Joyland: Fornication is highly abominable to God no matter what the cause is. I would advise that you rescind your mind immediately and ask God the touch your husband's heart. Remember that we shall be judged individually.

chaircover: 2 wrongs do not make a right and certainly not all journeys from A to B encounter the same events during the journey.

Remember that There is a reward for everything that we do and we will be judged individually.

I understand your pain at your husbands infidelity and bringing it to your doorstep was the last straw

However, Let me tell you the truth now, there is no equality between men and women when it comes to issues like this; if your husband catches you cheating, you will be shown the door in disgrace and your children will suffer some of that disgrace too. Everyone would have forgotten that he started it first.

Obviously you need to do something about his cheating or you will just become a mental wreck and start to do things that are foreign to you as you can see for yourself now.

My advise to you is to end your affair and to sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. Let him know how hurt and disappointed you are with his indiscretions and take things from there. make him understand without too much detail that he stands the risk of loosing you if he carrys on like this. His response/actions will direct you on what to do next. This is the time to be on your knees in prayer for your home and you need to be in good standing with God to be able to do that.

A point that you have not mentioned is the risk of STD's with all these affairs that you are both having. You people need to be very careful so you both dont end up biting more than you can chew. You do know that by sleeping with your lover man, you are also indirectly sleeping with all his other girlfriends/wife(s). Same applys to your cheating husband too. A word is enough for the wise and I hope that you and your husband can reclaim your marriage and put it back on the right path after being together for so long and with 4 kids.

ps just noticed that this is one of them stories culled from LI blog. what a waste of my time

Johndoe100: Many a LovePeddler have found many and varied rationals for being sluts. Most of it is just to hide the truth from themselves. Others see them for what they are, CHEAP HOE's.

ebamma: i'll advice u to change for the sex of your kids,because if he finds out,it may lead to divorce and divorced parents don't always bring up great kids.

MRbrownJAY: @OP
People in life have problems AND THEY TRY TO SOLVE THEM, but you showed us all that instead of trying to solve your issues, you put even more problem in your life.
Since you don't love your husband any longer, and he obviously do not love you too, then you guys should divorce as quickly as possible so you guys can live the life that you desire.

Your husband is a slut, you too are a slut, and since the apple never fall too far from the tree, I can already guess what your children will become (while learning from watching what you guys do)

solidbroda: I still wonder y women compete with men. Solomon had 700wives and 300 concubines. Women should know there place. D lady will b d one to blamed because her kids will b affected more on d long run and she would have more to worry about dan little enjoyment she is having now. I just pray her husband is not suspecting her yet

chaircover: My advise to you is to end your affair and to sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. Let him know how hurt and disappointed you are with his indiscretions and take things from there. make him understand without too much detail that he stands the risk of loosing you if he carrys on like this. His response/actions will direct you on what to do next. This is the time to be on your knees in prayer for your home and you need to be in good standing with God to be able to do that.

A point that you have not mentioned is the risk of STD's with all these affairs that you are both having. You people need to be very careful so you both dont end up biting more than you can chew. You do know that by sleeping with your lover man, you are also indirectly sleeping with all his other girlfriends/wife(s). Same applys to your cheating husband too. A word is enough for the wise and I hope that you and your husband can reclaim your marriage and put it back on the right path after being together for so long and with 4 kids.

ps just noticed that this is one of them stories culled from LI blog. what a waste of my time

2mch:

Bro how are you so sure this is not happening to you right now. The way you brag and boast here about your cheating ability and your privilege to cheat. I read that story on the blog and a lot of women are doing it apparently. Odds are your wife is laughing while you think you are the king of your own face me I face you room.

magdalenalisa:
This is my testimonial, prophetharry@ymail.com is the gratest spell caster on the internet, i stumbled on his email address few days ago, so i emailed him about my condition and how my lover left me. He told me it would take 3days to get my ex back to me, my ex was with another girl, so after prophetharry did a reunion love spell. my ex called me 3 days after the work. He spoke to me nicely, asking me if we could try things out again. He broke up with the other girl and came back to me
Magdalena

Is there any woman out there who can help me make sense of this? I didn't even know I was a woman capable of this. Why don't I feel guilty or care that I'm betraying my husband?

Does this make me a bad person? Is there any woman out there who can help me make sense of this? I didn't even know I was a woman capable of this. Why don't I feel guilty or care that I'm betraying my husband?

Kanwulia:

Being an expert on such matters. . . .Welcome to the club sistah!
Nothing like being married and being able to KYEAT like a man
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Siddon for dia jare. . . anyone that gets tired first should repent. Till then. . . the show must go on!!!

lamidex2: I've been married for a number of years now with four children and I was a very faithful wife until a few months ago when I discovered that my husband was having an affair with a close family friend. He had cheated on me many times in the past but this particular affair was the last straw. I decided to pay him back. It was supposed to be just that one time, but the affair has been going on for a few months now. My husband has started noticing my constant absence from our home and my distance from the marriage. I've also become very good at lying about my whereabouts. The issue right now is that despite the fact that I love my husband, I feel no guilt whatsoever. I've never even made any move to stop the affair. Does this make me a bad person? Is there any woman out there who can help me make sense of this? I didn't even know I was a woman capable of this. Why don't I feel guilty or care that I'm betraying my husband?

Culled from Linda Ikeji's blog

chaircover: 2 wrongs do not make a right and certainly not all journeys from A to B encounter the same events during the journey.

Remember that There is a reward for everything that we do and we will be judged individually.

I understand your pain at your husbands infidelity and bringing it to your doorstep was the last straw

However, Let me tell you the truth now, there is no equality between men and women when it comes to issues like this; if your husband catches you cheating, you will be shown the door in disgrace and your children will suffer some of that disgrace too. Everyone would have forgotten that he started it first.

Obviously you need to do something about his cheating or you will just become a mental wreck and start to do things that are foreign to you as you can see for yourself now.

My advise to you is to end your affair and to sit down and have a heart to heart with your husband. Let him know how hurt and disappointed you are with his indiscretions and take things from there. make him understand without too much detail that he stands the risk of loosing you if he carrys on like this. His response/actions will direct you on what to do next. This is the time to be on your knees in prayer for your home and you need to be in good standing with God to be able to do that.

A point that you have not mentioned is the risk of STD's with all these affairs that you are both having. You people need to be very careful so you both dont end up biting more than you can chew. You do know that by sleeping with your lover man, you are also indirectly sleeping with all his other girlfriends/wife(s). Same applys to your cheating husband too. A word is enough for the wise and I hope that you and your husband can reclaim your marriage and put it back on the right path after being together for so long and with 4 kids.

ps just noticed that this is one of them stories culled from LI blog. what a waste of my time