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|When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by tcherokee(m): 11:49pm On Jul 25, 2005|
Is it alright to cheat if your not in love
I was talking to one of my girlfriends (as in friend, girl, nothing more ) Today, we started talking about relationships, then I asked her if she had ever cheated on her boyfriend and she said yes.
Curious I asked her why, (you know, to get a females point of view,) and she told me it was because she didn't love the guy she was cheating on her boyfriend with. As far as she was concerned, it was OK to cheat on her boyfriend so far she wasn't in love with the guy she was cheating on him with.
Personally I fail to see the logic behind this reasoning, but then again, maybe it is a girl thing?
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Seun(m): 12:08am On Jul 26, 2005|
A girl or woman is more focussed on the emotional aspect of a relationship, while men are more focussed on the physical aspect.
So sometimes it's possible for a girl to forgive a cheating partner if she's convinced that he's not "in love" with the girl, and maybe she just "seduced" him or something. In the same way, a guy might not feel threatened that you like other guys a bit, provided the other guy doesn't make any attempt to 'touch' you. But when he 'touches', fire will fall from heaven.
So your lady-friend is rationalizing her cheating from a woman's point of view but her boyfriend won't accept such nonsense because he's a man and men look at things differently. When you're in a relationship, you need to be able to look at things from the point of view of someone of the opposite sex.
So if you're a man and you're cheating against your girlfriend just make sure you don't fall in love with the other woman and all will be well. And ladies, please feel free to feel attracted other guys, but do not let them touch you or else you will be in trouble and I won't be there to beg for you!
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by kazey(m): 12:39am On Jul 26, 2005|
When you know, you are not in love?
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Chigszy(f): 2:26am On Jul 26, 2005|
It is not right. It has never been and it will never be right to cheat on your partner. You are not being true to your words.
If you love someone no matter what temptations there are you always keep away from them. You are still hooked up and when you cheat you are only hurting yourself and your boyfriend more and you are more likely to loose him. So it ain't worth it..
It is just plain wrong!
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by kazey(m): 6:20am On Jul 26, 2005|
thank Goodness she didnt say it is Sinful
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by jogego(m): 7:33am On Jul 26, 2005|
Ok I will say it:
It is wrong and sinful. If you are married, it's adultery. If you are not, it's fornication and you should not even be having sex in the first instance.
Yeah yeah, it goes against all I have been saying before, so arrest me.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Motee(f): 8:50am On Jul 26, 2005|
I agree with Jogego that it is wrong and sinful; and I add that it is uncalled for.
Excuse me in here, if you do not love the damn party and you are cheating on him or her, you are messing yourself up because for the fact that he/she is going out with he/she is a favour to both parties and if you feel it not warrantable (if am allowed to use that word), drop the relationship and move ahead.
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by debugger(m): 9:09am On Jul 26, 2005|
Let me correct a motion here, if a guy is a friend to a girl vice versa, no matter hw they seems to ascribe there feelin to each other in words they still seems to be standin alone. My reasonin of sayin this is that, there is no legal covering on friendship.
So u see anytin can go, as long as there is comfort at both end.
i hv seen girls with serious date, yet still hvin fun with a temporal Mr. Nice and after that moment still click back to there date, no happens, is life for u. But i strongly oppose my opinions for the married ones.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by lordimpaq(m): 10:19am On Jul 26, 2005|
it is neva ok to cheat on anybody........
no matter wat...
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by dablessed(f): 12:09pm On Jul 26, 2005|
When you have celebrated 100 yrs wedding anniversary
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by DE-KING(m): 1:14pm On Jul 26, 2005|
It's not right no matter what. So, stay clear such a thing .
Have I made myself clear?
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by twinkledew(f): 1:31pm On Jul 26, 2005|
there is no right time to cheat on a guy. i do not expect people to be cheating. so me reply will be when u urself feel that u are a dumb Bottom person then that is the right time for ya
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by angela k(f): 3:23pm On Jul 26, 2005|
It's okay to cheat on your partner when your partner is cheating on you. Just remember that :
1) HIV/AIDS is in town, and
2) You are offending God ( Fornication/Adultery).
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Chxta(m): 6:13am On Jul 27, 2005|
When it's OK to cheat? No time!
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by K2: 3:50pm On Jul 27, 2005|
Of course it's ok to cheat on your girlfriend but not your wife.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by tayotina(f): 4:27pm On Jul 27, 2005|
When he starts cheating on you of course. Though I know two wrongs don't make a right.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by shockreaction(m): 8:51am On Jul 28, 2005|
It is not ok to cheat, no matter the circumstances. If you're not in love with the person anymore, or if you're no longer interested in the relationship, freaking end it!
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Latoya(f): 1:00pm On Jul 28, 2005|
Cheating makes the game fun,u know what i mean...HIDE & SEEK
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by uche777(f): 3:48pm On Jul 28, 2005|
haba is never o.k
Latoya common be serious for once is someone hrt here we talkin abt not just a log of wood!!!!!!!!!!!!
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Latoya(f): 6:04am On Jul 29, 2005|
Uche i know it someones heart involved,i was just kidding.But come to think of it... dont u think it is fun to cheat??
but do it in such a way that u neva get caught
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by DE-KING(m): 9:52am On Jul 29, 2005|
@ Latoya - What if you get caught?
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by goldenoc(f): 2:45pm On Jul 29, 2005|
ASK LATOYA WHAT WILL HAPPEN IF HE IS BEEN GOT. AND EBI LIKE SAY LATOYA DEY CHEAT HIS GIRL, PLEASE LATOYA IF YOU ARE DOING SO PLEASE STOP IS NOT GOOD AND IS NEVER GOOD
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by mosiate(f): 3:27pm On Jul 29, 2005|
i hate cheating,in all the ways i can cheat my patner
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by Latoya(f): 2:13pm On Jul 30, 2005|
hey Goldenoc first of all i am a girl so i don't cheat on a girl because i am niether les nor bi.
cheating is just for the fun of it and that is it!!! do it in a smart way you know that is if you really have to cheat on your partner.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by hot-angel(f): 11:39am On Jul 31, 2005|
It's like totaly wrong to cheat on your partner. But uhmm, imma flow with the topic and say it's okay to cheat when, you feel you are not really into the relationship anymore.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by solo2(m): 11:45am On Jul 31, 2005|
Cheating, oh, what a bad taste and sinful world we are.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by hot-angel(f): 11:49am On Jul 31, 2005|
solo..u made me laugh..ha..funny. I dunno why it is.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by pintos(m): 2:11pm On Jul 31, 2005|
If you would learn the secret of right relations
look only for the divine in people and things,
Do not cheat and you will never be cheated
and leave all the rest to God.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by gina34(f): 12:19pm On Aug 10, 2005|
is not right at all,
whether u are in love or not.if u are not in love with ur guy what are u
doing with him then, is better for u to get out of the ralationship than
to be cheating on him.
if u can,t stand the heat get out of the kitchen[/glow]
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by otokx(m): 5:45pm On Aug 10, 2005|
cheating is not good.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by WesleyanA(f): 9:22pm On Sep 18, 2005|
it's okay to cheat on your partner when you're not partners anymore.
|Re: When is it OK to Cheat on your Partner? by layi(m): 1:57pm On Sep 19, 2005|
There is never a right way to do a wrong thing
Its never ok to cheat on your partner.
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