Fourcade: Date other girls

ayosmiles: I love her, i wanted to marry her but now i dont knw wht to do. Can dat kind of gal change or shld i leave her.

kilimanjaro: OP,
She's a LovePeddler! Do you wana marry a LovePeddler? Answer the question.....

horny4u: Want to keep her for yourself ....?
ask her to marry you !

ayosmiles: Folks dont think am a fool. I love dis gal cos she could be fun to be with. She told me no sex at d beginnin nd i respect her wish cos i thought she was a good gal. She told me how she was disvirgined nd dat made me love her but she still went back 2 d guy that didnt treat her well. Then she claimed she loved me nd i should not neglect her.

ayosmiles: Folks dont think am a fool. I love dis gal cos she could be fun to be with. She told me no sex at d beginnin nd i respect her wish cos i thought she was a good gal. She told me how she was disvirgined nd dat made me love her but she still went back 2 d guy that didnt treat her well. Then she claimed she loved me nd i should not neglect her.

ayosmiles: Folks dont think am a fool. I love dis gal cos she could be fun to be with. She told me no sex at d beginnin nd i respect her wish cos i thought she was a good gal. She told me how she was disvirgined nd dat made me love her but she still went back 2 d guy that didnt treat her well. Then she claimed she loved me nd i should not neglect her.

Onegai: Marry her. I can't wait to eat rice at your Divorce party! Errr, I meant wedding party...

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kilimanjaro:
Bro, we don't think you are a fool, we know you are a fooool. And the afore-mentioned statement convinced us you are a chronic fool.
Their are millions Naija girls who are fun to be with and their are millions Naija girls who would say no to sex at the beginning of a relationship..... And they yanshing another guy at that moment. Your babe is no exception!
What am i saying? What am saying is :- SHE IS A LovePeddler.

Onegai: Everyone please stop insulting the OP. We've all been here where he is, some form or the other.
OP: she doesn't love you, to her you're the guy who will marry her, her backup. I promise you this! I was in your situation with a guy, while I was crying abt him, everyone and their father told me for sure, he had others, and I was his backup, in case he didn't find a hot version who had a good character. I'm happy now, because I'd rather be no.1. Don't you think you deserve to be no.1? Her jealousy is normal, my ex did the same, she's ensuring no-one snatches her backup while she's playing. Every good player has a dependable backup, and you're hers.

She is NOT for you and she will never be for you, even if you break up and she comes shedding crocodile tears and dressing like MFM, because she's gotten used to using you to stroke her ego and it's a bad and tough habit to break once you've started, ask anyone (99% of us have done it to other people and have had it done to us). What other excuse does a gf have for pretending not to see her man when he meets her in the coy of another guy? She no wan vex that nig.ger, so she no mind disrespecting you. If that other guy had not been important to her, she would walked away to the Numero Uno in her life, and since she didn't come to you, what does that tell you? What she is doing is hurting your ego, and last I checked, Love doesn't hurt you. It simply doesn't.

All the fun you have with her is infatuation, trust me! It is Mango that is overripe and spoiling that is sweet, the feeling of not knowing where you stand with her is making you pursue her. That her behaviour is learnt in Player 101 class (your male friends who have behaved like her towards innocent girls recognise her tactics). Abi you wan see the love letter I write my ex, declaring love while he was doing the same thing your woman dey do?? I never forget am? Better person don come sef!

And I promise once you leave, the tears and MFM attending to get you back will start (because which person in the world doesn't want to know that somewhere there's a guy/girl patiently waiting) once she realises that she is the backup of all those other guys (first guy's gf came to report her, so she definitely is). DO NOT ACCEPT HER BACK. I know someone who accepted the man who used her for backup, he's cheating confidently. Anyone who can cheat on you confidently and openly before marriage will NOT wake up respecting you and not cheating after. There are chicks wearing scarf and carrying bible and faking pregnancy in the crucial days of a relationship to nail a man down, your own is flaunting her flirtations and you wan marry??

If you think you deserve to be no.1 in someone's life, look for someone who treats you right. Or stick with this chick, because hey! You have "fun" times.