishin her de best

Deedee49:



Someone actually adviced dat she tries astrology match or sometin like dat! Ur advice is a really good one! Thanks so much!!!