I all i will like to know ur opinion on these pls maybe ur reply can help me, i met ths lady when we are in the first year at university, she is a very religious lady, then i asked her out but she turned me down by telling me she not ready 4 such, i keep asking her and she's always giving me the same answer, now i've made up my mind,but recently she keeps sending me romantic text messages to my phone declaring ironically her love, pls help want can i do i really care about her and i dont want to loose her. thanks

so wht are U waitin 4? . she's now declaring her luv, wht more do U wnt?

guess she may be pretending distance seperate us now

go 4 it boy> cld b gud 4 ya. give it a try

U lover her, and she's declaring her love. What other way do u want. Slow boys annoy me. Hunnie, step on the gas! Gahh lee.

Wel i wish i cud know u personally,cos i have lectured many people on knowing if a girl really likes u.U might cal me d love doctor,bt i prefer sir.Hitch.So,guy der are gals,gis

omo do nothing and God help you make you come post thread say make we help you find the chic

i think i have a new definition for spineless

Maybe you can text her back? I dont know.

please be a man and go for her

:Dwell the girl will love to be around you,will enjoy talking to you,like to look at you,smile at you all th time and all that stuff

No gree! say watin? she play hard to get when she see say men no dey for town again, she start to dey send you text messages. You sef play hard to get jare! let her know say we are important, worthy for her to keep on puting the pressure.

No Bleep up oo!!!

just send me her number and when we start going out and you get unhappy then you know wat to do

Hey guys 4give him. I think he saw this naive girl, fresh in school, and probably know nothing and feel he can have her and manipulate her any how he wants. Now that the girl is showing him green light, he feels the girl has become exposed and probably more exposed than him. Guy i wake up, u are just afraid. No be you say you be runs guy, why u dey fear.

Take my advice, the worst thing u can is to ASSUME dat a girl is in love with u. Wen it comes to ladies, there re NO assumptions; it is either u know she loves u or u dont. Wat u should is this: Invite her ova 4 a chat and bring up the issue b/w both of u, u MUST make her talk i mean REAL talk, she has to explain every detail of d msgs she's been sending. All the best Bro.

i agree , no assumptions. its either black or white

@amaikama, no kill me with laughter ibeg

@ poster,

U cant know,u just got to live under assumption

@poster!! a time will come when even the cripple, you will find to marry you will not see not to mention a full blown man.

R u saying that there is distance that now seperates you two?

How far is the distance?

Is she still in her first year?

Come on man!!! She playing hard to get; she don't want to give it up and make herself look like a loosy goosy. You would not respect that way. Now go play the courtship game with her. Now go!!! Take a shot of whiskey, grab your testicles and be a Man!!! Give her what she wants!!!

slap her. if she retaliate na Bleep up but if she cried and accepted you in her arm, then she luv you.

ITS NEVER A BIG DEAL, PUT HER TO TEST