My by force fiancee claimed to love everything about me. She do call be baby, sweetheart, daddy, honey, hope etc and do chop my lips of sometimes in d name of love. I tested her love last month by telling her dat my business is down, i can't even pay my rent or continue with my Msc. Program due 2 finance and i'm owing some people. Do u know what happened after some days, this girl stop calling and picking my calls. The day she manage to pick the call she told me that sorry she can't continue with the relationship because were incompatible. Thank God 4 testing her b4 marriage

seriously

Go do thanksgiving....

Mukekeke this is a test every guy in naija needs to do.
No dulling my friends...no dulling at all.

what should she have done?

Both male and female in 9ja must conduct this test. Nigerians are becoming too materialistic. Its appalling that money seems to be d primary deciding factor in a relationship.

Yesterday my cab driver told me a story. Tribalists sorry o. The guy is Yoruba. He told me abt his Igbo fiancee who him loved like no another woman in his life. Infact he was almost crying as he narrated the story. This was a lady that he had completed all the traditional marriage rites and was already liviing with. He single handedly opened a hair salon for her and equiped it well. He always made sure that lacked nothing basic financiailly. Then he was a staff in an Oil Servincing firm.

Ngozi, that's her name, claimed to love him for better for worse and nothing he did could make her leave him. As a result, he was ready to cross the ocean for her. One day, no quarrel o, nGozi came home and started packing her things. She said he wasn't educated enough, he was yoruba and he couldn't take care of her financially. She said that they were not meant for each other.

He cried and pleaded but to bo avail. He was going literarily crazy. Infact one day, he was bathing in the bathroom and heard someone shouting, "Ngozi!" Outside. This guy jumped out naked into the street thinking she was back only to find out that this Ngozi was someone else. He got to her from ppl that she was now living with a very wealthy young Igbo dude and drivng exotic cars. His madness increased and he had to be sent to Ogun state his villa to be treated.

1yr later, Ngozi and her bobo were killed by masked gunmen. He richman bobo was an armed robbber and his had incurred d wrath another criminal and gang. My guy still dey weep for this lady.

Anyway now he is happily married with 5kids, has his own bungalow and cab business. His wife is also a pretty, godly and hardworking woman.

Awww

Kittykart, Hence forth I won't touch a Nigerian Girl with a 1000meter pole

Bankruptcy + Nigerian girl = incompatible.

A lesson learned.

If he's still crying over his ex then he's not happily married

190: Awww

Kittykart, Hence forth I won't touch a Nigerian Girl with a 1000meter pole

Including moi?

U я nt Nigerian

ThiefOfHearts: If he's still crying over his ex then he's not happily married

Some hurts are to deep to forget....Imagine given someone the world, everything you have and being completely honest and the person repaying u back with shit and dishonesty....Could actually make a man go mad.

2be honest d dude shud be happy she's dead

Dats d best u can ever wish an ingrate of an ex

@Poster. Ur testimony shud be the loudest in church on sunday

CHEERs

Guys, this is not new. Many ladies are so attached to material things that you get so pissed off. But it is worthy of note that these girls that misbehave are product of poverty stricken homes and the wanna be gangstress. I became so bad because of these materialistic ladies. The good thing is that there are lot of Good girls who are very sane and are disciplined. Also note that all women have their problems. They have a complaint for every season. If you meet all their needs, they will tell you "is it money that will give me joy" , they need your presence, when you give them presence and attention without money , they will say they cant cope with a broke guy. If you do the two, they will be too tired of you and tell you you should add fun and spices to the relationship. If you add spices, they will say you are cheating on them because of all the places you know and you are outgoing. They will start to suspect you. Staying with women is an alliance with mixed feelings. it can only be really frustrating and could be fun. Lastly, if you are seeing are love alone, wait your time is coming, you will see her other Side.

It happens everywhere...not only in nigeria........

A gal is like a landlord,her body is the land. a tenant comes and build bungalow ,....later the landlord tels the tenant to leave that he has seen a better tenant who can pay more landrent....
Years later, she tels the new tenant to leave cos she found a tenant to convert the bungalow to duplex..,
she owns the land she can do as she wishes


MORAL LESSON

DON'T SPEND MUCH ON WHAT IS NOT URS...D OWNER CAN TAKE IT FROM YOU ANYTIME...

First make her yours, by mariage and children bèfore investing on her.,..AS LONG AS SHE IS SINGLE, SHE IS AVAILABLE FOR A HIGHER BIDDER

190: 2be honest d dude shud be happy she's dead

Dats d best u can ever wish an ingrate of an ex

Did you kill her?

Oshoronga. . .

ThiefOfHearts: what should she have done?

ThiefOfHearts: If he's still crying over his ex then he's not happily married

Not surprised with your comments, your username says it all

@ tobechi74:

Even after 2-3, another man fit collect am for ur hand.
Basically, marriage n children are not strong reasons for a woman not to Walk, if the tendencies r present.

What u need is to shine ya eyes well... work at ur relationship n hope for the best.

Hmm

12 inches!:


Some hurts are to deep to forget....Imagine given someone the world, everything you have and being completely honest and the person repaying u back with shit and dishonesty....Could actually make a man go mad.

He's not happily married esp since he's telling this story to a random person he picked up. If he was happy he wouoldnt even remember that mess not to talk of telling strangers

ThiefOfHearts:

He's not happily married esp since he's telling this story to a random person he picked up. If he was happy he wouoldnt even remember that mess not to talk of telling strangers

We tend to assume a lot. I am not a random persom. He is the only cab driver that carries me. I know his house, his kids and his whole family and its vice versa. Moreover something led to it. I also believe that his emotional reactions is as a result of what the lady sufferedand not abt him.

ThiefOfHearts: what should she have done?

HANG ON!