Whyy does d word "love" have no usefulness anymore.answers please because i av got my observations&reasons

Sorry do you mean the word "love" has no useful meaning anymore or no use anymore?
Either way I don’t believe that’s the case however I think it’s perhaps an overused word; carelessly and naively employed. Perhaps even a case of mistaken identity as regards to what to term actual feelings and so a feeling not really qualifying as “love” might have been misinterpreted as love thus love is blamed when it may have possibly been an imitation in its stead.

Sapphiredamsel: i av got my observations&reasons

I would like to hear some of your observation and reasons...

yeah,what i mean was dat d word 'love' is being overused &doesnt have d effects it ought to.earlier 2day,i got a call 4rm ma litu bro.mind u,he is just 17.he told me he loves a particular gurl.dis is d fifth tym he wi call 2tel m he loves a gurl-different gurls.what am i as a sister shud tell him 2do? Well,i said just two words;Be Careful....



My second observation is abt one of my nutty 'boifrnds' who claims gurls seem 2fall into his art of seduction weneva he tells them he loves them.



I wi appr8 if evry1 here cud tel m wat love means 2them.

Here we go again. . .

Sapphiredamsel: yeah,what i mean was dat d word 'love' is being overused &doesnt have d effects it ought to.earlier 2day,i got a call 4rm ma litu bro.mind u,he is just 17.he told me he loves a particular gurl.dis is d fifth tym he wi call 2tel m he loves a gurl-different gurls.what am i as a sister shud tell him 2do? Well,i said just two words;Be Careful....

Do you think the word gets cheaper when it's used in the various relationships of the proclaimer?

claremont: Here we go again. . .

Lol...what do you expect from a Romance board ...it's a guaranteed theme of discussion.

The right definition of love ISN'T OVERRATED...

Big difference.

On this here forum, love is used wrongly. Folks here dunno what it is. Loving Niggas they only chat with online. Loving some random chic they spot from a distance. Funny people on here man

There is real love online, bro.

Mrs.Chima:
The right definition of love ISN'T OVERRATED...

Big difference.

#Gbam

Mrs.Chima:
The right definition of love ISN'T OVERRATED...

So, what is the right definition? Your view is highly appreciated.

Sapphiredamsel: yeah,what i mean was dat d word 'love' is being overused &doesnt have d effects it ought to.earlier 2day,i got a call 4rm ma litu bro.mind u,he is just 17.he told me he loves a particular gurl.dis is d fifth tym he wi call 2tel m he loves a gurl-different gurls.what am i as a sister shud tell him 2do? Well,i said just two words;Be Careful....

It takes maturity to understand what love is, definitely not what one experiences during teenage years, I mean with raging hormones and all, more of infatuation in his case.

Sapphiredamsel:

I wi appr8 if evry1 here cud tel m wat love means 2them.

Love is all-encompassing, most importantly seeing someone for who they are, weaknesses, failings and all, yet still wanting to be with them.

So you are hanging your assumptions on your 17 year old brother?
Sad

wats sad abt dat.didnt u notice i gave 2examples among several odas.y picking on ma litu bro's aspect

Sapphire I love you

Sapphiredamsel: wats sad abt dat.didnt u notice i gave 2examples among several odas.y picking on ma litu bro's aspect

You gave your brother's example and you were sure about it but you did not express the same level of certainty in the other example cos for all you and I know, the "boyfriend" might be lying

gudintent,i love u 2

@mynd_44:wateva o jawe

Sapphiredamsel: @mynd_44:wateva o jawe

*hisses*

Long One:

So, what is the right definition? Your view is highly appreciated.



It takes maturity to understand what love is, definitely not what one experiences during teenage years, I mean with raging hormones and all, more of infatuation in his case.



Love is all-encompassing, most importantly seeing someone for who they are, weaknesses, failings and all, yet still wanting to be with them.

The love I am talking about is something many of you will never experience nor wouldn't know if it stuck to your arse. It is pure and wholesome.

underrated I think

Mrs.Chima:


The love I am talking about is something many of you will never experience nor wouldn't know if it stuck to your arse. It is pure and wholesome.

Okay.