i am in love with my best friend's uncle
the uncle and i both know it ,we talk in code in thepresence of everybody
i am also dating my bestfriend cousin.
the cousin is too timid for a guy but the uncle is my kind of guy.
what do i do and is this normal because the uncle is nine years older than me

How old are you -- to start with? If you're still very young then I'd call that a crush -- just a harmless liking for someone else. I wouldn't recommend you going out with someone far older than you are.

Sitting down and examining just exactly what you find interesting about him might help.

one year remaining to be be away from teens age

Then it's very normal. Just wait it out girl -- he knows you're interested in him and doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Wait it out and it will most likely pass.

peu:

one year remaining to be be away from teens age

So u r 19 soon to be 20. Then the uncle is like 28 soon to be 29. I think that's okay.

But daing, ur best friend is in trouble oo. lol, U dated her cousin, and now u'll leave him to date her uncle, sooner or later u'll choose her daddy. J/k.

Anyways, i think since you both know you so much like each other, things will fall in their places. First of all, you have to leave ur presen boyfriend, cos obviously u r not "in love" with him. Once that's done, ur friends uncle might understand that you need him to "move a step further", and then he can ask u out or something. But again, back to ur friend, do u think she'll approve?

the Uncle has already given green ligth but i did not follow
i respect my bestfriend and my dignity
the uncle refer to his cousin as "babybrother"
that is the reason why i stood at red when the green ligth was on
but i still feel for the uncle
i guess i need help

it's a crush girl wait it out u'll laugh abt it one day and ask urself wht ws i thining?

girlie,you got issues

i guess i will just laugh it out
i believe i have got issues so thank for pointing it out

no its not normal

if that is the way you see it, then thanks,
i am only asking for ur opinion

@hot-angel

tHATS A BIT CRUEL, "SOON SHE WILL CHOSE HER DADDY"

yes its normal, but you have to be very careful,what do u tink they are going to call you??but if you dont care go on girlfriend, >: but i am sceptic,cos it might cause enemity between families

get a hold on your feelings, na people like you dey encourage female circumcision.

my dear it is very normal,if u both love each other u can gho ahead,but if u r below 20 better u watch it, it cud be mere crush

@ poster

o ti like okunrin ju. . . . . . . . iwo nikan ni?

Whats your own and the GUYZ in your best friends FAMILY ? ? ?